Girl if you don't stop this your gonna have us falling in love all over the place Isn't that what the world needs right now?...Lol. Thanx...I just happen to like to write about love. .:peace n luv:.

You Touched My Heart... I feel alot different ever since you came into my life, And I still wait for the day you ask me to be your wife, I never expected to fall so deep when we just met, And it was you who perdicted about how I felt, You said "Girl, your gonna love me one day, watch" Me thinking you playing round, I never thought, That I'd be lying here on my bed just thinking of you, And how I should or if I would, break the news, All my girls wonder what I'm so happy about, When I'm not with you it's your name I wanna shout, It feels so good when your arms around me boy, And the way you hold me and kiss me brings me joy, Looking in your eyes I seem to see your soul, And the way you smile at me I know you won't lose control, Your the kinda man I wanted, Your the kinda man I need, Someone who's happy to be with some one like me, Ever since that day you approached me, you touched my heart, And I pray every night that we would never be apart, Late at night I wish to be where you are, And even when your so close, you seem too far, Always been there for me as a friend and lover, If you ever leave me boy there won't be another, I don't think I'd beable to breathe if you ever leave me, Cause your the only man that loved me for me, And since you taken a piece of me, I don't wanna be apart, Because your the only one that touched my heart... .:peace n luv:.

Originally posted by Zaylici: Basalm, there is a man who is always ready to dicuss on the issues of women, he considers him self a lover of women, he is particularly interested in educated women, I encourage you and others to visit the following website. you can find significant information about him and his picture too. http://www.somalilife.com/modules.php?name=FriendFinder&op=userinfo&ffusername=Zaylici He goes by the name Zaylici. Hope you find something that makes you happy Till then life goes as it is unless intervened and shaped as the actor wishes. Lol...Looks like someone is interested in you, girl. Zaylici, are you advertising yourself? Seems like you are. Lol. Girl, if marriage is what you want, make it happen. My advice is Follow Your Heart. .:peace n luv:.

Mizz Lexus, That is showing love...without spending a dime . But if he likes maxing out his credit card then he should buy her gifts, take her out to expensive resturants, send her flowers and chocolates...but HEY! if you don't like spending money (or you just cheap) a simple I LOVE YOU would do. CLOWN, why is it every topic Mizz Lexus says something, you reply about Shyhem and OG_Moti?...Just wondering. If I was her I'd get annoyed by now. .:peace n luv:.

Hmmm...looks like someone is afraid to say "I Love You"...Lol. This is what I do when it comes to hinting it out that I love him...I simply just hug/kiss him alot. I tell him that he's important. I help him out when he needs me. I listen to his stories or problems or whatever it is. I just chill with him. Put nice slow tunes on so we can sit and reminise. When I'm out with him and his friends and my friends I try to just have fun. I try not to crowd his space. I give him eye-contact. I whisper in his ears. I agrue with him you prolly thinking that ain't showing love, but people who know me know that when I argue bout the lil things I care for the person. If I didnt I just walk away. Anywayz hope that gives you some ideas. .:peace n luv:.

S.U.N.S.E.T I sent you something back;) .:peace n luv:.

who got played? My friend? Or the newly married brother? Obviously both guys got played. But hun, not all women think men are players, don't generalize. But this story kinda odd na mean. Why would she tell him she's getting married to the next guy. Why didn't she just lie and say it wasn't working out...or some other excuse. Cause the way she told the brotha, damn it gotta hurt. Even if I was a lying, two-timing, daughter of a -----, I would atleast have the heart to end things nicely. Lol. Bottom line is, its not that we call you players, we just found a better way to get ya'll back . Lol. .:peace n luv:.

Gediid...I get your point, I'm just tryna say that if this is obviously a problem, we shouldnt blame women or men. We should try to atleast make sure it doesn't happen in the future. Lucky you right girl, we should try to educate our people about this. But do you think they would listen to us? especially stubborn mothers?...Not sayin all are stubborn. .:peace n luv:.

