It's me again ...... well everyone is free to marry whoever they desire. Since most of us agree that it's hard to marry somone who your family doesn't approve of i have a question . my question if u meet someone and u like that person......... and then lil by lil u fall in love with that someone ...... how would u identify that person's tribe ?...... is the type of his/her tribe is one of the first questions u would ask somone u're getting to know I'm facing this tribe problem....... not from my family though because my dad passed away and my mother isn't fully somali so she can't careless of tribes......and i really don't care about the opinion of the rest of the family....... but the man that i love has a family who never marrys outside of their tribe...... and as some of you said that families could cause the the failure of the marriage....... i'm not that worried cause marriage is really far from now but at the end we're both planning to get married.....this family problem is scaring me but i'm at a stage where i can't go back and i know that i will face a lot of problems from his side....... see i know it would be easier to date somene who's from your tribe but it's really hard to distinguish them from the rest of the somalis ( we all look alike)....... ANYWAYS if this doesn't work......i'll try to restrict myself to my cousins (ewwwww)

i would never marry someone who's not somali for my own reasons. i would want a guy who shares the same culture a guy who can teach my kids somali.........BUT that's only for myself .....i wouldn't care if others marry non-somalis......infact i have a lot of cousin who married white-muslim men and women...... i respect their choice and i have all the respect to their spouses.

for me i love doing the opposite of what ppl want me to do ....... qabiil ??? i respect my qabiil but what does that have to do with marriage. Anyways the most important thing in the man i would marry is his religion.......and about 99% of somalis are muslims so i couldn't careless about his qabiil......if we can only delete the qabiil issue from our lives...... things would be better, ppl would love each other and we would have peace in our country.

hmmmmmmmmm a younger man ..... that's a lil weird ........ my man has to make me feel safe .....do u think i would feel safe with a younger man....... nah .....i wouldn't do it........ even if he's a month younger than me .....anyways i don't mind if others do but me never insha allah.... macasalamah

hahhahahah......... wallahi wa iga qosolsiisay thnx a lot

it's up to you......but what would u tell your children?????? we met on the net ????

daymmmmmmmm ..... now we'll be taking visa to travel from xamar to hargeysa hahhaha......and soon each tribe will have its own passport hahaha......plz give my tribe the blue one ( blue is my favourite colour lol)but hee i'm sure that Somaliland's goverment is doing that to keep it safe down there. i heard that part of the country is safe ...... anyways somalia used to be 5 right..... now somali will be about 20 or more ......all i can say is illahi somaali xaalkeedo haa rooneyo....my somali is lil weak haha

I would say " SMILEY "

fadumoo kuuseey debshiid labodhagax ( the singer) shimber ........ a guy called bird hahahah

MY mind...cuz it will hardly put me in trouble .... u attracted to light skin or dark skin ?

well..... a man and a woman can be friends if there is no attraction to start with..... meaning if they didn't like each other and then decided to be friends....that doesn't work most of the time ....EX when two break up, they try to stay friends... i think that doesn't work.... To answer your question about getting offended if a man says let's be friends......nope i wouldn't be offended ( i like guy friends).... anyways that's all i got to say ....ta ta

the worst thing is when a guy starts talking about himself.......it turns me off big time

hey sistaa well .....i'm juss like you.....i dont believe in dating young guys(teens and early 20s) as u said they don't know what they want...... plus .... young guys expect a lot ( they want everything na'mean) anyways .....in ma opinion don't be direct and ask him if he's into marriage or not......cuz that scares guys and girls...... what u should do is ......go around the subject.... i mean.......ask him how he sees himself in the next 3 or 4 years......and if you guys are not heading toward the same thing......don't waste ur time with him..... p.s 18 is really young to think about marriage..... so why not just date and get to lknow the guy and see where it ends.....that's juss an advice.....

niin qawaan for sure hahahhaha...... now face or body ???

Cano LO for sure........canoo geel uf uf Summer or winter?