It is really simple....women want the same things from a relationship that men want from the relationship. Women want to be number one in the eyes of their beloved...first priority! In other words, they want to be cherished. The men who figure out that little secret can have any woman he wants.
A woman wants to feel that her man has confidence in her ability to fix whatever is wrong by herself. However, she may need her man to listen to her vent because this way she is able to hear how the problem sounds out loud. Most men make the mistake of trying to fix whatever the problem is themselves because it makes them uncomfortable to see the person they love so unhappy. Get a grip, guys! Women will not have a mental collapse if they become unhappy! It is not your responsibility to fix the problem, offer advice, or make her happy. Women are capable of asking for advice when they need it. So what do you do when she needs to vent? Take a look at what makes you feel better when you need to vent. And here's another hint: ask her what she needs from you!
One very important element to remember is to be true to yourself. If you want to know something, ask. If you want to know if she likes you, ask her. If you want her phone number, ask her. If you want to meet her, ask her. If she doesn't respond the way you want her to, ask her again! Personally, I like my men to be persistent. I like a man who is secure with himself (which translates as being true to himself) persistent in going after whatever it is he wants, secure enough to let me be myself, even if it conflicts with some of his needs, and has the ability to compromise (which means he doesn't always have to have everything his way) Ask her what she wants, and tell her if you cannot provide what she needs. Let her make the decision of whether she is willing to make a compromise or not. It is not a rejection of who you are if she decides that she cannot compromise on a certain need.
Finally, rub my feet till I fall asleep………………zzzzzzzzzz