They treat you like a bum, No champange all you drink is rum, But don't let their critizes turn you down, Show them that you can turn the tables round, They consider you a lower class, Maybe you shouldn't be grabbin every chick's ass, But what do you know? What do you care? They talk and you think talk is cheap, ain't that fair, You have all that you need in the world, right? You got the cars, the wealth, the girls, right? But what happens when someone takes your life? Just cause you been degraded, don't make it right, I'm here for you, as long as you can prove you better then that, I'll care for you, as long as you can show that life ain't like that, But you too thugish, thinking I talk rubbish, But hun, you gotta love this, not tryna pull some shit, You got fit physic, nice eyes, with lusicious lips, But girls don't see you for what you is, They check and think "this nigga thinks hes a pimp" All you want is a piece of that jelly they be shakin' All you need is a sex so great it leaves you shakin' I feel pity that you don't realize what rumors bring, Behind your back they be like "here comes the king" And that ain't no compliment, thats sarcasem, All I ask is for you to prove them wrong, Show them whatchu made of, don't let them degrade ya .:peace n luv:.

Whoz to blame?! Blame only causes more problems. I suggest what Latiif said. Whats done in the past is done. Women now a days here in the west don't go through circumcison (well most I believe). If we try to make sure FGM doesnt happen to our daughters, sisters, cuzins, and so on, the faster it will stop. .:peace n luv:.

If you were a cutie, I'd prolly won't be mad at all... Just Kidding, that was such a funny incident.Lol. I can't help but laugh, not at you, of course, but at the situation you were in. Consider your self lucky, you got a lap dance for free of charge.Lol. .:peace n love:.

What Up S.U.N.S.E.T?! I just had to reply to your poem, its really good. I just had to give you my version, na mean. Keep it real hun. .:peace n luv:.

He's the kinda nigga that can make you smile, He's the kinda nigga that won't leave ya side, He's the kinda nigga that brings shivers down your spine, He's the kinda nigga that I wish he's only mines, He's the kinda nigga that has the right gear, sweet Lex, He got a the right ice, with nice bergets, He's the kinda nigga that ain't in for the sex, Cause he's been through alot, he just wants a reguler chick, He's the kinda nigga, who's done with the whole playa shit, Looks both ways before he trys to get with a chick, "No More Drama" written on the back of his Lex, When he goes in a club, all the girls turn and check, He makes every women in there wanna just leave with him, But he ain't into them, he don't wanna bother with them, Cause they don't see behind his clothes and cash, Cause every girl he see's only wants what they can grab, And I wish he knew I ain't like all of them, but then again, I know I won't be able to last in his league, He's the kinda nigga that looks at a chick and flashes the green, Then watchs her reaction, disgusted then leaves He's the kinda nigga you wanna acknowledge, But I must be a "chicken" cuz I can't holla at him... "I Wish I Never Met Him" .:peace n luv:.

You want four wives, thats cool, But love them all equally, can you? Women getting mad that you think you can have em all, But remember if you following the "religion" you can only have four, But I doubt that you'll last very long, Because in your heart, where will you belong? Is it the 1st, 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife? Which one will love you most? Which one would wanna take your life? How many kids do you plan to have with each? Will you be there for all of them when they weep? Forget supporting them finacially, Can you support them mentally, physically? Are you truely happy? Are you inlove with all of them? Or is it for the sex? Then leave when you can, Are you ready to commit with all four, Are you ready to move back to your home town, Cause up in North America you can't have more then 1 wife and be down, So all I'm a say is what you decide is up to you, But becareful consiquences happen out of each choice you make and do... .:peace n luv:.

Lucky, although I don't have the answer to your question. I too would like to know this. .:peace n luv:.

No acceptance lead me to be here with no will to carry on, What was once a beautiful rose, now lies ugly and stung, Are you happy that i cry here now, are you happy you won, You made this powerful attraction i had become strong, You lead me to believe that we as one can succeed, Only been fooled once again, when will this end for me, This is truely painful love, where i can't erase you from my mind, I try to run away, try to forget, but your there time after time, Just yesturday i coulda swore i heard you call my name, You see how you regecting me got me going insane, but i refuse to let you back in my life once again, So you can take control of me, you'll never change, If i learned one thing is that i dont have a heart no more, You might as well let you just run my life and take control .:peace n luv:.

