^^Or all hammer, no nail .

^^Ka bax, laakiin ha fogaanin awoowe waa intaasoo Castro mashaqo dhigaaye .

^^why don’t we examine yours first adeer . I am curious. Very curious indeed about the said incontestability of your evidence

^^LOL. Adeer illeen fannaan baad tahay haddaad damacdo . Bishaaro, what about you ? are you offering dollars or prayers or both?

^^It’s not the bigheadedness that drives me to challenge these perceptions adeer, rather it’s that they seem unsustainable to me, or at least I find them so, that I am tempted to summarily dismiss them all! You and good Bishaaro need to do a better job to convince me otherwise.

^^Large letters are only easier to read for the challenged, yaa Qalanjo !

^^We’ll do both then! But I should at least get discount , adeer, don’t you think?

Size 'does not matter' for brains . lets get that out of the way. I am just attempting to correct a widely accepted myth.

^^Anigu SOL waan u duceeyaa, adeer, and that gets me off the hook !

Bishaaro, I am disputing the universal myth that fallaciously states the bigger an object is, the better it is! As for steering the debate to center on a specific object and its size, let us not go there, I say . Chat it down this though yaa jamaacah, as a general rule, bigger is not necessarily better. [edit]lol@Castro's N's.

^^Among men, I take it you meant? Well , it’s outdated at best and a pure myth at worst, I insist! The era where the BIG had advantage over the SMALL, and the 'less fortunate' one, as you would say, is over. There are other, and important I might add, benchmarks to meet adeer. And generally speaking, it’s the fast (endurance) that beat the slow today, and in that sense size as it were (in anything) has been naturalized for good.

^^says who, yaa Castro? It's a myth i say.

^^Not sure that's the case. Do you agree with it though?

LOL@18 wheeler! Size does not matter in my books.

^^Adigu waligaa wax isku dayimaysid miyaa ? I want (prefer) NGONGE to go first for few reasons. For one, it’s not fitting for a man whom we all suspect to have more wisdom than he thus far shared with us to post RUMI’s stuff with no exposition whatsoever. Second, the man, NGONGE that is, despises those who contaminate potentially productive threads with a sole one-line comment. So it’s only fair to hold him to his standards, do you not say yaa L of Z?

^^Ninkaan, Ibraahim Hawd, waa faylasuuf walle! Sideebuu ugu dhiirraday inuu gacanku-dhiigle u beddelo geesi caddaaladda u hoggaansama oo si mintidnimo ah u aqbala garsoorka? Sideebuu xammaasaddii iyo caadhifaddiiba uga siibay qalbiga reerkii aabahood la dilay? Maxaa ku dhacay aanadii soomaalidu curfi iyo caadaba u lahayd? Waxaas oo dhan waxaa ka daran sida islaantu aanay hoogay iyo ba'ay midna ulahayn ee ay iskaga wardinayso! Show waa hore bay Ilaahay isku dhiibtay! Sow uma eka in qoraagu si xalladi ku jirto ugu bareeray inuu musiibadda soomaaliya ku habsatay khaatimo fiican u yeelo? Maxay adiga kula tahay? Bal malee! Where are SOL’s people, or as good S.O.S would say, where are the men of understanding ?

^^What is he saying yaa NGONGE? Some one needs to expound these seemingly coded (contradictory?) verses. War yaa usoo baxay ?

Fiid cilcillaw ay sharka iyo khayrku kala carraabeen waxaa surin mugdi ah ka soo baxay noole dad iyo bahal u dhexeeya oo aad u dhuuban. Tallaabada dirqiga ah ee uu lawyaha isla dhacayo lagama garto qurbac muqlaysan. Laakiin marka uu soo dhowaadaba wuxuu sii yeelanayaa muuq bani aadam. Wuxuu gacmaha ku sitaa qori Ak ah oo isaga ka culus kaas oo afkiisa yuubani ka soo horreeyo. In uu daroogaysan yahay, in uu waalan yahay iyo in uu gaajaysan yahay intaba waa la moodi karaa. Nin da dhexaad ah oo keli lugaynaya ayuu dhankiisa qorigii ula dalanbaabiyey. Labadooda cid kale uma dhowa. Waxaa u dhow daaro burburay iyo waddooyin haawanaya oo mugdi iyo dhaxan ah. Waa magaalo u eg meel qunbulad durriye ku dhacay. – Dhig lacagta, haddii kale wallaahi in aanan soddonka xabbadood mid kaaga reebayn! Ninka la weeraray ma hubaysna haddana isma dhiibin mana cararin. Inta uu soo jeestay ayuu tallaabooyin digtoon dib u qaaday. Mintidnimada iyo yasidda dhimashada isaga iyo ka weerarka ahi waa iskaga mid waxaase la dheer yahay qoriga cabbaysan. – Dhig lacagta, haddii kale adiga oo mayd ah ayaad dhigaysaa! Maya, nin wax dhigaya uma ega. Tallaabooyinkii digtoonaa ayuu dib u sii wadaa. In uu mugdiga ku ordo ayuu malaha ku talo jiraa, yaase isugu simaya. Saddex xabbadood oo baas ah ayaa laabta ka daldalooliyey, naftuna waxay ka dhacday isla markii uu dhulka ku dhacay, isla markaas ayey gacan dhuubani lacagtii jeebkiisa kala baxday. Sii aqri: waa sheeko gaaban oo uu qoray mid ka mid ah raga maanta Soomaalida wax qorta ugu qoraal wacan! !

