Amiin, kuligeenba. Starlight, this posting is by far the BEST posting ever on this site... Thnx

Stick to what I know... I know you're using a lame excuse not to have babies... Like I said b4, when you gotta go you gotta go... So come up with another excuse not to have a child...

Sis_With_Issues, you know when your time comes, whether giving birth, eating, talking, walking, and whateva else it may be, you'll die. When you gotta go you gotta go, regardless... So this "Someone close to me died giving birth" is BS to me... Sorry...

Chik, I don't know your reasons fo not wanting to have children... I mean I can understand if you said you didn't want kids right after you got married and wanted to enjoy your time with your new husband and all... but forever, I don't know about that... I am sure if the guy loves you he'll respect your wishes... I don't know how many guys would do though, and would love to see the guys responses... So keep it comin' guys...

Adoption is out of the question, as far as I am conserned... Why would I go through the hassal of being pregnant fo 9 long months and then give up the child fo adoption... I would never ever ever forgive myself fo that... Knowing I have a child in this world who doesn't know about my existance... Going to bed at night wondering if he/she is still even alive, if he/she has eaten that day, if he/she is happy...HELL NO... So far obortion is the only best thing I can think of... I would ask for GOD's forgiveness... God forgives us all...

Sad but Encouraging... Thnx fo refering to us as Queens...

Sad but Encouraging... Thnx fo refering to us as Queens...

Sad but Encouraging... Thnx fo refering to us as Queens...

Sad but Encouraging... Thnx fo refering to us as Queens...

I rather obort an unborn child than to live with depression or become suicidle. Besides if I keep the baby, how would he/she fit into society, knowing it is the result of a rape... And y'all know how much we "SOMALIS" talk... So I would have an obortion, instead of me living in a shame and my baby with "CUQDAD"... Hell NO!!! And if I were told by the doctor, I could never have another, so be it... It was an unplanned baby to begin with (I might sound narrow minded) but the thought of being raped really freaks me out...

Call-Susan-Sex... That's the best input I read so far, but the "Morning After Bill" is effective up to 72hours after an unprotected sexual intercourse, just an FYI...

BARWAAQO, I agree with you sis... There ain't no doubt in my mind that "Alla nagumakeeno kuligeenba" I would have an obortion if I were raped and got pregnant... Sorry...

Yea, Naasir I was born in the Kawaanka Hilibka oo kuyaalay suuqa Bakaarah...lol I believe Bakaarah was Xaafad, and the Suuqa was named after that Xaafad... Get it???

Was born in Bakaaraha, and grew up in KM4 or No4... Lady_Soul keep representing, who knows may be we were "DARIS"...

Scorpion... One of the main reasons, I think, is that he might not be good enough for her, since she's experienced. Another reason is that they might not be able to handle the criticism...lol One advice fo the guys... If you want to marry a virgin, stop sleep with women... I don't understand how they would wanna sleep with you, before getting married... and still want to marry a virgin... darnnnnnn

Here's something interestingly and disgustingly funny and we can all relate to, post your reply and be honest... HOW TO POOP AT WORK! We've all been there but don't like to admit it. We've all kicked back in our cubicles and suddenly felt something brew down below. As much as we try to convince ourselves otherwise, the WORK POOP is inevitable. For those who hate pooping at work, following is the 2001 Survival Guide for taking a dump at work. Memorize these definitions and pooping at work will become a pure pleasure. ESCAPEE. Definition: a fart that slips out while taking a leak at the urinal or forcing a poop in a stall. This is usually accompanied by a sudden wave of panic embarrassment. This is similar to the hot flash you receive when passing an unseen police car and speeding. If you release an escapee, do not acknowledge it. Pretend it did not happen. If you are standing next to the farter in the urinal, pretend you did not hear it. No one likes an escapee, it is uncomfortable for all involved. Making a joke or laughing makes both parties feel uneasy. JAILBREAK (Used in conjunction with ESCAPEE). Definition: When forcing poop, several farts slip out at a machine gun pace. This is usually a side effect of diarrhea or a hangover. If this should happen, do not panic. Remain in the stall until everyone has left the bathroom so to spare everyone the awkwardness of what just occurred. COURTESY FLUSH. Definition: The act of flushing the toilet the instant the nose cone of the poop log hits the water and the poop is whisked away to an undisclosed location. This reduces the amount of air time the poop has to stink up the bathroom. This can help you avoid being caught doing the WALK OF SHAME. WALK OF SHAME. Definition: Walking from the stall, to the sink, to the door after you have just stunk up the bathroom. This can be a very uncomfortable moment if someone walks in and busts you. As with all farts, it is best to pretend that the smell does not exist. Can be avoided with the use of theCOURTESY FLUSH. OUT OF THE CLOSET POOPER. Definition: A colleague who poops at work and damn proud of it. You will often see an Out Of The Closet Pooper enter the bathroom with a newspaper or magazine under their arm. Always look around the office for the Out Of The Closet Pooper before entering the bathroom. THE POOPING FRIENDS NETWORK (PFN). Definition: A group of coworkers who band together to ensure emergency pooping goes off without incident. This group can help you to monitor the whereabouts of Out Of The Closet Poopers, and identify SAFE HAVENS. SAFE HAVENS. Definition: A seldom used bathroom somewhere in the building where you can least expect visitors. Try floors that are predominantly of the opposite sex. This will reduce the odds of a pooper of your sex entering the bathroom. TURD BURGLAR: Definition: A pooper who does not realize that you are in the stall and tries to force the door open. This is one of the most shocking and vulnerable moments that can occur when taking a dump at work. If this occurs, remain in the stall until the Turd Burglar leaves. This way you will avoid all uncomfortable eye contact. CAMO-COUGH. Definition: A phony cough that alerts all new entrants into the bathroom that you are in a stall. This can be used to cover-up a WATERMELON, or to alert potential Turd Burglars. Very effective when used in conjunction with an ASTAIRE. ASTAIRE. Definition: A subtle toe-tap that is used to alert potential Turd Burglars that you are occupying a stall. This will remove all doubt that the stall is occupied. If you hear an Astaire, leave the bathroom immediately so the pooper can poop in peace. WATERMELON. Definition: A turd that creates a loud splash when hitting the toilet water. This is also an embarrassing incident. If you feel a Watermelon coming on, create a diversion. See CAMO-COUGH. HAVANA OMELET. Definition: A load of diarrhea that creates a series of loud splashes in the toilet water. Often accompanied by an Escapee. Try using a Camo-Cough with an Astaire. UNCLE TED. Definition: A bathroom user who seems to linger around forever. Could spend extended lengths of time in front of the mirror or sitting on the pot. An Uncle Ted makes it difficult to relax while on the crapper, as you should always wait to drop your load when the bathroom is empty. This benefits you as well as the other bathroom attendees. FLY BY. Definition: The act of scouting out a bathroom before pooping. Walk in and check for other poopers. If there are others in the bathroom, leave and come back again. Be careful not to become a FREQUENT FLYER. People may become suspicious if they catch you constantly going into the bathroom.

