I would get his azz checked not once but twice. Trust?! Did you say trust?! Ha..don't make me laugh, trust is just a "word" with no meaning to me. Plus, some of these brothers think they can fool us women, you brag about having slept with a bunch of women, now you can't get yourself atleast checked to make sure those hooligans didn't put some kinda sickness in you. .:peace n luv:.

This girl makes me feel the need to take the next flight to the states and slap her till her brain starts working again. She got her "FREEDOM" which allows her to do whatever she wants now, but how long will that last?! Hmmm...This girl will soon start weeping for her mother and father's love. She will realize that she did wrong. Damn, if I was away for a day from my parents it would hurt me inside, although they yell and hit me everytime I did a mistake, they are my parents and I love them to death. Damn, wallahi I dunno but I don't like this girl, she disgusts me in all manners. I'm Out. .:peace n luv:.

Does that mean I can't go out with him no more? :eek: .:peace n luv:.

Hmmm...good idea...we should start by nomonee's (people who are runner-ups for each award) Here are the people that I think should get awards... Somali Nomad Nationalist - Shaka Zulu...I like his name lol and he has good writing skills. SOL True Friends - I think this goes to Mizz_Unique...She is really nice. Best Avatar - Definitely Section6er...cool avatars! Best Advice Giver - Magnoona Girl Funnest SOL Nomad - Rudy...he cracks me up. Most Friendly - Flying_Still...she's really nice to talk to...plus she gets alot of attention from guys... girl give me some tips. Best Poet - I have to give this out to two people, MsWord and Deadly_Vision. Check them out in Poetry Forum. Most Stand Out Person - This goes out to Lucky...I dunno she stands out for me. Best Women Moderator - Ameenah...She's cool. Most Sarcastic Nomad - Barwaaqo...plus I like her name lol. Those are my choices...These are the people that stand out to me when I read the posts. .:peace n luv:.

What is this? Ya'll people cracking me up! .:peace n luv:.

I forgot to tell you what mines is by the way..Lol. I got 4 A's and 4 B's. Guess I'm a down-to-earth actionist . .:peace n luv:.

What Type Of Person Are You When It Comes To Solving Problems? Hello Nomads, this is a quiz to see if you fit one of the following groups on the bottom. Answer 5 questions by picking which is most like you A , B or C and add your total. At the bottom will tell you which group you belong to. 1. Your best-friend is recently dating the person you always had a crush on and they know it. Do you... A. have a quiet talk with them about what's bugging you and hope they would understand. B. beat the crap out of them because you know what type of person they are. C. you just get them back, go out with their secret crush or embarrass them every chance you get. 2. You just heard a vicious lie said about you by a reliable source. Do you... A. go to the person and have a word with them, they have to have a good reason right? B. knock them out without asking for explanation. C. just spread a rumor about them and what they did last night. 3. Your boy/girl-friend was caught cheating on you by your best-friend. Do you... A. believe your friend is mistaken and ask your partner yourself. B. approach the so-called boy/girl-friend and teach them a thing or two about cheating. C. cheat on them with a friend of theirs so they would get hurt as well. 4. Your ex was found to be spreading rumors about you. Do you... A. just let it pass by, their probably jealous your happy without them. B. go to them and put a end to these rumors your style. C. spread a rumor about them about the last embarrasing thing they did when you went out with them. 5. Someone tells you your best-friend just told alot of people about your personal stuff. Do you... A. confront them, after all it might not be true. B. take them to a cornor and mess them up bad, you thought that was your best-friend. C. tell everyone about what kinda person they are when they alone with their partner. 6. Your at work and one of your co-worker gets a little to intamite with you. Do you... A. have a private word with them. B. Slap them for getting to close, who do they think they are anyway. C. you get intamite with them and see if you can get them naked on camera. 7. You were just told by your boss that you can no longer work in the department. Do you... A. ask for an explaination and another chance, you were wronged. B. knock them out, you don't deserve to be fired, what did you do anyway. C. wait till their gone and burn a couple of important paper works of theirs. 8. You went to a store to buy a few items and the chasier accuses you of stealing. Do you... A. ask to speak to the manager and have a look at the security camera, there must be a mistake. B. grap them by the neck and ask them to buzz-off. C. decide to steal the next time, since this time you know you didn't and they would think of you as a victim. 4-8 A's -> Down-To-Earth - You like to solve problems with not alot of fuss, your calm and focused. You tend to be optimastic and understanding. 4-8 B's -> Actionist - Your all action and no talk, easiest way for you to solve your problems is knock the person out. Your hardly understanding and you don't wait for reasoning. You rather get it over with. 4-8 C's -> Hater - The only way you solve your problems is by causing more problems. You never get to the root of the problem, too blind. You like to hurt the person by getting revenge. It's the easiest way out for you. It is best to answer them honestly for correct results. .:peace n luv:.