Originally posted by Socod_badne: Galool, quote: Originally posted by xiinfaniin: It’s not feasible for women to have multiple xalaal husbands’, walaal, but it’s possible for men. Women do and can have multiple husbands! It's called polyandry. You may have a point on the Xalaal business. Socodka, raggeedii baad tahay adeer , as long you give me a point or two you immensely contributed to my research; gave enough sample data to claim men are judicious than women when fogged with emotions ! Lets give everyone his/her dues: Amalia: 3 points for challenging Xiin’s logic, and quitting it when rebelled. Bishaaro: 3 points for being polite. Valentine: 2 points for challenging Xiin but picking the wrong argument. Faarax Coon: 2.5 points for being sluggish but selfless in praising Xiin Castro: 0 for being a poor spectator without voice. Galool: 2 points for hosting the sport. Socodka: 2 points for quickly getting the gist of this discussion but being late cost him a point. Xiin:1 point for flogging a dead horse and still wining others to help him beat that dead horse. I can go home now . Those in America, have a good and long weekend.

lool@Gorgor haadda ka weyn. I like that^^, and feel that I am fairly compensated . Wallee coon waa abwaan---Gorgor haadda ka weyn kulahaa. bilaash uma oran waa coon. Amelia, No guarantees, you’re right but I am very positive mosques are full of khery---that includes gorgeous girls who are well attuned to the messages I convey in this boards. Adigu ha diidin to come to my levee , when the time comes that is!

Mr. Coon , I thought you’d do better to decipher that little code of mine! You’re being a bit sluggish today. Unlike you, girls know exactly what those stand for. Believe me. They really do.

Originally posted by Valenteenah: quote: In that sense men are greedier than women There you go. Less of the 'greedy girls' bull then. ^^That’s singularly selective quote---speak to the lack of variety on your part or aayar with the livid response, gabar!

Originally posted by Valenteenah: Who is more greedy: The woman who wants her husband to herself, or the man who desires more than one wife at a time? Yeah, I thought as much. ^^In that sense men are greedier than women, because they can. It’s not feasible for women to have multiple xalaal husbands’, walaal, but it’s possible for men.

Tahliil, interesting take. Yours is. I understand that you're not saying that polygamy is not religiously sanctioned! But your assertion that polygamous relationships have nothing to do with religion is a bit hasty at best, i say. What makes you think some people aren’t marrying more wives precisely because they want to imamate that prophetic tradition of marrying multiple xalaal wives, saaxiib? It’s one thing to affirm women’s choice but it’s totally a different logic to reduce the whole polygamy practice to a tradition reserved to unspiritual folks. Think about it yaa tahliil.

You are greedy numero uno yaa Bishaaro, if you ask me. But I know good Amelia is protective on her prospective husband! What girl wouldn’t do that anyway! That I understand. But there aren’t that many manly men who can multitask and embark on a polygamy project. You can safely include me in that category as well, though mine is due to an uncooperative environment, and not necessarily a lack of stamina and courage! So all the greedy girls stay cool, as there’s no danger in the minyaro talk. It’s mostly an empty talk that’s meant to soothe old men who are short on Xabadsawda , like Castro certainly is. Edit: Xariifka thinks that getting a cooperating minyaro is not particularly difficult at all! It's easier than you think really. daaro dhaadheer baa i dhow taad ruxdaba gabdho wada cad-cad baa kasoo daadanaya ! But i know better.