^^ thanks girl........ hacker thanks for the advice

if every threat a somali parent made was to be taken seriously, all of our parents would be in jail by now .......they bluff 80% of the time and as somalis i think :rolleyes: ...we call it booto.... u find it at www.booto.com like he said he made sure her mom dealt with her and i bet she made up the knife part....all this time i was just taking her word and thinking he said it but denied the alligation :rolleyes:

And it seems highly unlikely to me that a Somali girl would kiss a boy in public, knowing how people talk. It's ingraved into us that there shouldn't be any physical contact or interaction with someone of the opposite sex. . And when the rage comes over you, you frankly don't know what you're doing. It's very possible that you might kill your child without realising, and plus, this father might have been under influence (a.k.a KHAT). khad does not do what u think it does(its not alcohol or coc...its more like something that lossen them up) :rolleyes: yes we cant have a physical contact with men cuz its anti islam :rolleyes: hon did u read what she said she said he threatened her only threatned her and he slaped her ..i get threatend to be slap up to this day and am 19 (i know my mom wont hit me ever again but i still remember the pain and get scared with the mention of the word even though i know at the back of my head it wont happen).....how many times did we(somalis) get threatned by our MOMs.....GOD BLESS MY DAD AND HIS SOUL HE NEVER HIT ANY OF US ALXAMDULILAH (allah u naxaristo)... am not justifiying other parents that beat the living crab out of girls and want them to be the slaves to their sons and if the mother talks she probably be beat that is a totally different case hon but this case has no base, the girl used to wear hijaab and when she gets to school she would change :eek: ..she and the white people she lived with lied about her keeping her religion while a friend of hers cought her in jeans and pink shirt after she left her family..obviously he was mesmarized with the american culture and she the word harrasment is new to her no wonder she took the drastic measure... hon u said they were given the right to take care of us who said that to u walaalo......mother can ask their husband to pay for breast feeding her kids ...they way we have rights on them how about the rights they have on us ......remember jannar lies on the parents feet .......how come if they curse (INKAAR) u are bound not to go to heaven..... girl if u take ur mom on ur back and walk from here usa to makkah u wont even pay back (the pain she went through) the night she nearly dropped u ...the parents have more right on us ........first its good and then parents they are number two and there is no smell of heaven without parents .......and i think the doocil was an adult cuz girls age min 9 and more.......and why are competing with men .......god made us of a bone from adam remember .....i dont think parents should favor one sex over another ......but when i asked my mom she said ...parents love the person that shows more compasion to them ...so if its ur brother well he earned it and if its ur sister she earned it ...... She was most likely just hanging out with him, as most kids do with eachother. And we all know how Somali fathers would react well that is true but dont u think she over reacted by complaining against him? would u do what she did to ur parents if they did what she said they did ? :confused: i know i would never

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posted by me if my mom or dad killed me they have the right to do so cuz they besides ALLAH they bought me to this earth(being a little extreme) religiously if a mother beats her child her child its not a sin.(i was told and still lookin for the hadith..) i dont think any sane mother/dad would kill her/his child girl they bought us to this world they did everything for us ...if he wanted to kill her he had his chance and he did not do it .....a little decipline would not hurt us ..and i have never heard of a somali parent kill a child.....like i said i was being a little on the extreme i needed the extremecy to proove my point this is what the prophet said about people like her Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr Allah's Apostle said. "It is one of the greatest sins that a man should curse his parents." It was asked (by the people), "O Allah's Apostle! How does a man curse his parents?" The Prophet said, "'The man abuses the father of another man and the latter abuses the father of the former and abuses his mother."

^^^ abaayo i have never heard of a somali parent kill their child cuz they disappointed them(they threatened them to scare them but never take the actions )..we have our bads and good as somalis i hate it when they talk about qabiil and gossip others but walaahi we got eachother backs when we are in trouble an example would be the somali community being with him((the dad of the girl)...i agree with u on the boys part a little but walaalo its hard for us to walk in their(parents) shoes , we can never feel what they feel ...the only time we will is when we are parents our selves .. its sad walaahi.....boys do all that but then the parents could care less as long as its their child who aint the victim.......they(parent) dont care about the situation their boys are in as much as they would on their daughters. they dont do that on purpose but its the selfishness in them .as long as it aint their daughter who pregnant it aint an issue..we women are concern to our parents and the concern is in every parent muslim, jews,christians, hindu, and and in every ethnicity ...NOW IF we want to question their concerns lets not only question the somali parents only lets question the entire world ..cuz walaahi somali parents are no different than any other parent, they just speak a different languages and they may have a different religions but all parents think alike i hope i made my point clear am thinking faster than am typing

i did it at my sister wedding and all the habro were in the watch for me and my freinds they thought we got there to mess the aroos for them ..so as i would get in the circle one woman would push her *** on me and i would be out i would not even get close to the "GOOB" shoo..... now what is this talk about getting around and learning togheter..i see its the london folks ..girls tape the practice and send it .we could use a tape to learn.....