A True Thug I See... All That I Said, I Know You Can't Be, But Attention, Affection, Direction Is All That I need, Just Be There, Let The Rest Come Naturally, Just Give It A Chance, Just Believe, I Don't Run Off With Diff Men Easily, I Know Sometimes I'm Hard To Please, But One Day You'll Know What It Is To Be... IN LOVE! .:peace n luv:.

Nuune, you out done yourself this time . Thanx for the story. I was actually thinking...Hmmm...another argument about having four wives. Taught me not to judge a book by its cover. Lol. .:peace n luv:.

Wow...the CLOWN proved me wrong. I'm so proud :rolleyes: On the real thou, like I said, there are times when touching is not what I want. And when I say touching, you guys took it different. I don't mean Hugs And Kisses (And Messages). I mean grabbing places, like the booty or the tits or the thighs. See I can take only some level of touching, but thats extreme. .:peace n luv:.

Lol. Ok There Bro. Hopefully I Will Meet A Soul-Mate, As For Now I'm Just Gonna Enjoy Life In What It Brings. .:peace n luv:.

OKAY BRO...First Let Me Point Out That It'z Just A Poem...I Know That There Is No Man Like That. Come On :rolleyes: Do I Look That Foolish To You! For Anyone Else, Please Don't Take What I Write (in this section) Seriously. .:peace n luv:.

Somealien, Im speachless...Damn Girl, I never thought you had it in you. As for Shaka Zulu, abbowa I don't remember no agreement about he said she said things. First of all no one is saying...she said, he said. I'm just simply wondering what our somali women think of this song. Thats all. .:peace n luv:.

What I Want In A Man I want a man who's close but then gives me space to breathe I want a man who's rough, but knows to be gentle when I need Someone who understands, stays loyal and true, Someone who don't trip, or lie, or game me for a fool, I want a man who's sweet, kind and knows when to be nice, Someone I can depend, someone whos puts his life before mines I want a man who knows when he's wrong and admits, A man who never try's to hurt me or do that kinda shit, I want a man who's funny but knows when to be serious, I want a man who's patient and don't rush cause he's curious A down to earth brother, who I can speak with intellectually, Someone who don't bug about things we do sexually, I want a man who knows the limits, and can back off, Someone who don't bring me drama, like hit and drop, I want a man who's cool, can make me laugh when I'm stressed, Someone who can love me for me at his best, I want a man who don't check other women while he's with me, If you wanna commit, then don't make me compete, A man who holds me down, touches me like I'm fragile, I want a man who actually stays around for awhile, Someone good to look at, great to be with, A brother who I can joke with, whoever he's with, A man who don't listen to what his friends tell him, If he wants to know the truth ask me not them, Someone who see's me as a person not a item, I want a man who don't just wanna **** and ride them, I want a man who wants me for me and not to use, If you got those qualities, then I guess I want you. .:peace n luv:.

Lol...I asked a simple question and this turns out to be a whole lil "love" scene. You ppl make me sick...Lol. Playin... CLOWN if he's showing love to me, it don't have to be in that form. It could be in different ways. Plus I'm not saying touching is all bad. But there are times when I just wanna conversate and there aint gotta be touchy momments.

Sonmealien...I coulda swore you were a guy. Lol. Well atleast now I know by not looking like a fool. Back to the topic... 1. Men who are concieded. 2. Men who think they're stronger then girls (Like hello...last time I checked it was a Women who carried a 8 pound baby in their belly.) 3. Men who are perverts. 4. Men who can't clean after themselves. 5. Men who only want a perfect, fit women. (Most women aint fit, and you aint perfect either) 5. Men who use religion and culture against us. (First apply to it before you use it as a backup, hypocrite.) 6. Men with no brain. (Hows that for you Darman?) 7. Men who just plain arrogant. 8. Men in general...I should Join the anti-men movement. (I'm Joking ofcourse ) ...Thats all for now folks... .:peace n luv:.