i'm 24. but the average age here is 45. how old are you miskiin?

im not sure this is good, having a woman lead is xaraam in diinta.

genius pauper.;724155 wrote: waa bilaahi towfiiq, kasaar meesha. if you will intsruct people to do what allah has forbidden, then adaa cirka roob ku og. abti. finding a good woman who will raise your children as their mother is an arduous task, one that requires full attention. what good will it do to marry any woman you may cross only to find yourself divorced, penniless and your children taken away. In your journey to find the holy grail of a woman to plant your seeds and start your family, its better to plough wenches to pass the time to your destination. Some say the more respectful journey is to fast and keep yourself of good mental strength, that may well be true, but alas not every man is made of such sturdy stuff. indeed allah(swt) is merciful, and if you sin for a better purpose, then allah(swt) will show you mercy whence you repent.

doqon iyo habeen baa madow, although im dark, darkness on a woman is just unattractive, when i see dark woman, i think of jin.

i just feel bad for these odays, they need a support group from these women who are exploiting them for what little money they have. i need to start an oday advocacy group.

bilan;724058 wrote: What part of she was forced to marry him you do not understand, war I do not blame her for fainting, she was expecting a prince but he turned out to be a frog. forced in what way? if she said no, what would've happened? nothing. no doubt she wanted his money.

Aaliyyah;724052 wrote: ^ like it was said here before features count! ..wiil cad muxu itaraya if he is a skinny farah with weird features lol ! ...waxaad rabi laha any day a darker guy who is mascular and well build hehe..but hey it all boils down to a personal preference. Everyone judges beauty in their own way!...its not written on a stone lol..qofwalba dookh buu leyahay. I am sure guys judge girls in things that dnt include color necessary. And, ofcourse there are those who prefer lighter girls..bt how many light skinned girls arent considered beauty where a darker girl maybe san dheer..oo slim ah ka quruxbadantahay. I am just saying it is all relative!..marka huuno dookhaaga yaa seegin whatever flies with you! salaam its different with men. women prefer darker masculine men and men prefer lighter feminine women. its all biolgy. you think these girls would be using lighning creams if there was no preference for light skinned girls? it may not be politically correct but its true.

bilan the odaay is the victim in this case, he travelled all the way from the west for the warm touch of young girl, and he paid her and her family and she has the audacity to faint in front of him. and then use him in bed all the while taking his money. she is no victim. its seems to me, she wanted to have her cake(west) and eat it too. the odaay was ****** for bringin her to the west. imagine those three kids knowing their mother tricked their father into coming to the west.

aaliyah if skin color is not part of beauty, then what is? what makes skin color any different than other features people are born with such as hair etc? by your logic, how should beauty be judged. its not a just coincident that most men prefer light skinned girls, its just one of many features of beauty.

haye 14 pages, have we reached a conclusion? marriage while at school is risky business, as a man, if you feel the urge for a woman, you're better off commiting the lessser of evils and just date girls to fulfill your needs until your ready for marriage and children.

i have a feeling all the girls saying dont cadeey yourself are light skinned and they dont want competition from the dark girls.

forced marriage? no one forced them anything, if the girl said no, she could have told her family and maybe go somewhere else. trust me, these girls are no victims. besides they are better off than a lot of girls who are forced to do worse things to earn money. marriage is halal at least. inshallah when im old, i hope to exploit a few young girls for marriage. but i will not make the mistake of bringing them to the west. ii duceeya.

ms moons people are allowed to have preferences, lets not kid ourselfs? skin color is part of beauty. no one wants a dark naag nor a very pale sickly looking one. we can either pretend and be politically correct or admit that certain features are a mark of beauty.

Chocolate and Honey;724015 wrote: Breaking News: Perverts blame having a concience on the West. They miss the old days when they roamed earth rapping, buying and selling little girls in the pretext of culture and religion. :rolleyes::rolleyes: is marriage a perversion now? i suppose you'd prefer ur daughters to be naked super models in the west than having a blessed islamic marriage?

bilan;723986 wrote: This is really sad, I know a girl right here in USA who was married off to 60 year old man, the only difference was when the groom showed up at her parents’ house few days after the wedding she said she fainted . he was not the man she was expecting, she was 19 at the time and her father told her, the groom is between 30-35, Instead here was her husband 60+ with half of his teeth missing. after I saw the guy, I did not blame her for fainting, I was more surprised that she did not die right there, but good thing she divorced him as soon as he brought her to USA thinking with 3 children she will be forced to stay with him. at 60 and he gave her 3 children? you;d think a man with such ferocious virility would be a prize.

mashallah. wiil iyo caano. whats with all these people with 'western' sentiment, when did a 19 year old become a child? say congrats to the bride and groom and move on people. haters never prosper.

Sayid*Somal;723097 wrote: ahmadinejad - there is a somali prayer that says: Illahayow xishoodka ha naga qaadin - you should try saying that prayer every time you get inclined to write something in SOL Failing that - next time you pick your nose - try not to pick it too hard - as the results so far are showing that you are heading for time when that little brain of yours is about to drop out. p.s. any reply you come back with - not will not be seen from now onwards - i am taking a leaf out of Blessed and Ibti's book of 'ignoring the ignorants'. :cool: boowe, ma xanaaqday?

dark skin is ugly on naago, lets just admit that. if i see dark girl, i say the shahaada and run the other way. i say, there is nothing wrong with woman makin themselves beautiful n attractive, if that means enhancing ur breasts or using lightning cream. go for it ladies.

naga dhaaf qardho waa meel ilaahay nacay

look at deese haters, lil cuzzo is swagged out n ballin. rageedi erryday son

Juxa;722775 wrote: men should be allowed to take second wives, and women should be allowed to divorce him, correct their first mistake and get an upgrade! everyone happy who wud want an old lady, a woman expires at the age of 30 like bad milk. but ur right about the first part. men need multiple wives as allah has willed.

*Ibtisam;722330 wrote: Salamah, 1. AfricaOwn; as an ambassador and an advocate for Somaliland you make a poor job of making it appealing. You are always angry, resulting to name calling etc. There is an art to persuasion which you lack (Ngonge, Ododwyne, Suldaan, Ayoub and North have) and you are just angry 24/7 and easy to provoke (while JB comes across as happy go lucky). You, XX, axmed, saleex and Abokor are far too militant, rude and disrespectful (yes yes I get it people are the same to you, but you have to learn to rise above it). hunno, why are you adding me to the rude list? im not rude, an i love somalilanders from sool. in fact, i proposed a new policy for somaliland to marry off all beautiful soolian girls in las canood n buhuudle off to soldiers from hargeisa n burco to make babies and make the future generation pro- SL.

its nice and sunny out, what u plans? enjoy the long weekend reer SOL. im out for now.

*Blessed;721997 wrote: The politic section waa shar socda. Saldhiga shaydaanka. It would be nice if I could put it on ignore like some of the id*ts here. hunno, tell me what ****** are bothering you. i'll take care of them for u.

I'm completely and utterly disgusted by his behaviour. why in the world would he cheat with an ugly woman like this? at least hire a hot young sexy latina that will call u papi, not one that looks a drag queen. its like he wanted to get it on with a female version of him