After six hours of deliberation, the jury returned to the courtroom at 10:45 p.m. Friday. They found Shide not guilty of aggravated menacing, and they couldn't reach a decision on the assault charge and one of the domestic violence charges. But on the most minor charge, domestic violence as a fourth-degree misdemeanor, they found Shide guilty. Municipal Court Judge Dwayne Maynard fined him $100, gave him a 30-day suspended jail sentence and put him on probation for 13 months well that is what they said about him and i think the 30 day jail thingy is over by now since he got sentence may this year ..so he is not serving time in federal prison nin yaban....... i think he has every right to ask for an appeal CM: could not agree with u more .......it reminds me if what the prophet said ameen to: i think it including those who disrespect their parents allah manajjini malikah walaalo she said he only threatned her and slaped her dont tell me u have never been slapped by a parent or a sister .......we used to get our butts wooped cuz we were being naughty..and that is all he did and he scared her that is all.........which reminds me of my speech teacher who said he whooped his kids as$ infront of the church people and he did not ger charged and remind u he had a stick and he hit the kid in public .he told us cuz he was disappointed at the somali kids that kept calling their parents harrasers ...even the galooying believe in teaching kids how to behave and when they are really bad they deserve a little dacas slap..in my community kids cant call cops on their parents cuz they got tired of the number of calls ....they told the kids they would take them to JD(juvenile detention)...now none of them dare call cops

Originally posted by somealien: mizz unique, i agree with pretty much everything you said in your second paragaph and im still trying to wrap my mind around your first one. i mean, if what i have in mind is the right story than she was downright disrespectful to her parents for accusing them of such a thing, but her behaviour prior to it really didnt warrant her to be killed, and i think that if this had been a boy conforming, wearing baggy clohes, braiding his hair and found talking to a white girl hed be slightly teased, or at most yelled at and chastised, and the whole subject would be dropped. why is that? walaalo if it was a boy i think he would get beat too and he would get yelled at too but he would not make a big deal out if as we girls do.boys get beat while we get yelled at ..they get the physical pain.. ...no boy would be cought wearing something around his parents and changing when he gets to school he does in front of them and that is a different case they yell and pray for him and sometimes whoop him but no one can force someone to change their attitudes they will give up eventually..... islamic girs on the other hand are always considered to victimised when its the total opposite... ...they (parents)wont worry about the boys as much as the girls because he wont end up pregnant,he wont get rapped(most cases) and like i said earlier they want us to have a good reputation and they would not want to have gabar dhilo aah(reputation is a big deal to us somalis)...I dont have a brother so i cant say what my mom would have done but trust me when i say this when my mom and dad had their first child my older sister MY DAD SWORE IF HE WAS GIVEN 99 SONS HE WOULD LOVE MY SISTER MORE CUZ SHE WAS HIS FIRST CHILD. .children according to somalis are the same they love their daughters as much as the boys in not more and show tuff love to the girls cuz they dont want society to look down on their girls .(they want to have a good child everyone envies)..and we all know our society would call the girl dhilo and other names if she was cought with a man....all he tried to do was scare to save her reputation i dont thinks that doocil was a thankfull......ama agree with athena i think she is older than age they say she is :rolleyes: .......

flying still tell me about fathers abandoming us ... i think they did cuz they are financially poor..... :confused: i think

am allowed to make call...... magnoona deeneh neenehneeh i can get call dbbbbbbb......just kidding girl.......i think am gona be nice and ama say yes to email....only 1 email a day flying still u watching me ...acuudi billahi naa qofkale hala ii so diro......i saw cute freshmen during orientation..shoo....with ur watch it means no smiling no hi's and hello's.. can we flirt :confused: ..cuz some of cutties that are coming should get a piece of my ilko dheer dheer when i smile......lol........ now this is my first entry....... a freind of mine called and he wanted to talk and i told him i was busy and hanged up ...see am being a good girl...i did not know of the ten minute rule at the time or i would have asked how he was doing . :rolleyes: ..good luck ladies ...i dont need no luck i did before and i can do it again(so i brag) :rolleyes:

i dont think they started doing that now ...they used to do back in somalia...and trust me when i say this i say it cuz i seen people go through it....I think they do it cuz they have to many wives and they cant support all of them at the same time yet they believe they have to show they manly hood by having four wifes and divorcing the one that confronts their weak butts.... :rolleyes: and some of the so called daqan lovers dont do it for daqan but they do it just so society approves of it and the somali society believes that men should dominize and that is soully the reason they do it.( i think) i think oday yaasha shiid marku qabto xishood eey ciyaalka uga tagan and when they get money they keep in touch (jokes)

