When employees feel they have been overlooked for a promotion or raiseor getting a speific job, due to age, race or gender, they may claim that they have been discriminated against. But somalia women are not the only one that are facing this problem. Its happening to women/men of all race. And in a way, the reason why i think somalia women are facing this is because of them not having enough education. Thats my opinion for the time being. Jaaaaaaawe

Ramadan Kariiim sis

Underdog Looks like it if u ask me.

Opinionated Thats your opinion walaal and i careless :rolleyes: :rolleyes: . Jaaaaaawe

Underdog no comment at the moment but thanks walaal. OKAY, one more comment and am done. I know by now yall know how obesse i am with this case and Kobe innoceneces. But I think that the whole system is FUBAR!! I mean I think that accused should have the same right. There are some women out there that purposely make false acusations about rape as well as women who acuse someone of rape when they are not sure if that was the actual person or not. And in the end if the acused is found innocent, their reputation is still tarnished because their will always be someone out there that thinks he was guilty and just got away with it! So do you think the law should stay the way it is and keep only the Acuser's identity concealed? Or keep both the acuser and the acused identities concealed until a verdict has been reached. Or dont conceal anyones identity because the character of both people is important for the public to know. Really want to know your opinion on that. HOLLA Jaaaaaawe

Rudy, Nobody in their right mind would disagree that when a girl says no, it means no. And surely he did have sex with this woman, and given the DNA evidence, we can prove without a shadow of a doubt he did have sex with her. If a woman entices a man to get rough with her because it turns her on, and then later claims rape, what proof does the guy have that he didn't commit rape? That's what we have here. There's no way in hell this girl will go to jail if it is proved that she was lying. No way in hell. And no matter how you slice it, Kobe Bryant has lost even if he is found to be innocent. Keeping that in mind, what does that say about the jusitces system

Opinionated, I am prepared to say he is guilty of adultery/naivety/stupd!ty . Even under the scenario she is a wanton trollop/promiscuous groupie (I'm inclined to believe otherwise so far), he ought to learn the self-control that is required of anyone in a position of power/influence or celebrity. With privileges such as those, comes more responsibility. He admitted to having sex with this woman. He admitted to doing something morally wrong. He wasn't blaming the woman, his wife, or the Colorado law enforcement agent, he was blaming himself. This isn't the behavior of someone legally guilty of anything in my book. Don't know about you though. So why should i give her the benefit of the doubt because she "said" he raped me.. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: .. Jaaaaaaawe

miz-unique, She braggs to friends about sleeping with a Justin Timberlake look-alike while on a road trip to audition for 'American Idol'. Are you telling me that when someone seeks out both the spotlight and celebrities it isn't applicable to the case at hand? She attempted suicide just months prior. Was this a sign of serious problems or just a cry for attention? Are you telling me that this isn't applicable? After all, the defendant is about as famous as one gets. After searching for a delicate way to phrase the next portion, I have concluded that there isn't one. Your victim mentiones to friends that she was somewhat shocked by the size of Kobe's penis. She mentioned that it was larger than she expected. Leaks from the prosecution side mention vaginal tearing. Are you telling me that her experience/lack of experience isn't applicable here? Maybe it helps her. Maybe it doesn't. Either way, pretending that it doesn't matter to the case and helping Kobe's side is ludicrous. Think about that for awhile sistah adn than come back at me. Jaaaaaawe

To be a traditional woman or modern superwoman seems to be the million-dollar question, and to me i think i am BOTH. I mean, in one hand i do want a family and the other i want/need education to educate my daughters/sons adequately to handle various jobs or professions and whether to kindle the flame of ambition and self-reliance in their minds. So to have both wouldn't be that bad at all. Cause in a way, you're getting 2 things in the price of 1. If that makes sense to you guys. Jaaaaaaaaaaaawe

Opinionated, I dont feel there's been any real evidence of rape. I think bottom line its going to come down to Kobe's word against hers. Up until this point Kobe has had an untarnished image, she on the other hand was suicidal and very unstable. Im not saying its OK but think about it how many basketball players, football players, baseball etc.. havent slept around. Even Jordan got caught. It definately isnt good but yea long road trips w/ hundreds of screaming women can wear a man down. Why would kobe even bother to rape her when he could have had a ton of other females. OGUN-ABIMAN, you're right. Only God and them two know the real truth. Hopefully the one telling the truth comes out. 3Hugz 2Kissez 1Luve

Sis thanks for your reply. I know what you mean and so agree with you. 3Hugz 2Kissez 1Luve

Very helpful sistah.

