Shyhem, i see you're trying to talk smart... I like how you memorized my signature... Just the fact that you did, I let you win... Besides, I don't like to waste my precious time with rookies, if you know what i mean... So let's leave it at that... you won... Don't be a child now and continue this, aight... That's not an opinion...

Lefty, jealousy is not in my dictionary bro... Soccer... Left OR Right

North America for sure 110%... LazieGirl OR Shyhem... They both seem to be seeking attention...

Sulekha, here's my advise... I believe 18 is way too young to get married... You might think that you've matured and all, but the fact it you are still new to the game... What I mean is that a girl at the age 18 could not have experienced life... I am sure you've dated a short while, and a lot of reponsibilities come with marriage... You are barely out of school, and without education ppl would not have respect for you... Your number one priority should be school (educating yourself better), NOT marriage... What happens if you have kids at the age 19, how do you plan to support it with only little education... Education goes a long way, but marriage is only 50/50... Noone could ever take your education from you, but you know how guys are... I've seen men who've been married for years, and then leave thier wives for another chik, or balwad... What are you gonna do if you are in that situation (God forbid)... N'way, you should take your time, enjoy life, educate yourself better, see what's out there for you, keep your options open... DO NOT RUSH INTO MARRIAGE... And if really like this guy, as much as you say, give it sometime... Age ain't nothing but a number... I would rather have a 20yr old guy who treats me with respect, love and honesty; than a 24yr old guy who treats me like trash... It ain't about age, it's all about personality, education, respect, and everything else that follow... If he wants you to meet his mom, meet her if you think you're ready for that step... Besides like you said she and your mom are friends so it shouldn't be a big deal... That's all ama say now...

As I promised b4, you win bro... Your point is very well taken... Thank you so much for your input... ta ta now Hugs and Kisses

Continue this game... NO DOUBT... Poor and Beautiful OR Rich and Ugly... hmmmm :confused:

Nomad-By-Nature, Just for you I promise I'll let him WIN... It is a promise... I am a woman of her words... Shyhem, you win... Did you read that... YOU WIN...

Good Shyhem, looks like you are getting there slowly... I will train you more later... Shyhem, I could careless as to what, Like you said "your FILTHY brain", think... Admitting that your brain is FILTHY says it all... No wonder... As far as getting repect from you, I really haven't tried that, and really don't give a damnnnnnnnn... Just have respect for yourself, which you seem to lack... Aight, little one, take good care of yourself tonite and don't let the buggs bite... Hugs and Kisses :eek:

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Originally posted by xafsa: True equality will be had only when women don't need to display themselves to get attention and won't need to defend their decision to keep their bodies to themselves. By Naheed Mustafa[/QB] I agree with this a 110%... I really enjoyed your post, and as you said Your Body is Your Business... Nothing more, Nothing Less... Keep up the good work... Allaha nawada hanuuniyo, kuligeenba...

Shyhem, we rather have 1050 members (with two names, that is) than to have 10,000 members that do nothing but disrespect one another... I hope you got the point I am trying to make... I rather be a member of a site with only two members, if that is the only respectable site... Get it, good...

ISBAANDHEYS, cuz I don't know the other one... Talk on the phone or chat on the net...

AAAHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAA... Aryaa ninkaan MMA nagaqabto... Cudur QOSOL ladhahaayo uu dadka kuridaa... War yaa dhalay oo naga ceshto... Alla, feerahii aa i fuuray, waan ilmaynooyaa... Heedhe MMA nagadaa cudurkaan fiican aad wadatid... , need I say more...

Shaqsii, You said all there is to say to the Rookie... What can I say, Manners, Manners, Manners... Shyhem, this is the only site I've seen where the Admin has respect for their members... Thnx Admin... No BS allowed here... May be you should go to those sites you mention, cuz you sure belong there... Besides why do you have to take every post so Literally... Chill bro, have some fun... Or else, the back door is open, LEAVE... :eek:

Shyhem, where on my post did you read "Believe what I right"... I don't care whether you believe it or not... Believe me that's the least of my worries... Where did you read/hear that a pretty girl can't look for a guy on the net? Did you read the topic "share your cyber stories"... And also the post, which is to basically "share your Romance, Intrigue, Love, relations found, happiness, Nightmares and most of all heartbreaks...Stories and lessons learned..." May be you should read the question at hand, then respond... Instead of spitting your none sense stuff... BTW, what's this WE business when you say "who are we to believe..." Speak for yourself, and yourself only... I am sure others can do the same too... Aight Rookie Besides why is it that every post you post, you're against someone? May be you need a hug or something... Well I got a newsflash for you, You are at the WRONG place... That's it for now... I am sorry if I ofend you in anyway, I just HATE dealing with ppl who talk non-sense... :rolleyes:

