Originally posted by oz_girl: I think my fear of men is preventing me from finding a spouse. I know to some that might sound ludicrous but to me it's ruining my life. My debilitating fear is crippling me in the romance department. If a guy shows an interest i immediately withdraw from his company .Everyone thinks i'm being secretive about my relationships but how do i tell them that none exist? How do you tell your friends that you're afraid to be in a relationship with a man? I've had plenty or a decent number of guys who've shown interest in me but once they do i become flustered and put off. If i like a guy i become very hostile and snobbish around him even though my heart is singing a different tune. I think I’ve taken "play hard to get" to a dangerous and unhealthy level. do any of you ladies feel the same way? And how do I go about freeing myself from these shackles? May be you're just interested in girls? :confused: I kid, I KID!!! You remind me of a cousin who once said to me 'I hate when men show interest in me or chase me, what a turn off! I like to be the one doing the chasing'... Could that be the case Ms. OZ? I've seen women who try to find anything and everything wrong with men once they show interest...Heck even 'cidiyahiisa wasaq ah' xataa waan maqlay as an excuse...

I have a picture of when I was dhar jaale with some of my former classmates, I am very tempted inaan kusoo dhajiyo meeshaan...Kaaga daranee afka geeskiisa daqsi aa iga saaran... :mad: Che, naga qalee hee, smiles iyo calool xanuun aa igu diloysaa maanta...

Originally posted by Norfsky: Still no reasons given is to WHY they leave. A debate they are afraid of me thinks. Did you not read this: I have been in the west for 7 yrs now and to be honest, the environment we live in does affect us or change us. Westiga dadka wey ilbixisaa dee huuno, duh...

Bismilaahi Raxmaani Raxiim...Acuudubilaa hi Mina Sheydaani Rajiim @Allah bieng an illusion, false and a product of people's imagination...Tana waa i dhineed inaan SOL ka aqriyo! Originally posted by NGONGE: Stuff and nonsense (and funny that you should join in the same week as Oz Girl). FOR THE LOVE OF ALLAH, WHAT'S WITH YOU AND OZ GIRL? Waaba ku digrinoysaayee wah! Somali09 hada masoomanid miyaa? Fufu, sxb anigabo masooni, does that mean I am going the other way too?

The way mesees it is: today is yesterday's tomorrow, if you're happy with yesterday's outcome "today" - more power to you...If you aren't, there's nothing wrong with working for a better tomorrow today... It is all about setting realistic goals, been isu sheega dad badan buu qar ka tuuraa...

Mee Riyoode ugama dhexjeedi xayawaanadee?

^Boowe ka fiirso, the term 'is-qarxis' has different meanings to different folks...LOL Originally posted by Fu-Fu: ^^^ I have never seen Sigaar sprite lagu dajinaayo Raashiin miyaa Ee maxaan ka ogahay hee, sigaarka naftirkiisa cuntaduu dajiyaa lee maqlee...Marka in Sprite la'isaga dajiyo sharciyaa kayaal... Sigaar sibikh buu kugu soo galaaye midhaa malin dhow habo qoor dheer oo xafiiska hortiisa hal dheer la tagaan la arkaa ( haday dhacdo juxa jiko diido ayaa ka masuula) Habo waa hore buu sibikh igu soo gali lahaa...

Originally posted by nuune: niyadey kuu dhiseesay, adigay wax kaa damacsaneyd inkaar qabtada Hater! Aniga oo aan waxba JB ka damac saneyn, and as someone who has seen him, he does not look like a day older than 24!!! Hada yaanan la'isku qaldin aragtidiisa iyo inta sano jiro yaah...

Originally posted by Nin-Yaaban: As KK said, I smoke when I am under duress or I am around smokers. What? Where did I write I smoke under duress or when I am around smokers! NEVER!!! dreams of lighting it up, deeply inhaling and blows to KK's painted face Are you saying my face looks painted on when I put on my make-up? Sigaarka inta gacanta Juxaa ka qaado, hal tiiro layaqaan gashato, Sprite kadaba kabato, ee shaqadeeda kunoqonee iyadoo wareeroyso... AAAAAAAH!!!

I am not a smoker, but for a quick minute today I felt like lighting up one - si baan u dibirsanaa... How I hate the smell of smokers, specially right after they come in from outside smoking! Uffffff!!!

I made sambuus today...Gosh, still laab jeexaa i haayo! :mad:

Originally posted by Jacaylbaro: Waar tolow kii yaa arkay mar dambe ,,,, Amaad adiga askar ku dalbatay oo la xiray? Hmmmm!