Salaam everyone I just wanted to know from the female's point of view about you guys feelings thrus the case. As you can see, I am big fan of Kobe and i do believe that no matter how famous or inocent you are, people do make senses. Not only in Hollywood but in real life too. I feel though that it was not rape but consensual. Shed some light on this topic. Jaaaaawwwwe 3Hugz 2Kisses 1Luve

Ooh spare me that we're-in-the-new-millenium and new country BULLSHIIT Like it or not, RELIGION is part of everything we do!. Don't bring religion into this kulahaa. It's really sad to see you discarding something as important as our beautiful deen. The only reason we're here in this world is so that we can work for the hereafter and prepare ourselves for our meeting with Allah (swt). Don't be fooled by this dunya....it's only a TEST! The real life begins in the hereafter....where what you've accomplished while on this earth will count. Premarital sex(zina) is a big no no in Islam if you didn't know. So don't be bad mouthing those that are trying to follow the right path. Allaha na soo wada hanuuniyo. Amiin. TruSista

Ooh spare me that we're-in-the-new-millenium and new country BULLSHIIT Like it or not, RELIGION is part of everything we do!. Don't bring religion into this kulahaa. It's really sad to see you discarding something as important as our beautiful deen. The only reason we're here in this world is so that we can work for the hereafter and prepare ourselves for our meeting with Allah (swt). Don't be fooled by this dunya....it's only a TEST! The real life begins in the hereafter....where what you've accomplished while on this earth will count. Premarital sex(zina) is a big no no in Islam if you didn't know. So don't be bad mouthing those that are trying to follow the right path. Allaha na soo wada hanuuniyo. Amiin. TruSista

Ooh spare me that we're-in-the-new-millenium and new country BULLSHIIT Like it or not, RELIGION is part of everything we do!. Don't bring religion into this kulahaa. It's really sad to see you discarding something as important as our beautiful deen. The only reason we're here in this world is so that we can work for the hereafter and prepare ourselves for our meeting with Allah (swt). Don't be fooled by this dunya....it's only a TEST! The real life begins in the hereafter....where what you've accomplished while on this earth will count. Premarital sex(zina) is a big no no in Islam if you didn't know. So don't be bad mouthing those that are trying to follow the right path. Allaha na soo wada hanuuniyo. Amiin. TruSista

big nomad wlc to ya sista. enjoy ya stay n don't tell da haters get to ya. haters will be haters lol P.Y.T

big nomad wlc to ya sista. enjoy ya stay n don't tell da haters get to ya. haters will be haters lol P.Y.T

big nomad wlc to ya sista. enjoy ya stay n don't tell da haters get to ya. haters will be haters lol P.Y.T

big nomad wlc to ya sista. enjoy ya stay n don't tell da haters get to ya. haters will be haters lol P.Y.T

Sista, what can i say. I feel da same way. Fell for a guy but not in love and he ended up breakin my heart. I think all need have our share of heart breaks to learn from it. So, next time we for for man, we know not to look for da one we had n broke our hearts. Am takin it slow too but wish somethings things was different cuz i really cared for him. Anyways, best wishes to u n ur heart. PS. WE WILL SURVIROR SIS LOOOL

Sista, what can i say. I feel da same way. Fell for a guy but not in love and he ended up breakin my heart. I think all need have our share of heart breaks to learn from it. So, next time we for for man, we know not to look for da one we had n broke our hearts. Am takin it slow too but wish somethings things was different cuz i really cared for him. Anyways, best wishes to u n ur heart. PS. WE WILL SURVIROR SIS LOOOL

Sista, what can i say. I feel da same way. Fell for a guy but not in love and he ended up breakin my heart. I think all need have our share of heart breaks to learn from it. So, next time we for for man, we know not to look for da one we had n broke our hearts. Am takin it slow too but wish somethings things was different cuz i really cared for him. Anyways, best wishes to u n ur heart. PS. WE WILL SURVIROR SIS LOOOL

Sista, what can i say. I feel da same way. Fell for a guy but not in love and he ended up breakin my heart. I think all need have our share of heart breaks to learn from it. So, next time we for for man, we know not to look for da one we had n broke our hearts. Am takin it slow too but wish somethings things was different cuz i really cared for him. Anyways, best wishes to u n ur heart. PS. WE WILL SURVIROR SIS LOOOL

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL LIBAAAX. THATS SOO TRUE.