Ok, here's my story... I once met a guy through the net... We started emailing each other, then exchanged phone#s... So one night he asked if we could get together... I was like kool... Cuz we've been talking for a while... N'way, I picked the place (a Mall located downtown Toronto), very busy... So I said we'll meet at around 3... Got there at about 2:20, picked a nice hide out place so I could see how he looked like... Needless to say the guy was (don't get me wrong but) ugly as hell, almost my father's age, and if that wasn't bad enough, he was dressed so badly (if there were a fashion police, Walaahi, I would've called them)... I just left him sitting there and waiting... I ran into a friend of mine at the mall, we went window shopping... About two hours later, we passed by the place, and the guy was still sitting there, looking around... I got home late that night, and for about two weeks the guy kept on calling and leaving messages... At first they were nice, then when I didn't return his call, he just got so rude... And kept on leaving rude a$$ messages for almost two weeks... I know what I didn't was wrong and unfair, but he should've been honest with me at the beginning... Ohhh boy, did I ever learned my lesson or did I ever learned my lesson... :rolleyes:

How very interesting... I got an Airplane, something that looked like the two Twin towers, something with a danger, and Jewish sign... I don't know, but whoeva thought of this must be good... :eek: :eek:

How very interesting... I got an Airplane, something that looked like the two Twin towers, something with a danger, and Jewish sign... I don't know, but whoeva thought of this must be good... :eek: :eek:

Buubto, thanks for the input... But I believe wearing the Hijaab should come from the heart... Now in my friends case, she wore the hijaab becuase she feared death, meaning if her father hadn't passed, she wouldn't be wearing it... I know may be it was a wake up call for her, if you know what I mean... But if she's so much devoted herself to God in good faith, then she shouldn't complain about wearing the Hijaab, that's all I am saying... Why wear the Hijaab, if you ain't happy with it... I might be wrong, but I can't do something I am not happy with... Specially of stupid reason, like fear of death... I know I'll go when it's time... But I believe it won't be fair to the person, to do something for the wrong reasons... If you are doin' it for the wrong reasons, at least be happy about it... Or don't do it at all... That's all I am saying... Fearing death might be the first step in remembering the all might Allah, but that should be the only reason to remember Allah... That's my believe... If that's wrong, then OH WELL... :rolleyes:

Shoo, Mobb_Deep looks like we posted about the sametime... Treadmill... Sex or Fourplay...

Rock's_Chik, you forgot to answer MY question...lol Blossom, I am still recovering from my cold... But I still couldn't get that medicine you recommended... It's all good though, I should be up and running b4 the weekend... Cuz Caribana is approaching and we have a long weekend this week... BTW, for those who don't know what Caribana is, it is an event that happens once a year in Tdot... Can't wait... Let's get back to the topic... I never had the pleasure of having Eedo, Adeer, or Habaryar... So, I'll choose ABTI all the way... Sex or Fourplay... (hmmmm)

Why not just go to the Masjid and get married... I don't see why Somalians waste so much money on weddings... I hate it when ppl are at the wedding and they start talking trash about other... Like "look at what so and so is wearing" or "arooska wuu isku dhacaayay laakiin meel lakala istaago malaheen"... I just can't stand those kinda comments and I hear it almost all the time... And the funny thing is, the groom and bride don't even know half the ppl at their own wedding... Shame... Why not just get married at the Majid, and send all that money to your family or relatives back home... I am sure they can use it, and ajarna waadka heleysaa... Or better yet, Sadaqo ubaxso all those thousands of dollars... I know a wedding should be celebrated, and what better way than making happy your own family... I just don't get it... I know it comes once or may be twice (LOL), but heck I ain't about to wast thousands of dollars for a couple of hours... Oona dambi ii sii dheer yahay... I rather in aan ubaxsado sadaqo, like help build a masjid or something... Do it with something useful later... Cuz you always ain't gonna be here... I just hope that makes sense... Cuz it sure as hell makes sense to me...

Did someone say, stop this game? Heck, we are just STARTING now...lol A kiss on the neck or a kiss on the lips?

I once told a friend of mine to stop wearing the Xijaab... She never used to wear the hijaab until her father passed away... She started wearing the hijaab, and the girl became unhappy with her life... She always used to complain about how others look at her with the Hijaab on, to the point where she cried all the time... Everytime I go out she would call me on my cell and go on and on and on about how she is bored, how she doesn't go out no more, how she is losing all her friends one by one... So this one time, I really got tired of listening to her BS, and asked why did she decide to wear the hijaab... She said since her father died, she's been scared of death... Walaahi at that point I got so pissed off, may be I shouldn't have... N'way, I told her if she's gonna wear the Hijaab she should wear it for Allah, and not because of death... Told her that when her day comes, ain't no hiding under hijaab or behind closed doors... Told her whether she wears the hijaab, goes to the Masjid 24/7, reads the Quran 24/7, when it is time to go, it's time to go... All this time I thought she wore the hijaab for Allah... Little did I know, the chik was scared of dying... And then there was this other friend who wore the hijaab for two months, cuz Daawa jilciso aa tinta ka jartay... I used to be on her case all the time... I believe, if you are not wearing the hijaab for Allah, you shouldn't wear it at all... Whether it is for your Parents, Friends, Family, Boyfriend or Husban... You should wear it for Allah... And Insha Allah, Allaha nawada hanuuniyo... Ppl like me and Rock's_Chik need that... LOL... ONE LOVE :cool:

Lazie, being negative all the time won't get you anywhere, I know that much... Cilmi, you shouldn't mess with ppls nicknames... Just an FYI, it's Rock's_Chik, not Rocky_Chik... Of course I, myself would vote for Rock's_Chik... She's my girl... N'mean... Pizza Hut... Ayeeyo or Aweewe...