oh my god what do u guys call abuse ......if my mom or dad killed me they have the right to do so cuz they besides ALLAH they bought me to this earth(being a little extreme) and walahi if u look at it religiously if a mother kills her kids she wont be punished for it in the life hereafter cuz she is permitted to if she want to......i dont feel bad for the doocil that kissed or hanged out with the white guy :mad: ...the dad took a different route he should not have threatened her but he did it just so she had something to fear :rolleyes: ..he was not gona kill his own child :eek: (he went walked from the camp they lived in to i dont know where just to make sure she had a doctor now tell me why would this oday want to kill his daughter)...we have tradition and some we must keep and that tradition of teaching ur kids how to behave is one of them ..when a child in jr high is interested in a man what would u expect from her when she is 14 or fifteen :rolleyes: ...i hated boys when i was her age :eek: .....well am glad the father is out and safe........ i think parents have every right to decipline their kids ...even if it includes wooping their *** ......i got dacas slapped zillion of times while i was here in usa and i dont remember dialing 911 and the thought of complaining never entering my mind.....i thought about apologising to my parent....paremts just want us to be perfect children and that is it.......they want us to have good reputation and good diin ..if it takes beating to get that to our heads they will do it even thought it hurts them to beat us more than it hurts us :rolleyes: ..i wish y'll should see what a mom or a dad goes through for their child ..i see that all time with my sisters and their kids....man they get up in the middle of the night to feed a child....and have u seen the look on a mother face when her child falls down..or when a kid has nightmares,they get up even thought they dont want to get up and they read quran on them and hold them until they sleep. they(parents) went through alot more than i said to get us where we are today and we thank them by calling them harrasers :confused: fanaka cowdi billah.. walaahi it is quite sad

***her gheto side typing ** some chicks be tripping up in this mug shoo dont hate onda brotha appriciate him..shoo nugga asked question if u aint answering back da F*uck offf ...no need to hate.... **get back to normality*** hahahaha that was funny...okay girl let him be aight .....

***her gheto side typing ** some chicks be tripping up in this mug shoo dont hate onda brotha appriciate him..shoo nugga asked question if u aint answering back da F*uck offf ...no need to hate.... **get back to normality*** hahahaha that was funny...okay girl let him be aight .....

***her gheto side typing ** some chicks be tripping up in this mug shoo dont hate onda brotha appriciate him..shoo nugga asked question if u aint answering back da F*uck offf ...no need to hate.... **get back to normality*** hahahaha that was funny...okay girl let him be aight .....

***her gheto side typing ** some chicks be tripping up in this mug shoo dont hate onda brotha appriciate him..shoo nugga asked question if u aint answering back da F*uck offf ...no need to hate.... **get back to normality*** hahahaha that was funny...okay girl let him be aight .....

it was a touching peace ...thanks for sharing it with us

man .....much love to flying still and king they both gave me good news .......less question ...mizz unique is happy .........thanks to both of u ......king can u paste the site please ...... adios amigos mcat registration information in hurr

man .....much love to flying still and king they both gave me good news .......less question ...mizz unique is happy .........thanks to both of u ......king can u paste the site please ...... adios amigos mcat registration information in hurr

and i thought people in here had it bad ...he rapped the girl :eek: infron of her parents :eek: :eek: (KILL KILL the faget danish)......acuudi bilaahi mina sheydani rajeem...... all we can do is just pray for them ..much love to the brother that wrote the article.....its heart breaking to know all that happened to our somali people :mad: if i was one of the somali politicians i would commit suicide ....cuz there is no better punishment than hell for those that did that to our beautiful country :mad:

count me in... does it mean no phone calls too no phone would be sad ......i need to be loved ....hmmm ...(to all the men peaking ) war soco its gabar calacal time DP: no dates too i gues .. now how long is this experiment thingy...i hope it aint longer than 4 months ....we hit the shukansi line for chrismas break cuz am going to london and i cant wait to see those british men and their accent(i got a thing for british accent) and we cant restart the experiment again after the chrismas break ofcourse :rolleyes:

girls thanks so much for the support ...sorry for not being able to clearify it earlier and i edited it now ....it was not my mom it was my aunt we all call her hooyo(dont ask me why) but all my habaryars are MAMA or HOOYO...so it was my habaryar that got beat and she is fine alaxadullilah ... girl hook a sister up with ur lawyer brother we need to sue the GAALOYIN for all their worth walaahi somalis made it easier basically our family had nothing to do..they took care of everything walahi.they came over now and they are discussed all that they did so we cant continue and yeah they will be there to help ...i cant help but say i am really glad to be a somali.....most of the people leave ur side when u are in need ...

i wonder how they spent their honey moon.the man on the moon and the women all alone :eek: :eek: .marriage is about being togheter.....they did for publicity like nuune said

i cant take this april cuz i will be a sophmore and i wont have most of the classes done by that time....i will take it in august cuz i plan to take almost all the classes i need this fall ,spring and summer of next year and take the test on august right after summer school, if do need to take a retate i will do it in april and august of the next years ...i wanted to have more time for retakes i gues ..hopefully i wont need it .....good luck again and dont for get to share what u see there ...