That was taken by rudy..no? Best man methinks.

I remember when i have raided all libraries in 2 boroughs for mills and boons novels. When i was teenager though.

True love would have been there, come high or low.

Why? you want hot abaya to wear your dinner with duqa? Welcome dear.. Just let me know beforehand..i shall be armed

that one is voilent. I dont see the attraction See wacdarah ey ka dhigeyso over there!

So they were alive? Dont know whether this restores my faith in love or whether it has the opposite effect. Waxaas jaceyl lama dhaho

Typical, trying to muscle in..hungry for power. Let the lady take take over. It is time for a CHANGE

That is some story nuune. It happened for real? I find it hard to believe...man jumping for a woman..maybe from a woman but not for a woman.

We all know the wife understands perfectly well.. Still hypothetically speaking..married men will know the ropes and the score. Besides they wont ferever be under your feet, as they have other fishes to fry. That will leave you time to develop yourself and be free from them for a while. Whislt I aint condoning it, there are upside aspects of this kinda relationship "hides till they leave for home"

Malika hon, these girls dont understand lool

lol..bring it on

Morrning ladies Sorry, I wouldnt want to sample second hand blokes. I was kidding..honest Anyway Welcome back CL.

Morning all CL..that is a great sacrifice woman. Allah will reward you immensily Another question How do you cope with a crush? wrong thread..all answers should be posted on troll ladies

morning erm..wrong troll room sorry

Now in English please nuune

Lily, it is an innocent question. But I wonder why should they be off the menu when he is allowed to have 4 wives?

Should married men be a non-no, is he a game?

Well I never I am the cheapest of the lot haye! I am offended. I have a right mind to come to your luuq Ngoner and tell you what is what!

Ma hadda la bilaabey in laga hadlo ANR? Waa belo walle

The girl sounds hot lol

Originally posted by Abtigiis &Tolka: : Strong men deliver peace. Hassen Dahir Aweys and Abu-mansoor can deliver peace. They have a lot of flaws, but the reality is they can influence what happens next, more than Sheekh Shariif. I thought I misread the above quote. The 2 men above can not deliver peace at all. How long will this aggression continue? how many will die before peace is acheived? If what is said about them is the truth ( we have no way of verifying them, unless they say it in public), these men will always be hell-bent voilence. Their families arent the ones that suffer. I dont think people have completely lost confidence in Shekh shariif. We still dont have alternative that could remotely bring different clans together.

Originally posted by Ibtisam: ^^He was, I'm sure he was learning Arabic on a loox. That is not even old.. how could this be an indication.. yes, I was taught Quran on a loox and shaabuug. Xiin is sheikh to me..Alle ha u ziyaadiyo.

Originally posted by Ibtisam: ^^ Bisinka, where on earth do you live. :eek: erm..yeah, so we can also stare and chase

Shouldnt we hear their policies first before we vote? Anyway I voted for the ladies cos men never understand..too much testerone and muscle-flexing. Shiirkooda halkaa naga geeya

Dubai programme aims to avert divorce, reduce spinsterhood By Alia Al Theeb, Staff Reporter Last updated: November 03, 2008, 12:23 Dubai: Encouraging citizens to marry, and thereby reducing the rates of spinsterhood and divorce are the main strategic objectives of a programme 'The successful marriage, half a moon', launched by Dubai Women Association. The programme focuses on family issues, especially divorce, as there has been an increase in the number of divorces among newlyweds. Afra Al Hai, executive manager of the Al Nahda Centre for Consultations and Training, had said these problems are increasing. "According to figures from Dubai Courts, the highest number of divorce cases involved couples who had been married for one to five years. We launched this programme in February last year. The programme aims at focusing on family stability, marital life and securing the elements of a decent life for Emirati families," she said. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- A number of Emirati consultants provide free consultations, rehabilitation and training courses for couples who are about to get married and for newlyweds. Book launched As part of the association's continuous efforts in strengthening family ties and helping couples start a healthy married life, the association announced the launch of a book named Successful Marriage to give the couples handy tips on starting married lives, coping with challenges and maintaining family stability. The book consists of three main chapters which discuss ideas such as future planning strategies which highlight the right planning as it is an obvious signal of progress and culture, as well as highlighting the benefits of 'Successful marriage, half a moon' programme. The second chapter discusses the magic key for successful marriage, rejuvenating a stagnant marital life by being transparent and truthful to each other, respecting mutual feelings, being patient in distress, being confident and trusting each other and sacrificing for each other. The third chapter focuses on saying yes to the three "Nos", no to spinsterhood, no to divorce and no to family breakups and instability. "This book contains the most precious advice for a bride and groom, as it highlights the most humanly scared bond between two human beings in compliance with the instructions of Allah," said Fatima Al Falasy, Director General of Dubai Women Association during the book launch. She said the book is an attempt to promote supporting for the programme and the campaign of successful marriage and emphasise the importance of marital life and say yes to the mechanisms of a successful marriage. Fatima said the book will be distributed for free among couples taking part in the successful marriage programme. Later the book will be made available to public libraries for everyone's benefit, as the book does not have a certain target and is published in Arabic and English. Afra said the programme also has a suggestion of forming family security wallet, to contribute in helping families with the marriage expenses in cooperation with local banks and the Central Bank of the UAE. "The Central Bank has shown enormous support to this programme and the book which in turn should encourage other establishments in the country to play their role in safeguarding society by supporting family ties," she said. What according to you makes a marriage successful? Why do you think divorce amongst young couples is so high? Has the institution of marriage taken a hit due to changing ethos? FIll in the form bellow to send your comments. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Your comments In my opinion, unpredictability of women is a main reason of conflict and divorce. Keshab Mishra Dubai,UAE Posted: November 03, 2008, 11:03 I do agree that divorce rates are increasing by the day. Prices are rising so much that many couples are forced to work for long hours leaving less time for them to spend together and with their families. This increases conflicts and family issues and it could certainly lead to divorce. Greta Mumbai,India Posted: November 03, 2008, 10:05 I think there are many reasons for these high divorce rates. They could be different expectations, the fast life we lead, or the fact that both partners need to work day and night to be able to provide for their family especially with the price rises. A book could be published about this. It could state the different causes and ways of preventing when it comes to divorce. Syeda Maheen Fatima Ajman,UAE Posted: November 03, 2008, 10:02 Affection, understanding, faith, love, and respect for each other are the reasons behind a successful marriage. Nowadays, couples tend to expect a lot and they get impatient quickly. These things might be some causes of the high divorce rates we see. Farheen Dubai,UAE Posted: November 03, 2008, 09:20 A successful marriage is entirely based on trust, honesty, respect and love for each other. Any relationship based on trust will never have two people misguided to go away from each other. Fatima Manzoor Dubai,UAE Posted: November 03, 2008, 08:46 A successful marriage is based on the word of God and his divine principles. Divorce is high amongst young people, because they have neglected their faith and belief; they no longer have the fear of God. Changing ethos have nothing to do with the institution of marriage. The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. Igho Eguonor Maine,USA Posted: November 03, 2008, 07:46 I think the high divorce rates are a result of arrogance and lack of compromise. I also think that getting married at a young age may be a reason for conflict and divorce. Marriage life is based on trust and compromise from both sides. Kauser Dubai,UAE Posted: November 03, 2008, 07:26 In a place like Dubai, this issue certainly needs attention. I think that because many newlyweds living here are not able to fulfil their requirements due to rising costs of living, conflict might arise. Financial security is defiantly one of the main factors that determine marriage success Kavita Dubai,UAE sources