It's not just Somali women, but women in general MATURE faster than men... That's all, ain't nothing more to it... That's why you see, in most of the relationships the man is older, at least a couple of years... I can't imagine myself dating a guy about my age... they are just too immature... Sorry, but that's the truth...

I see most of the ppl getting married without getting to know their partners first... I know of some ppl, who've only known each other for a couple of weeks and they got married... Now, tell me how in God's name you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you've only known for weeks? I think the main reason is that, they don't take the time to get to know one another... They meet someone and mistake infatuation for love... My advise to them is take your darn time and get to know the person... See what his/her dislikes are... See the thing you like about each other... See the things you have in common... See the qualities each has to offer... The list goes on and on... But at least get to know each other...Aight...

Well, let me be the first to ans your q... I think we, as women, are just noisy... Obviously, I don't care about my partner's past... We are both here, and we should concentrate on the present, not past... But I came to realize that not all women are like that... I've seen some of my friends talk about what their b-freinds did in the past for their ex's... That's excatly my point, ex's... As in the past... The only answer is that we are just noisy... And some of us can't even handle the truth... That's all for me...

Ppl cheat cuz =they long for more =unhappy with their partner or even themselves =they want to see how far they can go =low self-esteem =just cuz they can

I would say my Full Luscious Lips, my long curly hair, and big dark brown eyes...

Ok, let me see if I get this correctly... You're saying have some PATIENCE, while my husband is out and about at night... NO WAY... It is said "Sodon guursataa Silac kunool dhaanta"... Or something like that... I rather leave the one who's not appreciating me, and find another... No matter how long it takes... OR Instead of being the one to sit at home and wonder what he is doing, who he's with, where he at, when he's coming home... Girlfriend, I rather be alone and lonely... You bet I'll yell and LEAVE his a$$, if he doesn't get his act together... The reason for getting married is to be committed to that person... To be each other's world... To be together... And to become each other's best friend, lover, etc... Now if he's out and coming home @5 in the morning... Who is gonna do his job? So coming home 5 in the morning is a big NO NO... I know ppl should spend sometime apart, with either friends or family... But this should not be everyday... May be once a week to get with your friends... You know to chill, talk, catch up, see a movie or whateva else... But coming home 5in the morning is not what marriage is about... I would NOT advise any woman to have some patience while her husband comes home 5 or 2 or 12 a.m., Not even 7 or 8... If he's not working he should be at home WITH HIS WIFE... That's that's...

Oui, oui...

TIRENOIR, I don't think you read the topic closely... May be you wanted to post this in "FELLAS what turns you off in a woman"... N'way, to add to my list, I hate: =men who don't shave =men who ask where you're going, with whom, when you coming back =men who don't get along with my FAMILY =men who are uptight and not open to new things/ideas =men who talk about their ex's in a negative way =men who compare me to their ex or other women =men who are inexperienced (in every way) =men with long nails or toe nails (uff, uff, uff) Ok ok ok... I'll stop...

OK, ok, only ugly a$$ ni99az are always this nice...lol I got one thing to add to that, where's this guy? Planet FANTASY!!!

Hey WildC, what's up? You couldn't have said it any better... But hey that's life... I am just tired of these young dudes picking on me... If I am their fantasy, then come out and say it...lol Like WildC said, you can't attack the CAT family and think you get away unscathed... meow meow

Duco aanba kuugu dara hadaa non sense ka naga joojisid... aight... That's it... No more... Be a man of his words... And Stop...

Amazing...

Nadiira, adaan kugu dhaafay hade qofyahay... Caruurta ayaamahaan madax xanuun beyba igu nidaanee...lol

The only reason I don't go to Somali parties is that there are always some foolzz starting up some fights... And then the whole place shuts down... There goes your $20 or $30 dollars, $40 for your hair done, and $100+ for your outfit... When I can go to a club pay about $10 at the most, wear my nice pants/skirt I had for God knows how long, with a nice top... And have a good a$$ time... If there's a fight... Only those involved will be carried out of the club... That's all, ain't nothing more to it... Let me get back to Somali parties... There's the fact, guyzz stand on the corners, eye balling chicks... They either don't have the guttz to come and talk to ya... Or the one who has the guttz, is a looser... N'way, I find Somali parties to be waste to money and time... Ok, let me see... Why pay $20 to get in, and almost $150 for your outfit and hair do... Just so that you can go home unhappy and unsatisfied... Besides I am getting too old for Somali parties... Ok now, let's just keep this between you and I... Aight...lol

