SHOOBARO!!! Afkii baa juuqda gabay baad igu dhig tay...War dadyohoow anagaaba mucjiso aragnay... Ok, Let me see if I understand your post: -You got home 4hrs earlier, than your wife -You watched TV the whole 4hrs "here & there" -Your wife is pregnant -And you want her to cook for you There's something called "being considerate", You know...Makarin kari kuyeh...Yaa!!!Warba adaa haayo!!! My Advise to you: WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE!!! What do you plan to do when she's 7 or 8mons pregnant, or after she gives birth!!! Come on now!!! Try this next time for Suugo/Pasta/Stake: Before going to work, hilibka firinjeeka meesha hoos sii gasho suu usii dhalaalo...Then when you get home, get the stake - toon, kabras iyo ukun ku dhig...Saliid saaro dabka on medium heat, basasha jarjaro then ku dar, sug ilaa ee basasha golden brown noqoto, hilib shiid shiidka ku dar, stir until it is golden brown or cooked, then toonta iyo kabsar caleen kudar, then yaanyada iyo cusbo kudar, stir occationally... Inteey kuu kareeso, hilib ka stakega soo qaad, saxan waxaa ku shubataa bread crumps, stakega mari on both sides, daka saliid saaro on low/med heath, then stakega saaro, gad gadi ilaa uu karo... When your wife gets home, biyaha pastada saar dabka, inteey qubeesanayso ama isbadaleyso, pastada kushub...Then serve it to her!!! Try that and let me know the out come...

A real man "HUSBAND" would want to be there to experience the pain and joy w/his wife...He would want to be the first person (other than the doc/nurses) to hold his precious son/daughter... For those of you who would rather be elsewhere when your wife is giving birth to YOUR CHILD, I am pretty sure you weren't elsewhere when she got pregnant... Once you're married, if there's true love, every couple would want to experience every little/big thing together, specially when giving birth...

If you marry for the right reasons, marriage DOES make you happier and different person...You will feel more settled and complete as a person... Marriage should be viewed as a lifetime commitment...And as everything else in this world (ie, work, school, etc) it comes with some responsibilities...As long as there is love, understanding, and trust, marriage is the most wonderfull thing that can happen to anyone... Most marriages fail for lack of communications...

ooo, weeeeee, lucky number 8 again!!!I haven't had a chance to see them, but I guess that's nice...Considering the odds!!!

My Mom and her friends still refer to each other as girls, does that mean they are not women yet!!!lol...Maanta dhan waxay kudhehee "Naa heedhe gabadhii ina hebel ma'isoo wacday"...Sure, GABAR!!! N'way, I consider myself to be between a young woman...I am still maturing, everyday... Marriage doesn't make you a Woman (as some ppl get married for the wrong reasons)... Having a child/children doesn't make you a Woman (a 13yr old can have a child)... Age doesn't make you a Woman (well, let's just leave it at that)... You make yourself a WOMAN...Your mind, your courage, your understanding of life, the way you take care of yourself and others who depend on you, is what makes a WOMAN!!! along with so many other things...

Timir marabtaa lee ma'iska dhahdidoo, dhib jeclidaa...Wah!!!

And the point of this topic is????

War igaleexo bal aan nafisee...weeeeheeeew...bal gabasaarta iga dhig bal, ee bakeeri biyo qaboow iikeen, aan is qaboojiyee... Thnx Juxa, that felt good... My day, well I can't really complain, after all it is one day closer to the weekend...

War reer Baro, waabadanooysiin walee...Xaa maha kasocdo... Isuga bal, naag maba ihi hadaan ana magaca nii soo badalan...Baro Baro aa ba la'iga badiyee!!!Hay...

Good Luck Darman...

lol^^^lol, balaayo sanbab ku siisay...Xaasid sanaa, Mukulaal Kuul eh aan ba ehee, hilib jiir eh lee ma'isiisidoo!!!

Ee magacyada wax ha la iga soo gaarsiiyo hee!!!See camal!!!

