Oh...the weddings already taken place... :-s ma bad

LoL Ibti, hoorta i'm sure we all know that the 85 guest who are actually invited will turn into 300 sweaty, uninvited hungry qaxootis all gaging to get a spot in the video, and as soon as they hear 'free shisha' that 300 will turn into 400! I say you wear a xaaaax black and green dirac(black goes with everything)and a matching shalmad/hijab(i can't be encouraging you to show ur sexc hair)

LoooooooooL 11 pages??? hahaha Dayum I'm good Ibti and paragon, LoL They can't get rid of me that easily anyway I got to shoot off, i'll be back soon inshallah Don't miss me too much my fellow qaxootis...

LoL She's a mod?....*Shock Shock, horror, horror* arh oh well I guess I have def added much needed new flavour/a bit of spice to this place! and who cares if you lot don't agree? Peace iyo luv somalis

LoL You call that being rude?..sii soco Acudubilla, grow up! anyway goodbye

snotty??? Did you not read some of their comments????...I didn't mean to come across as 'snotty' I was merley expressing my views, off course people are allowed to disagree with what i say, we all think DIFFERENTLY. anyway this is getting tedious now I dnt know why people are getting worked up and emtional it's a FORUM, Everyones here to EXPRESS their views!

LooooL, why are people making out im some sad, little nieve girl who's got no hopes and ambitions in life??? Some people are obviously INTIMIDATED by my way of thinking, i'd like to consider myself as a young women of moral excellence, true to my nature, not confused by alien and morally bankrupt ideas. I perform my duties knowing that my role is clearly defined and that my rights are still, even today, greater than what any other ideology has provided. Ta Ta!

^^Go on share your thoughts? more insults? I'm out of this topic...peace x

LoL How about I jst be mean and tell you to 'SHaaaat it'

LooooL Jokarad I really don't know what I would ask for, It dosen't have to be money so thats o.k I suppose

LoL I figured

^^LoL Acudubilla@cara...Can't someone on here voice their opinion without sly lil' insults Issues.

What would ya'll ask for as a dower/mahr?

LooL~malika...erm ok <--Totally confused

LoooL, This place is mad Naw, she said I offended her and that weren't my intentions so it's only right that I appologise, i wasn't appologising for how I feel, I'm true to myself and if some people want to consider me appologising as a 'weakness' then thats their business

LoL@Blessed Malika, I sincerley appologise for offending you walaalo, that was honestly not my attention so iga raaliahow(don't mind my af somali) I wouldn't say I was making 'assumption's I was just stating my opinion based on what i've seen. But I understand where your coming from walaalo.

LoL Ok. Im getting scared now :eek: Anyway habeen wanagsan all (No hard feelings)

LooooooooooL Should I be scared markas?

LoooooooL@Naden

Blessed, as for your question 'what makes a women a women?' I'm not talking about any women, i'm talking about the muslim women... 1)She worships her lord 2)She takes care of herself(good appearance ect) 3)She takes care of her mind by persuing knowledge 4)She perfoms acts of worship 5)She treats her parents and elders with respect 6)She is obident to her husband and dosen't neglect his needs 7)She understand the great responsibility that she has towards her children 8)She has a good attitude towards others 9)She does not imitate the men 10)She calls others to islam... and plenty more

LoooL, are you being serious walaalo? A women must remain a women, because with this quality, she can find happines or bring it to others.Sorry but I choose not to pay any attention to the nonsense calls of jaahiliyah.

Ma bad, i'm not saying 'ALL', wan ka xumahay, as i said ealier ..if sisters work in specialised areas such as befits their feminine nature and will not compromise with their deen then go ahead, naden, walaalo are you telling me that some sisters don't work in such enviroments?

LoL@ The zack erm...thanx I suppose

I wasn't putting ALL the blame on women walaalo, I was merley stating the fact that, women going out to work is amongst the many reasons why marriges tend to fail.

LoL Naden...thanks LoL Haneefah and paragon you 2 make me laugh, Haneefah, thanx for the wlc hunno Layzie G, how you mean 'we have come along way and have invested far too much to pay any mind to the likes of you'. ..Sounds like a personal attack Anyway sis I respect your views, it's your life, do as you please I just personally refuse to be thrown into the battlefield of work, where we must compete with men to take their place or share their positions, when there is no need to do so and the interests of society as a whole do not require it. I refuse to become some cheap commodity that is fought over by the greedy capitalists, or some gaudy doll whose company is enjoyed by immoral so-called men. I'd rather be at home catering to my husband, looking after my children and worshipping my lord. The prophet (saw) said 'If I were to order anyone to proterate to anyone else, I would have ordered women to prostrate to their husbands'