...This story is a bit far-fetched don't you think? Therefore I cannot do anything in this situation, because I'd never be in it! .:peace n luv:.

Two-Face is a whole nother story all together. Lol. I don't wanna get in detail with that. I had my shares of ups and downs with somali and I shall wait till one day for the hate in my heart goes away like Kaafi said. I'm still waiting... .:peace n luv:.

Hello Silent Sistah, I agree with you 110%. I went through the I hate Somali's stage and went back to my non-somali friends. Guess what? Life couldn't be much better. No more lies and gossip said about me behind my back. No more drama and problems. No more fights. No more she-said-he-said. And what I also realized is Somali's even though you spend your time away from them they still back-bit you. Thats why I still hate them. The only place I can exchange ideas/thoughts/opinions/information with Somali's is on SOL. I met alot of nice folks here, but I still don't dream of returning back to my people. They lost my trust/faith in them. And to gain that will take a very long time. When your aunt told you to stay away, you should have listen. Thats what I regret as well, not listening to my mother cost me to have a bad reputation in some places because of the lies they spread. To those who told you that hate is a strong word, don't listen to them. Cause if you become friends with them all they will do is bring you down, TRUST ME . Although most of the nomads are tryna tell you that their are good Somali's out there, I have yet to see them. Therefore if you let your gaurd down you will be hurt once again. In real-life, I bet that you will never find a trustable, reliable Somali. It's a garantee. Only here we show our good side because we don't need to be rude, because we do not really know eachother. If we did SOL would become a chaos like Somalinet. All I have to say is, be smart, don't stick around with them. Good-Luck and Keep your head up. .:peace n luv:.

Awww...some guy you wouldn't know about. Lol. But if we tell you what will you gain from this? Just wondering C.B. And why don't you tell us who you wanna spend the rest of your life with. .:peace n luv:.

dp, secrets need to be heard by the intended ears! give me time to figure out my crime! if did one. do u really want to hurt me! i know i have fire burning in my heart!lol... is it love u want from me than take it away! In that case I'ma keep my secrets to myself. I don't need your love, hun :rolleyes: . well sista lucky, my traits r quite simple!!! -xalimo must make at least $25k or > in cali u gotta be able to handle mortgage. so both couple need to produce income. -u gotta be nice to all my lady friends. word! they my lovers but just friends. -use must not be not more than 130lbs. -use must be drug free. -all the rest, i will be willing to teach u once we close the door!!!!!!!!!! yall ask for it...so here its! i think its quite simple, dont u agree sistas. Very interesting list...Only one thing don't apply to me. But hey what do I care right. It's not like I want you . .:peace n luv:.

I say let them have their MEN forum. I'm very interested to see what they talk about other then increasing or decreasing the you-know-what. .:peace n luv:.

Hey abbayo, I think your cusin should follow her heart. Although I can see why she thinks education is important so do I. But as long as the guy has a career/job and makes money that should be enough. Anywayz I agree with Juxa...just get to know him better and be very aware. When you say the guy is a cusin...How close is he related to you and your cusin? Just curious. I was always the type of girl who planned to never fall for a cusin. I just don't find it...a good thing. Although I know its not haraam. (Thats my oppinon thou, don't mind me ) .:peace n luv:.

