Salaam all, Hope you are all doing great. I haven't been here in a while!! I have been asked by my friend to post this event on the SOL, just in case some of you are interested to go!! please see bellow A Al Hawd Presents BLACK MAGIC The root to all evil Jalal ibn Saeed (Alfitrah) The Signs Abu Hanifah (Islam channel) The Protection Murtaza Khan (Teacher at An Nur Islamic school)The Weapon Date: Saturday 19th July 2008 Time: 12pm-6pm Tickets : £7 The Islamic Cultural centre (Regents Park Masjid) 146 Park Road London NW8 7RG Tickets sold at the door, call to reserve your seats to avoid disappointments CONTACT: 07957558183 or 07960071941 email: events@alhawd.com www.alhawd.com In association with Al Fitrahwww.alfitrah.com creche available on prior booking

Originally posted by NGONGE: I think the correct somali expression here is: xaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaax NGONE, I think you should see this. http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=5FQ7d9gFnks&feature=related You might Change your mind after you see this

Originally posted by NGONGE: ^^ He's coming to get you NGONGE, you are so funny (NOT). Out of all the people in here I thought you'll know the kind of man that I like . We need to put this guy on Extereme Makeover program

Tall,square jaw and broad sholders. thats my ideal man.

Today I completed 2 weeks at my new job. Amazing how time is flying!!! I can't wait till pay day

Some excellent questions. I started to panic as i was reading them coz am getting engaged soon and don't know most of these things about my partner. Though i would like to know the answers to all these questions I wouldn't sit there and interview him and if I know everything about hin there'll be nothing to discuss when we marry. That'll be very boring.

It's such a big shame. I used to have a beautiful picture of our Somali people, but i guess the more i mix unto my community the more i see that we are not as perfct as i thought we were. Somali men are such saqajaans, to drink in public and go out there and rape women. Shame!

I do agree.. some men prefer not dumb but less challanging wome. One that will not compete with him career wise, education and mantalilty wise. while some successful women are happy to give up many requirements they feel threatend by a woman that is successful or has a bit more than they do.. It's a shame coz am sure she will always drive him to become better than her! BEHIND EVERY GREAT MAN THERE IS A GREAT WOMAN!!!!

Munira,I changed careers last month after i came back from egypt is working with kids at schools now, its a big difference.. But i agree with you, being around kids is so much fun, but its hard work. JUSTICE- I am not a big fan of Indian movies to tell you the truth, I went to watch spider man last weekend Really good. I am travelling tomorrow inshallah for few days. hope I will coem back with some good news inshallah !!!!

This Farax is an ***** for making a silly *** woman do this to him. I think he beat the hell out of her once and for all. This time he will be arresded for a crimehe has REALLY really committed !! I think his wife will be under his feet from then on. DOn't you think? Me? i think i need to party thats all!I need to laugh from tha heart and just have a care free day!

Funny how different she looks now!! I had to call my mum to doublechck its the same woman that sings in weddings. I wish to grow old gracefully. thanks for the post!

Sallaaaam all, hope all is well.. just that its strangly quite here in the forum,, where is everyone? Some may be examining but how about the mature un/employed lot?? I am depressed and have very little to talk abou? how about you? any interesting topics?

salaaamz all, Your friend is in denial, she doesn't want to blame the husband because she will relaise that the affai was partially her fault. This marriage was never strong enough attributes that made the husband run off with the 1st person to try it on him. RULE No1: When you want to play around do it as far away from your community, town and if possible outside your own race coz news travel faster than light!!! I agree with you, stay as far as possible from your friend’s love marriage, you will soon be blamed for everything and anything if the couple get back together, although you were only trying to help!

When i was younger, well upto last year i was a Picky Picker, then i changed and started trusting my feelings a little more. mind you i used to get a kick out of winning guys and as soon as i goe to know them well enough i dump them. not any more i am in a perfect relationship now and 50/50 give and take............... i think!!

Salaam all, hope you are all doing well, its been a long time since i came online, bn away on holiday! Does anyone miss me I better forward this to my best mate, she fancies the hell out of a colleague at work for almost two years and she has never has the corage to tell him how she feels.