Umm Maryam;819253 wrote:
Your post is extremly offensive. First of all you ASSUME im a revert, in Islam my brother, people dont guess. Second of all women dont belong to anyone. Please give me a hadith/ayah that can confirm what you are saying. I dont belong to my husband or to his family or to my parents. Nobody OWNS me. True a muslim women needs to please her husband and be respectful to others but she also has rights.
As for my nationality, Im not somalian, but Im from another part of Africa. What you said is truly disturbing. Im learning my deen, but the question is, are you??
Well, the diin says that the husband is in charge of his wife and must provide for her etc, and the wife must obey her husband. Now to me, you seem like a very disrespectful wife who doesn't listen to her husband and insults his mother. That is no way for a good muslimah to act.
Second, where in africa are you from? I hope not west africa.