Modesty

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  1. Duhhh! But you can design one since the bushes are plentiful!
  2. Asalaamu Alaykum, Balsam like most of the above^ people said, whatever Allah has prescribed for you will come true. Secondly, don't feel bad about not being married, your young,and I would advice you to continue with your education. When your done with that I'm sure you'll find a nice guy, since your main focus wouldn't be on school. By the way there are 36-40 year women who are just getting married, so don't think the search stops at 26, because 26 is very young still.
  3. Oh God, not a another 'ya kno you Somali' post! I wanna add: ya kno you Somali if the word "Thank You" is foreign to you.
  4. Modesty

    Where?

    In 12/13 years well if Allah wills inshallah I'll already have 22 kids(well! I came from a small family), and became a schlor in Islam, and I'll probably be residing off and on from Garoowe to Makkah, inshallah!
  5. Asalaamu Alaykum, You actually went scuba diving?!? Wicked!Its good to get high in a non-mind altering and untoxic way. :rolleyes:
  6. Asalaamu Alaykum, Leateafha, I tried looking for authentification through the net, and I haven't spotted anything yet.Mostly it talks about a women can't shake hands with a non-mahram man, but a women can shake hands with an old man, and a man can shake hands with an old women. My brother lived with his stepmom, and he was treated just like one of her sons. I usually choice the most logical view when it comes to these things.
  7. Wow, what I'm hearing from the majority is more boring than boring ! Wow! I sound like I have more 'fun' happening in my kingdom of boredom...well I don't feel that bored right know, just sleepy, and I will go to sleep in 1...2...3,zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!
  8. Asalaamu Alaykum, The answer is NO the stepson doesn't invalidate her wudu, because thats almost like her own son.I'm very positive that is the correct view.
  9. Asalaam Alaykum, and Jazakallah Khayr! Its so hard to do that, but practice will inshallah make perfect I am going to do step 10, today (if I have time, hope I do). Continue to bring your informative articles, all are great!
  10. ^^^^^^^^^^^^Agree with all the above^^^^^^^^^^
  11. oops, I meant 'unbored'....hah see what boredom can cause :rolleyes:
  12. Asalaamu Alaykum, I'm so bored! :rolleyes: I don't know what to do. Well of course I have alot to do but I need to focus on something else. What you do to become 'unborn'**
  13. Asalaamu Alaykum Ouch my eye is hurtin from all that bold red print :eek: .
  14. Asalaamu Alaykum, For some reason the article didn't show up for me. Anyways, I got what the article was about. Link-You are so right! You don't see muslims going to great lengths to prove that a christian converted. There is a saying that goes who ever is below you or at the bottom of your feet always talks about you. Islam is rich in faith, and they are just jealous!
  15. Oh, that last part made my eyes misty. Thanks Lovely_me
  16. Asalaamu Alaykum, Shukri from what I know(i'm not a scholar...yet,inshallah) is that Allah the creator of heaven and earth does say in the holy Quran that Allah is forgiving, but you must be the initiator and ask for forgiveness, although Allah can forgive you at anytime. When you pray, reflect on how your day went and if you know you've committed something haraam(forbidden) say astaughfirullah 33 times at least. Allah doesn't forgive associating partners with him, and following another religion other than ISLAM. Shukri, Heaven and Hell are just.Allah has created jannah (may we all meet there) for his loyal servants who followed Allah's laws in this world, and passed the test of this dunya. All the children also go to heaven because they're innocent.Hell(may we not go there) is for the people who associate with Allah other deities and the ones who were evil and tyranical oppressors on Earth,Allah will sort his creation out justly. Read theses Duas when stricken by doubt in your faith and Allah we help,inshallah: 1. Aamantu billahi wa Rusulihi. (I believe in Allah and His Messenger) 2.Huwal-Awwalu wal-Aakhiru wadhDhaahiru wal Baatinu, wa Huwa bikulli shai'in 'Aleem. ("He is the First and the Last, the Most High and the Most Near. And He is the knower of all things.")
  17. Some words I frequent 1.iish 2.are you serious!?! 3.hoogayay ba'ayay 4.are you cuukuu(cookoo)? 5.subhanallah! 6.Like I was LIKE...
  18. Bismilah, How absurd is that! As muslims we have to strive to do things differently than the people of the book. The reason why gaalo put their parents and grandparents in nursing homes is because their is no sense of respect. The day the child is born they put it in daycare, the parent doesn't get a chance to instill morals and values in the child, so the child learns from a babysitter who doesn't strive to do that. Do you think the child will respect their parents when they age?NO! Thats why they put parents in senior homes!
  19. Asalaamu Alaykum, Sister Raxmah thanks for that poem,its very motivational. I actually got that poem a few years ago, and I loved it so much that I put it on my frigarator(good reminder to pray on time!)