Originally posted by somealien: quote:Originally posted by underdog: quote: Originally posted by somealien: isnt it obvious? you yrself dont feel comfortable with him anymore, i say thats grounds enough to break up with him. What????? You're one of those chronically single women, aren't you? ( you don't have to answer that - you know yourself and I won't believe you if you say you're not). Just like that break it off. what ever happened to stuff like..."talk to him and tell him you're not ready". A little quick on the trigger there...slow down a little. i may be wrong and alone in this but does anyone get the feeling EBN is like, 15? anyways maybe i was a lil quick on the trigger but if she is 15, than my statement remains unchanged. now, to get to the matter of yr above statement, what is this you have against me underdog? still healing old wounds from past lovers or something? did i force you to relive a past break-up? whatever it is, just remember celibacy or being "single" isnt an afflicton and if it were, i dont think the best cure would be getting groped and felt up by some guy. yr right though, i didnt leave room for this "guy" to right himself, but if she is in high school like she sounds, (i cant be the only one who thinks this, and if im wrong than i apologize) than i still stand by my statement. not long ago you railed on me for being pro-choice and said that at the root of the issue we were discussing was pre-marital sex. well guess what, its even harder to abstain from such activities as a teenager than it is as an adult whos got their head straight and knows how to deal with such a situation; which is why i think shes young, most girls over 17 wouldnt ask this in a msg board. 15? Hun don't jump to conclusions...about 15...I'm done highschool. Another thing just cause I ask advice doesn't give you the right to assume that asking something means I'm a youngin. Just cause "most girls over 17" don't ask doesn't mean I CAN'T. .:peace n luv:.

Rudy...hun whatchu talking about "exotic dancer"? Lol. I never said nothing about that. Well anywayz you have a good lawyer. Mizz_Skyliner sorry, I just had to reply to his comment. You'll understand one day;). No one is arguing, just chit-chatting. .:peace n luv:.

I mistreat it, I give it out plentily, I Jamaal, your my new best friend ! By the way money doesn't rule my life. It owns it. Ah well what can I do....**sigh** .:peace n luv:.

Rudy it was only a "if" I was a man. I won't actually do it. .:peace n luv:.

Modesty, did this come out as a shock to you? Because I see everyday Somali's, and other musliim women holding hands of men. The sad thing is we later find out that this women is single. But we hear this so often that we decided some Musliims are losing their religion. But I always try to be positive about it cause you never know they might be just rumors. .:peace n luv:.

Thank you abbayo. That is a touching piece. You made me open my eyes. Out of curiosity...did you write this? If you did, girl you should publish it on a flyer or something so other musliim people can read it and be reminded. .:peace n luv:.

Nice tips abbayo...from their complaints they really need it . .:peace n luv:.

That's not a flirt to me hun, It's way too weak! Anywayz I like a guy who flirts with class. Who knows the limits. I find very sexy indeed;). .:peace n luv:.

LOL Rudy poor you. You need a Xaliimo...Any takes ladies? Anywayz, I have a secret crush...actually two...should I say? Hmmm. I rather not till next time. .:peace n luv:.

"People don't necessarily equate sex with love any more. They recognize sex can be recreational. It can be fun." Acudubillah!! :eek: Maryan you can say that again. MMA where did you get this article from? But what I noticed is only gaalo doing this. Are you saying Musliims are next? I hope not. .:peace n luv:.

WLC MiZz_Skyline_GTR...Have Fun Here...Stay Out Of Trouble...Or You'll End Up Like Rudy (He Follows After His Name). mizz skyline dont worry u gonna have a ball ok! but smacking is only allowed for the nomads so while u still an alien, keep dreaming Since I'm A Nomad...Can I? Lol. By the way whatever you did, you learned your lesson. Hopefully ! So Keep it locked hun! .:peace n luv:.