Ok, this really got me off guard... A VIBERATOR under the bed, I don't think so... N'way, I keep my nice, expensive shoes under my bed... So that my friends don't ask me if they can borrow them to some ruwaayad, aroos, or club... I am a shoe fanatic, and don't like any one to borrow them... As for woman using viberators, when there's a guy willing to do the job... Well I can only come up with one answer... And that's... Guys don't last as long as viberators... I hope I didn't offend anyone...

Humble_bro... You forgot about the party just before Ramadan starts... Walaahi, just last night in Toronto, there was a ruwaayad... Why? 'Cuz Ramadan is starting soon... Goshhhh... What's wrong with these ppl... And another thing I have problem with is girls/women who cover up just for the month of Ramadan... And then when Ramadan is done with, they're back to their old habits... All uncovered and shiiitttttttttttt... Damnnnnn that really gets to me, Walaahi...

Nadiira, naga qabo hade waxaan... I agree with you 100%... You know how there's this one person who tries to be negative all the time... Well look no further... Unfortunately, we've got one here... He's a little kid who needs guidence... Now if I were to guide him, I am afraid he'll get lost in the game... Yaaqay qof ha'iga damiinto qofkaan... Wah... Dadkaan isqorbadanaa iyagana, ani waan ba yaabee...

Shujui_1, it is obvious you're looking for someone to chit chat with... But let me tell you one thing, I am the last person you want to chit chat with... 'Cuz I will eat you alive... Now with that siad... If you read my post real closely, I said you SHOULD go back to watching cartoonzzz... Got it... Good... Now let's move on... Ain't no need to be replying to each other, specially when what you're saying is plain non sense... Aight kiddo... I would say quite while you can... Cuz I've witnessed too many ppl who became addicted to Kool_Kat... I hope you get What I am trying to say... And keep your non sense to yourself...

lol@runaway^V, that's really funny... I would've said cut his ding dong... But naa, that ain't even worth it...But I would make him pay dearly... Believe me I've been there, done that... It is hard to pretend when you're hurting... But for me that was the best solution... I won't let anyone take me for a fool.. I believe in the old sayin' "Pay back is a B1tch"... He'll pay for it and even more... Use your mind... Dumping his a$$ will be too easy... You should make him pay for you pain so much, so he doesn't mess around no more... Believe me it worked out for me... But the damn guy became obsessed with me... Let's just say it wasn't easy dumping him after he paid for his mistake... But hey it was all worth it...

N_B_N, that's funny... Really... Cambodia!!!

Kash_Flow, very well said... =Why do some of the Nomads here stick their noses where it doesn't belong? =Why is it that some ppl believe being negative is the way to get attention? =Why are ppl so hard headed and ignorant? =Why do some of us enjoy putting the others down? =Why do we attack each other without nowing or having all the facts? =Why? WHy? WHY?

Shujui_1, hun don't be a hater working overtime... You'll never ever get on my list... If you need attention just holla... And you'll get some attention... But being negative ain't the way to go... 'Cuz I hate to waste my time on ppl who write a lot of non sense... And in your case, it seems like it... Aight... lil' one... qouting Pluto the dogg from the cartoons!!! Ohh yea, and I think you should go back to watching cartoonzzz!!!

Nadiira, I think it's only fair that you start... So go ahead... We're waiting for you...

hahaaaahahhahahaaaaaaaaa... Ar SAMBUUS iyo iyada maxaa kala qabsaday... Sam_Puusi, yaah... hahahahaaaaaaaaa

Alla hooyooy maxaa meeshaan laga bilaabay... Goodness... Yaa naagahii aaba loo soo dhigtay ma la is yiri... Walaahi qosolka aa iga dhameeyseen... Now let me ask one thing...I've always wanted to ask this and I don't see it anyone's turn offs... Ok to da fellas... Does a woman who is more educated or makes more money than you turns you off? Be real!!!