  20. *Asalaamu Alaykum! I've been hearing this talk of 'wahhabism' on T.V. lately, I asked questions like: 'Is this the same teachings as Islam. Below is a very informative,and well-put article I think of the true nature of what wahhabism(offensive term) is. To learn more read below! The Truth about “Wahhabism” Bismillah, Walhamdulillah, Wassalatu Wassalamu Ala Rasooli Allah. Introduction: In today’s world, it has become increasingly difficult for a Muslim to find out the truth about many issues. Television, which serves as a very effective tool for propaganda, has been used to convince many Muslims of incorrect things. Among these is that Islamic Fundamentalism is equal to terrorism and is a crime, that Islam is unfair to women, and other false accusations against Islam. Another widespread misunderstanding is about the so called “Wahhabi” sect. Insha Allah after careful study of this group and their beliefs, it would soon be discovered that these are but pure Muslims with a valid contribution to make. However the paranoia and fear of this “wahhabi” and “extremist” group, which has been instilled in people by some groups with vested interests in this matter, has led some to make groundless and false accusations against “wahhabis”. The Term “Wahhabi”: The term “Wahhabi” is used by those who wish to tarnish the image of this Islamic movement, by naming it after one man. Just as we refuse to be called Mohammadens, so do the followers of Shaykh Mohammad bin ‘Abd Al-Wahhab (1206 AH), who have completely rejected the use of this term to describe them. Therefore we too must reject this malicious label, and forget it completely. It is only used by our enemies who wish to divide us and weaken us. Instead, a better term to use to describe this group is the term Salafy. This refers to those who follow the way of the Prophet (pbuh), and the original guided and united group, the first three generations of Muslims: As-Salaf As-Saalih. Who is a Salafy? A Salafy is one who follows the ways of the Prophet (pbuh) and the Prophets Companions (raa). A Salafy does not have to label himself a "Salafy", and one may be a Salafy without conciously knowing it. Anyone who follows the Qur'an and the Sunnah of the Prophet (pbuh), using Mohammad's ways and his companions as examples of Islamic practices free from any deviation or innovation is a "Salafy". One who is a Salafy is not of the Khawaarij. Khawaarij are those who consider the Muslims to be Kaafirs (non-believers) due to their commiting major sins, and make lawful the taking of their wealth and blood. A Salafy is not of the Shi'ah (Shi'ites) because the Shi’ah hate and curse the Prophet's Companions, claim them to be apostates, declare that the Qur'an has been altered, reject the authentic Sunnah and worship the Prophet's family, peace be upon them. A Salafy is also not of the Qadariyyah because they deny Qadr (the Divine Decree). He is not of the Murjiah because they claim Imaan (Faith) to be only in words and not in deed. Likewise, he is not of the Asharriyah who deny Allah's Attributes, and not of the Sufis who worship graves, saints and claim Divine incarnation. History of Shaykh Abd Al-Wahhab: Shaykh Mohammad bin Abd Al-Wahhab was only one of the many scholars of the Salafy movement. He was born in Uyayna in Najd in 1703. His father and grandfather were Hanbali Qadis (judges), and he was therefore brought up and educated in this tradition. He studied in many famous learning centres like Al-Medina, Basra, Baghdad and Hamadan. After having completed his studies, Muhammad bin 'Abd Al-Wahhab returned to Uyayna where he publicly preached his beleifs. Muslims have been misled by some groups to develop a fear and hatered for this Shaykh, which is completely groundless and unwarranted. Many Muslims today, regretfully, believe that the Salafis or “Wahhabis” are supporters of the monarchy in Arabia. This is because of the 1745 alliance between Muhammad bin Abd Al-Wahhab and Muhammad Ibn al Sa'ud. Inshallah we will try to clarify this situation here, and show the truth of what happened. When Ibn al Sa’ud saw the great influence of Shaykh Mohammad, he decided to take advantage of him for political reasons. The two leaders agreed that political sovereignty should rest with Ibn al-Sa'ud, whereas religious authority should belong to Muhammad bin Abd Al-Wahhab and his followers. This alliance enabled the two to control most of the Arab tribes in the area, and they were able to reunite parts of Arabia once again. The reason for Shaykh Abd Al-Wahhab accepting the Saud family as leaders was that he beleived that as long as the Sharia is the law and the Ulama have power and a say in the government, then this government is acceptable. He reached an agreement with the Saud family which allowed this, and which brought Arabia much closer to a true Islamic system. However, what most people do not know is that this alliance did not last long. When Great Britain arrived as a colonial power in the region, they presented a protectorate plan to Ibn Al Sa'ud against the other European colonizers. However, in exchange they asked Ibn Al Sa'ud to terminate the Wahabi sweep across Arabia. Sheikh Muhammad bin Abd Al-Wahhab refused the British offer for the reason that he wanted the whole region an Islamic State. He wanted to continue expanding and spread Islam and the beliefs of the Prophet and Salaf throughout the Islamic world and not limited to "Saudi Arabia". After many failed attempts to convince Ibn Abd Al-Wahhab's movement to cease their efforts of spreading Islam, Ibn Al Sa'ud finally imprisoned and killed Abd Al-Wahhab's followers who went against him, and began a solid alliance with Great Britain. Since then Al Saud have been able to remain in power by not tolerating any opposition. Pure Salafys in Saudia Arabia made several attempts to remove the monarchy, the