Warheedhe, I think i've been gone for too long...What's up with these SHOOBARO, FEEBARO names...War wuxu ma walaalaa? N'way, back at the topic...Well, from a married woman's prespective, if my husban got a 2nd wive, waxay noqoneysaa maalikii aduunka ugu dambeysay, aaqirana ugu horeysay!!! Are you kidding me!!!Well may be not that extreme, but it will be pretty close...If he has only one heart, it should only belong to one woman, at a time...Just like he wouldn't want his wive having 2nd/3rd/etc... I don't believe every marriage is made to last a life time, though that's the intention at first (well at least most of them)...But if your feelings change or you want more than what you have, by all means, be a MAN about it, ee naagta iska fur... Ceebtaaba waxkasto kaaga daran!!!Walee nin i qabaa naag labaad ila guursan, anoo waashay or jiran ma'ogiyee...But who I am to say... :eek:

Ilaa iyo hada colorka kadaale lee ibadashay, hal iyo liin lee iga dheh!!!

This shidh is funny!!! Everytime I see a post like this, where we act like Somalis are the Angels of the World...That we are not to do wrong!!! Well guess what? We are humans just like any other race, community, or country...All these things we are so surprised about alwayz happened in Somalia too, it isn't anything new... I went to visit MN this long weekend, and my friends and I went out to this club...There were too other Somali girls there, really beautiful, but the way they were acting was just discussting - to say the least...Rubbing against any ni99a/white dude that came their way...Uff!!!But I wasn't surprised...Hey, whateva rocks their boat... Everything we're seeing now in 2004, all existed back home 20 yrs ago...Now, we might not have been around to witness that then, but they did...We had naago niman cadaan/madoow guursado, naaga caruur dholo iyogoo la'guursan, naago jirkooda beeciyo, naago clubs aado (jubo/al curaba club)... Walee tiirabto inay dhulka isdhigto iyadeey utaal, ani mugoo isha leekafiirinaa!!!

Tiisa daryeelaa tu kale kudara...

I loveeeeee the last one...Walee ima sirtid dheh...

Sareeda, sweety i didn't understand the second part of your post...But hey...

Warka isii... Ok, we'll stay home, cook, clean, look after the kids, wash your clothes...What else? Now, here's the catch...That will O-N-L-Y happen when y'all take the responsibility of a "MAN"...Which nowadayz is very rare to see... Guri joog ku yeh, banaanka hadey rabto in ay ubaxdo ninkeeda ama walaalkeed ha raaco ku yeh...What planet are you from again?

HAPPY B-DAY, OG_Moti...May you have many many more...Cimridheer iyo cafimaad wanaagsan...

I hope I am not late with my congrats... CONGRATULATIONS, MABRUUK, AROOS WANAAGSAN... Wishing you both a long, happy and healthy life, full of laughters and good memories... Welcome to the club...

That's some scary shidh...looooooooooollll...

It is one thing to be feminist, and quiet another to be a strong minded woman who knows what she wants out of life... If a woman wants to study, work, and stand by her man, I don't see anything wrong with that...Side by side they will walk through life together... Some women just seem to take things a little too far, with their twisted ideas in thier little minds... I don't think I am making any sense, so I'll stop here...I just had a long a$$ day @work... Habloow, nimakeena aan garab istaagno...Oo tartanka aan dhaafno...lol

Something wrong with this story...If they are suppose to be friends, wouldn't the cheatee know his friend's wife...Or at least know where his so called friend lives...This story is not making sense to me some how... I can understand if the husband was a stranger who gave a ride to some guy, whose car broke down, and somehow later on figured out that the same guy was sleeping with his wife... Well in any case, the way he handled the situation is unbelievable to me...But I guess ppl are different... Back to the question...I don't think I would marry a guy cuz he was in such situation...It might have attracted me to him, cuz he's such a kind hearted person, but marry him just like that, no thanx...

OG, i did not make fun of you...I was just reminding you of how aa jac iigugu dhajisay, when I offered to help you...I thought you were a brotha who needed my help...but waad jeesteysay... N'way like NOMAD said, hada maxaan kuu qabanaa, saa wiil walaalkeen eh ku ma fiirsan karno in uu dhibaatoodo...Qaaraan mise Gar Gar...