Nuune, xawaa u lameeyay ni uu rijin foq fa'kaan qayaano. Ramsakto aan riifiyo sheemtaan fa laawan aa uk roqan... Well there, I at least see someone who speaks my kinda af'jini...

Tamina, I disagree with you sis. I will not dress any man when he becomes mine. I will not look at a man twice if he ain't fashionable. One of the things that make people attractive is the way they dress. Sandaka maanta ah you need someone ku jaf jaf to not the other way around. A man should know how to dress, though some may lack one thing or another.

Ashkira, girl Ishaa Katuurtay, specially with the nails. I hate men with long and dirty nails. As for fashion, I like basic colors (grey, beige, brown, black) whether it is formal or casual... Formal: Grey suit kills... Casual: Jeans/Kakhi with white/blue/brown t-shirt or shirt, with a pair of Lugs or Timberlands. Or Linen pants and a white t-shirt with brown Sandals. (Aldo or Browns carry the best brands) As far as accessories: Silver works for me. Nice little watch (of course brand name)...

My bad I ain't even seen the date of the topic.lol

First of all, no man is ever rightfully yours, he's human not property... Sencondly, as LadyFatima said, no man is ever worth fightin' fo... Thirdly, if y'all had been together for only 6month and he already started cheating on you, girlfriend he ain't worth it... So my advise to you is LEAVE his a$$, let the other girl have your leftovers. Like they say "Silac kunool Sodon guursato aa dhaanto". Meaning instead of staying in an unhappy relationship, it's better to date men and dismiss them if they ain't treating you right... It's all about you chik, it is selfish, but it's the truth...

First and for most iga raalinoqda, I haven't had the time to read all the responses... Most women get married for all the wrong reasons: -they feel they are getting too old -they get pregnant, and try to cover it by getting married -they are too young -they are unhappy at home with family -they are inexperieced with life itself, therefore always depend on the man -they are uneducated -they don't take the time to get to know the other person. So for those who get married for those reasons are the once who are unhappy. To me, before any woman gets married, she should be independent, well educated, and secure a good job. She should be happy with herself, and life style.

Aight, here goes my list: Foolish by Ashanti I Need A Girl by Piddy f/Usher Carmel by City High f/Eve Ain't it Funny by J-Lo f/Ja Rule What's Luv... by Fat Jo f/Ashati Anything by Jaheim Young 'n (Holla Back) by Fabolous Rock Da Boat by Aaliyah And of course any jam by the late NATORIOUS BIG, Baby Babyyyy...

Aight, here goes my list: Foolish by Ashanti I Need A Girl by Piddy f/Usher Carmel by City High f/Eve Ain't it Funny by J-Lo f/Ja Rule What's Luv... by Fat Jo f/Ashati Anything by Jaheim Young 'n (Holla Back) by Fabolous Rock Da Boat by Aaliyah And of course any jam by the late NATORIOUS BIG, Baby Babyyyy...

Aight, here goes my list: Foolish by Ashanti I Need A Girl by Piddy f/Usher Carmel by City High f/Eve Ain't it Funny by J-Lo f/Ja Rule What's Luv... by Fat Jo f/Ashati Anything by Jaheim Young 'n (Holla Back) by Fabolous Rock Da Boat by Aaliyah And of course any jam by the late NATORIOUS BIG, Baby Babyyyy...