Now this is my kinda topic Well let me tell you girls and I'ma be honest I'm 140 and 5'6. Now some people tell me "naya lose some weight" others tell me "damn I wish I had them thighs or that *** ". But me I listen to the positive comments. But I know when I go to far I chill and stop eating so much and excercise. I don't have a perfect image but I don't intend to look like a movie star/actress/singer or whatever. I have enough eye watchers for one day and I'm proud of how I look. I'm not concieded. But if someone feels good bout themselves they will obviously be confident. Now, what I think is a good body image is the same idea as Mizz-Unque. Gotta have some meat but not fat. Gotta be a bit slim but not skinny. .:peace n luv:.

Lol. You guys are funny. Anywayz, I believe it's just human instincts, a women smiles to be polite or in my case get the guys attention or to be friendly or it's just how they respond to strangers. Women smile for many reasons, some dumb research shouldn't conclude that all women are the same. That's My Two Cents! .:peace n luv:.

Greatest regret is letting a man get to my head in the first place. I realized after I was heart broken and bitter that he isn't worth all the drama I'm going through. Well now I treat men differently, I don't believe a word they say. Ah well, hopefully one day I will. Lol. .:peace n luv:.

When was I angry? Lol. Well anywayz I'm all cool now .:peace n luv:.

Let me see...I like Common, Naz, Mos Def, Rasco and Malik B...Oh and most definitly Havoc. They ill still. .:peace n luv:.

Let me see...I like Common, Naz, Mos Def, Rasco and Malik B...Oh and most definitly Havoc. They ill still. .:peace n luv:.

Let me see...I like Common, Naz, Mos Def, Rasco and Malik B...Oh and most definitly Havoc. They ill still. .:peace n luv:.

Finally my signature comes to use By the way nice poems, you should post them in the poetry section. .:peace n luv:.

D-d-d-d-daaaaamn! Now I wish I can respond to a man like that. Lol. Well said abbayo! .:peace n luv:.

I can't really say what true happiness is to me, because I havent found it yet. But I will tell you when I have if I don't get to involved and forget my SOL family. Money makes me happy until I spent it and its all gone, then I'm more unhappy then I was to begin with. Love makes me happy until the person I loved breaks my heart, can you say "heart break"? Peace would probably make me happy if it ever happens :rolleyes: . Heatlh makes me happy but I'm bound to get some kind of health problem in my life. So that won't last either. Safety would make me happy, but where I live that hasn't happened yet. Damn these physcos/killers/stockers/rapers etc. Mecca would absolutely make me happy, but what I hear it cost alot and my azz don't have that much cash on me. Oh well. One day I will Inshallah. Being A True Muslim would make me obviously happy, but I know that won't happen because I know I sin. Even the smallest sins (gossip and lying) are still a sin and I can't stop myself . Call me a typical somali women. Lol. .:peace n luv:.

Originally posted by NINXOON: Trina wanaabe Why don’t I leave??? It’s up to me whether I want to leave or not ..it’s funny that are accusing me of insulting you , when I was merely setting you straight.. this is an example of what I was saying earlier about this place… I suggest you lay off BET and MTV they have messed up whats left of your beewee brain cells… p.s again you name is not opinionated so I suggest you fight your own war boy oh boy another day another ……. I think you can fill in the blanks First of all, I didnt accuse you of insulting me...read back to what I wrote. I'm not fighting for oppinionated I'm just arguing back to what you said and I quote you said: Hornafrique and the rest You guys were living in a fancy world ?? p.s. Like I said earlier forget trina and the nick name...cause that's all you refer to. Damn, some people are dunce. .:peace n luv:.

that is true, I am always busy, but I have free-time that is when you see me on the net DIOMOND. I love them (my wives)to death, they are very cooprative and well aware of the world we in today. they got use to it to share their man with other women "in a halaal way". when I am not around they help each other around. the Min'weeyno is always their bos. they elected her in democratic way. they also support NO WOMAN LEFT BEHIND policy. Okay. Just checking. I would also like proof like Rudy said. This policy of yours seems new to me. Of course no women should be left behind, but it doesn't mean she has to share a man. Personally, although the religion says men can have four wives and I understand but I would not let my husband have more. It's just me, maybe I'm selfish but that's just how I see things. Please don't bring "western culture" into this because it's not the western cutlure that made me want to have him for myself. It's the way men treat their "wives" when they have more. Well anywayz thats all I gotta say. .:peace n luv:.

What are you talking about hun?! .:peace n luv:.

Why am I not suprised?! Funny, last time I checked we do disagree. And your answer is just as pathetic as what you are trying to attempt. If you don't like this 'superficial utopia' why don't you leave? Wait...maybe that's not on your list of things to do, so you go on and cuss and insult people :rolleyes: . p.s. Did I run to the moderators? I didn't think so. And keep trina and her nick name out of this since that's all you refer to. .:peace n luv:.

Yes, I am unfortunatly living in the fantasy world. Please do tell me what goes on in the real world that isn't consistant here. But wait...hold on, I do know one thing that is similar between this world and the fantasy world I accidently live in, we have the same type of attention-seekers. .:peace n luv:.

Rice... Oh and can you add two piece chicken wings. Thanx .:peace n luv:.

I'm not calling you a liar but I have a funny feeling your just playing around. You can't possibly have three wives and be on the net. Lol. If a man had that many wives already, he'd be a very busy man. .:peace n luv:.

Lol. Interesting topic Lucky. I've been in a very up and down hill relationships with people. It never struck me as "hazerdous" for my health. Hmmmm.... .:peace n luv:.

No Kaafi, actually I major in physcology. Thanx thou. It's something I realized is very true about us. We look so hard to find a man/woman with the qualities we look for. But instead we find someone and we learn to love the quality in them that they have. .:peace n luv:.

I will let you lot decide who I used with this clue Mr........ Mr.Millenium? ***Ya'll know me!*** Yes we do! Well anywayz I use to be exceptional_by_nature but it was to long so i chose this one. P.S. I don't like Trina, I just like this name...it's cute. And no I'm not a real princess...some ppl pm me asking that! Weird huh?! .:peace n luv:.

:Perfect happiness? Can't say to much on my mind! .:peace n luv:.

What about girls? I believe the most popular name for a girl is Ayaan/Ayan. I'm serious I got like 10 somali girls in my school name Ayaan/Ayan. .:peace n luv:.

It's not what I admire in a man, its what I find in a man that I admire. .:peace n luv:.

Speak when I'm only spoken to?! Is that how it is now, Sorry but I'll speak when I like! Thank you very much! .:peace n luv:.

Ninxoon, that's rude man. You shouldn't be saying that kinda shit. I suggest you appologies to her. You don't even know the girl and you be judging her like you her mom. Like I said before, if you aint got something positive to say, don't say nothing! .:peace n luv:.