latest of which was in 1979. A group of Salafys, fully armed, attempted to take over Saudi leadership in the Haram during Hajj and declare a Khalifah like the times of Abu Baker and Omar radi allahu anhum. As people began to give them commitment the Saudis brought commandos inside the haram next to the Ka'bah to get them out. Many Muslims today believe the rumors which Al Sa'ud spread to defame them. One of these rumors what that this group called one of those present with them “The Mahdy”. They were all killed in this attempt. The Beleifs of Shaykh Abd Al-Wahhab: Shaykh Abd Al-Wahhab denounced a number of beliefs and practices prevailing among the Muslim society in his time. Muhammad bin 'Abd Al-Wahhab condemned the intercession, tawassul, which was applied and practised by a large number of Muslims during their prayer to God. He warns the believers against showing excessive devotion to saints and against the use of saints' graves as places of worship for tawassul. He considers these external elements polytheism, shirk. According to Shaykh Muhammad bin Abd Al-Wahhab, attendance at public prayer is obligatory, smoking of tobacco is forbidden and subject to punishment, shaving the beard and the use of abusive language are also to be punished. He also denounced visiting the tombs of dead people to gain Allah’s favour, and seeking intercession from any except Allah (swt). These are clearly deviations and unwelcome innovations to our religion, and must be strongly denounced. But this tough stance against deviation has gained the Salafy (Wahhabi) movement a hatered from the Shia sect, which still practices these deviations. His strong stance against tawassul has greatly angered the Shia sect, who perform tawassul regularly. They also pray at the graves of Ahl el Beit, and kneel before them asking them in dua. These dangerous innovations and un-Islamic practices continue not only in Shia society, but also in countries like Egypt where people pray to saints and say dua to them instead of Allah. Much of this does not come from ideology or beleif, it is only ignorance, custom and superstition. Shaykh Abd Al-Wahhab, and the Salafy "Wahhabi" movement, want to revive Pure Islam. The Islam which existed during Prophet Mohammad’s time, the time of the Khulafa and the time of As-Salaf As-Salih. They want to eliminate all alien and un-Islamic practices and customs, which are only there because of ignorance. They aim to eliminate all bida’, and to return the Islamic world to Islam as it is in the Qur’an and Sunnah of Rasool Allah (pbuh). In Conclusion: After reading some of these facts about the Salafy movement, all that we can say is to invite people to read and to learn more about this and all other groups. Unlike some groups, who know they are preaching falsehood so they prevent their followers from listening to any other point of view, they Salafy movement invites people to listen to its message and every other message. Every sincere Muslim, who really loves the religion of Islam and wants to live by it, will then be able to compare these messages and decide for themselves who is on the right path of Allah (swt) and Prophet Mohammad (pbuh). In fact, in many cases, by reading the opposing view you can learn more about the issue and about the two opposing sides. For example, if you read the writings of those who oppose the Salafy movement, and see what their complaint about it is, you will realize they are preaching falsehood and they are completely ignorant about Islam. Finally, we should just remember that the Salafy movement is not just one group of the Muslims. Every sincere and honest Muslim who believes in the Qur'an and the Sunnah is part of this movement whether they realize it or not. It is part of the world wide Islamic revival, and part of the Islamic movement that wants to re-establish Islam, Khilafah and the Islamic Shariah in the Muslim lands. May Allah (swt) guide us all and unite all Muslims on the truth.
  21. Asalaamu Alaykum, Sister Rashida, the questions I think you have to ask yourself is: Is this the man you want to spend almost the rest of your life with? Does he make you happy? Are you ready for the responsibility of being both a wife and mother? Are you happy with your father's decision? If on the previous question you answered with a NO, then I think you shouldn't marry this guy. You aren't committing a sin if you don't comply with your father's decision. Forced marriage in Islam is unacceptable! The last thing you have to remember is if you comply with your father's goal for you, and you aren't happy with it, remember that you're the ONE stuck with this guy not your DAD! Good Luck! and let us know how things go!
  22. Hi Instinct Poet, I'm really looking forward to finding credible prove to back those pictures up, but unfortunately I can't get into the website ! :mad:
  23. Asalaamu Alaykum, Sujui thanks for sharing this article. I never expected a western journalist to illuminate the truth. I'm glad to see that not everyone is buying that "we'll liberate Iraq" feel good stand.Any person with half a brain knows the truth, but unfortunately some people don't like the truth, they know what the truth is, but they avoid it. I think the people of America need that liberation more than the Iraqis do(if liberation was the motive :rolleyes: ), they need to be liberated from the daily dose of lies they receive from via television, via so called 'credible' top leaders. They need to think! Why do you think that the military only excepts 18-22 year old to combat? Is it because they won't question the reason they're dying in a war that is unjust? The military is able to brainwash them easily to do as they are told, "yes sir"! machines. 'May Peace Prevail on Earth.' ...but we're still waiting...
  24. Somalien you said it perfectly, I don't even have to respond!