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Originally posted by Ducaysane: gabdhaha ilbaxa ah quotes kooda lama rabo Yaa diiday? Inteese lagu diiday? Yaase marqaati ahaa?

"Ani kusheegi maayee, shanta uun yey ku sheegin" by gabar ilbax ah

Caku iyo cadowga Sland, bal wexey ciridyo ( ) kala foolxun meesha kusoo sharaxdeen arka? :mad:

Originally posted by juxa: i am glad Ngonge and ibti are talking again. O'lord NO!!! Waanka nasanay labadaan bari...Lakiin waa bil Ramadaanoo, we still have a few more weeks of nasasho...

Typo, it is kalaankal (I corrected it)...N'way waa suqaar lashiilay oo la gaduudiyay using only onions and maraq digaag...As for mushaari, ma boorash baa u taqaan? Ramadaan Kariim Mr. Diiriye...

Nuunka, allaha kaa aqbalo soonka iyo salaadaba insha'allah...Anaga biri aan is diyaarinoynaa, although I won't be fasting... Tomorrow, first day of Ramadan, will all be about Timir, Kalaankal, Malawax, Sambuus, Bur, and may be mushaari (not a huge of the damn thing)...

Kenyan stranding triggered by skin colour: Mohamud A Toronto woman who was stranded in Kenya over false claims she was an impostor said she believes the colour of her skin played a role in her ordeal. In an exclusive interview with the CBC's Diana Swain, Suaad Hagi Mohamud was asked if she thought things would have been different if she were white. "I wouldn’t be stopped at the Kenyan airport if I'm a white," Mohamud said. "The Canadian High Commission wouldn’t be treating me the way they treat me. If I'm a white person, I wouldn't be there in one day. I wouldn't have missed the flight." Mohamud, 31, who was visiting her mother in Kenya, had been stranded in the country since May after Kenyan authorities said she didn't look like the picture in her passport photo. Mohamud, who filed a $2.5 million lawsuit against the federal government on Friday, said the reaction by officials to her situation was "really frustrating" because "deep inside I thought we all the same." She said her ordeal began when a KLM worker stopped her and looked at her documents and said that she did not look like her photos. Mohamud said she was asked to pay a bribe to "make the problem go away." "They make you miserable, tired, give up, for some money there." But she said she never considered paying a bribe, saying she’s "always a straight person" and that she had done nothing wrong. Canadian consular officials called her an impostor, voided her passport and urged Kenyan officials to prosecute her, even after Mohamud handed over numerous pieces of identification, offered fingerprints and finally demanded that her DNA be tested. She was charged on May 28 with identity fraud and spent eight days in jail. Mohamud said prison was horrible and that she was put in with gang members, killers and thieves. "It's really horrible and a bad place to be. It's not something I can describe — the food, the sickness I get over there." She said she tried everything to prove who she was and asked officials to call her 12-year-old son in Toronto. "Why don’t you just call him and say, 'Where is your mom? Where is she? Where [did] she go? Are you with someone?' In that case, they will know if they really wanted to find out." DNA tests proved Mohamud was who she said she was and the charges were dropped. She returned to Toronto on Saturday. She said she blames the Canadian government, saying they "let me down, big time. "No matter where we are, where we go, we're all citizens and I believe that we don't have a different level, we're all Canadian citizens," she said. "I'm just asking the government to get up and back up their people wherever they are." Link

^Ilama aha inuu yaqaano isda loo saamey, dariskaa kusadaqeysan doono...

^Huh? Afur aa? Soon biri mabilaabanoyo miyaa? Or you mean suxuur, which I believe is too early to suxuur? Fufu, Ma maqli jirtay 'diyaaradaas lugahaa ubixiwaayey wey dagi weyday'?

^Kajajib at its best ma is tiri? Fufu, akhas @xabad timo...Saan maqlay waa in uu chickenka cunistiisa badan dadka dufta ku badiyo...

Fufu, two full chicken aa? Sidii daanyeerka ma u duf badantahay hee? Che, maskiin Waankuu soo niyeysanaa ayeeyo I'A, saa hadaan dhoho Torontaan kaaga soo dhiibaa isagoo shuuqay uu ku soo gaaraayee... Nuunka, sambuuska waxa agyaalo basbaas miyaa? Wax wasaq ah uu u egyahay...

You should see gaalada officeka maanta tey isku dhigooyaan! :rolleyes: Yea, very unusual... LOL@Illeen xoogaa lacagley tahay...Wax igu filan waan iska heystaa, alxamdulilaah, laakiin lacagley iyo ani kala dheer...Balse niyadaan ka'aha, if that counts for anything...