OG_Moti, Allah mukulaashu ii ekaa markaan ooynaayo, wilibo shaarbaha...looooooooool... R^V, ok ok ok...Cararkaaga iska wado ilaa aad Somali meel eyjoogaan tagtid...

Originally posted by flying-still: ( this is assuming you have no valid reason not to be with this person..just that your niyah is not stable.) What more valid reason do you need if your niyah is not stable... Like Lakkad siad "Nabsi in my eyes is when u do someone wrong and u initiated the wrong doing." So, if you make a promise/axdi to someone only to get something out of it (to your advantage), then I think you'll pay for it one way or the other...But if the promise/axdi was real and came from your Niyah, then you can change your mind if later your Niyah is not stable or happy... I hope that makes sense...

Cooking is a skill that can be learned...But beauty is not a skill (whether inner or outer)...

Originally posted by ManOfWisdom: God did not say sit down somewhere and wait for ur “calaf”. Where on my reply did I suggest such a thing...Ohh well...

Runaway^V, intaad dadka ka ordaysay maa Florida ka dhacday...War hooy yaa kudhoho jooji orodkaan badan...lol Ok, how about I email you some canjeero with saliid macsaro/subag iyo sonkor, and shaah heel iyo qorfe leh...yummmmm... Email is the only thing I can think of, since I am nowhere near FL, and would like to help...

Ameenahhhhh, I can't believe you left without me seeing you!!! Well, like you said there's alwayz next time... I really hope you enjoyed your stay here in Toronto...And from what I can see here, the Nomads you met treated you well...lol I am really disappointed, though...

MiSs...The only time I have problem with my listening skills are when ppl make no sense in what they are sayin'...But other times I seem to do OK...

MiSs...The only time I have problem with my listening skills are when ppl make no sense in what they are sayin'...But other times I seem to do OK...

MiSs...The only time I have problem with my listening skills are when ppl make no sense in what they are sayin'...But other times I seem to do OK...

MiSs...The only time I have problem with my listening skills are when ppl make no sense in what they are sayin'...But other times I seem to do OK...

Originally posted by ManOfWisdom: Kool Kat nobody enters into a deal or agreement with closed eyes, think again. Will u marry a crible, a poor man, an uneducated man? U make choices and CHOICES are what we are talking about! U that right there is where we're different...I don't consider marriage as a deal or agreement...It is something that comes from the heart...And if it's God's will for me to marry a crible, a poor man, or an uneducated man, that will be my "CALAF", regardless of my choices...Qof walba Allah wuxuu uqoruu helayaa... Besides we don't choose who we love...Luv is blind, hun...and ppl tend to fall in luv when they least expected...Well, at least that's my view...You just can't wake up one day and I think am gonna fall in luv today...

Continental Batchelor, ee run waaye hee...Midba midkuu ka foolxun yahay waxaad umoodaa inuu ka sii caytan badan yahay...And no it is not just based on Ontario...I've seen these men in MN, OH, LA, etc... Like OG said Cambuulo kasto Nin cunaa jiro...Koo haduu Falfaliir jecelyahay, midkale oo waala helaa Salbuko jecel...Seen... GEEDIID, sxb ishaa katuurtay...Afkaaga caano lagu qabay...

Taqtarkaan taqtar ka been badan ebidkeey ma'isoo marin... This dr. tells me I have a 00%, I want a sencond oppinion...Is there another dr. in da house...

Great article... Underdog, I don't see why you take things personal if you don't like the reply you get from others...You don't have to attack the person each time he/she does not see things your way... N'way, I enjoyed reading the article...I really like the meaning behind it... Athena, girl, I feel you...Go easy on the brotha...

Originally posted by ManOfWisdom: Dear Kool Kat, I hate to disagree with u in every issue but let me ask u.. Why can't both man and woman enter in a marriage at an equal terms? It depends on what you mean Terms... Terms almost sounds like conditions...And believe me I wouldn't want to go into a marriage that has some term/conditions...You bring this, I'll bring that...Heck noooooo...It should be unconditional...

MiSs,the joke went right over my head...Like your signature says ~Every journey of 1000 miles begins with just one step!~ And this might be the first step in this journey of getting a place to call home... Nasteexo, how come you didn't include Somalis in Canada...lol N'way, I think you guys have started something positive...And I would definately be more than happy to be part of it...It is about time we took a stand...

MiSs,the joke went right over my head...Like your signature says ~Every journey of 1000 miles begins with just one step!~ And this might be the first step in this journey of getting a place to call home... Nasteexo, how come you didn't include Somalis in Canada...lol N'way, I think you guys have started something positive...And I would definately be more than happy to be part of it...It is about time we took a stand...

MiSs,the joke went right over my head...Like your signature says ~Every journey of 1000 miles begins with just one step!~ And this might be the first step in this journey of getting a place to call home... Nasteexo, how come you didn't include Somalis in Canada...lol N'way, I think you guys have started something positive...And I would definately be more than happy to be part of it...It is about time we took a stand...

MiSs,the joke went right over my head...Like your signature says ~Every journey of 1000 miles begins with just one step!~ And this might be the first step in this journey of getting a place to call home... Nasteexo, how come you didn't include Somalis in Canada...lol N'way, I think you guys have started something positive...And I would definately be more than happy to be part of it...It is about time we took a stand...

Wlc back every1...It is great to have the site back... Weeeeew, what a relieve...I thought I was banned too...Everytime I tried to log in, I got a page that said "FORBIDDEN" I was like woow, warkuwaan yeey is moodeen, forbidden lagu yeh...N'way, wadno xanuun aaba igu dhici rabay...lol

Haaruun, diiqeeyga bambo uu taataabanooy, kabacdina wey ku qarxee...Maskiin...

I am the only black person at my work, I guess there aren't that many blacks in this field...But I am not the only minority here...

Continental Batchelor, Thank You So Much for showing your appreciation...It is alwayz a pleasure to have a brotha like here on SOL...

War Basbaasoow, hadaaba wax qorilahaa qosol baanba joo jin la'ahayee... Ok, I am really trying to understan what you're trying to say here...Is this topic about finding a guy/girl quickly or your friend meeting the girl's parents and being nervous? I dont know I seem to get lost somewhere between the Title of the topic, your friend, and laughing...

Originally posted by ManOfWisdom: Kool Cat are u jeaulous? Don't be, there is new drug that will make u slim and beautiful. do u know that Somali Women are the most beautiful in the world and they should stay that way before and after marriage!b] Do you even hear yourself...I suggest you go back to your first post and reread it...Then tell me how hypocritical that sounds? One time you're saying Somali Women are Ugly once married and have children...And then you turn around and say Somali women are beautiful...Gosh... I have nothing to be jeaulous about...I am happy with what God has given me, Alhamdulilah...Besides being skinny or fat doesn't make you beautifull...It is how you work with what you have...And believe me I have no problem doing that... N'way, all I am saying is, it is sick for a man to consider his wife ugly once he marries her or has children...That's is not a real man...Or else he'll be running around for the rest of his life trying to find that "model looking" wife... Besides, this girl on the photo was not divorced becaus she gained weight after having a baby...May be you should check your sources...