well i'll agree with sheytaan......marriage is big prove of your love to that person....... i mean if u're willing to share the rest of your life with that person, u proved that u love him/her very much.

hmmmmmm well i think that it's possibe to be married and have a friend from the opposite sex..........but i'm sure there will be some difficulties .......i.e your husbnad/wife might get jealouse if u spend more time with your friend............i think the best solution would be to try to make your partner and your friend friends ...........i mean involve your spouse in your activities with your friend..........that way everyone is happy

they're abti for each other.............

hahahhaahah u made me laugh....

hahahhahahhahah very funny....

Well ......u can't talk about love till u feel it...... i used to say that i would never go out of my way for a man....... i would never scrifies anything for a man.......but hey i guess things are different once u love........ I always said that i would choose someone who loves me than someone who i love.........cuz i can learn to love but i can't force someone to love me .........BUT WOULDN'T be better if u can love and be loved at the same time?.

well well well.......AGE...it's usually scarey for women but......i see some men scared hahha......u know what.....getting older is nothing what matters is what u did for your aqeyraah and dunyah.....i'm 2 months away from my 20th birthday.....my own mother can't believe that i'm that old......she says how i was born yesterday and i'm a big girl now.......well life goes on and times passes us soo quickly .....the smart ones are the ones who take advantage of it .......Happy birth to everyone whose birthday juss passed or coming.......

i dont feel insecure around somalis....... but i juss don't like it when they stare.....plus i stopped greeting somalis cuz sometimes they don't reply and i feel dry....... so i usually smile at them..... P. S ........ Jawahir......how about the 86???? hahah

daymmmmmm what a stupid lady....i didn't even bother to finish reading.....incest kulahaa......where is she getting these information.....probably her imagination.......what i don't understand is .....why is she blaming whatever happens on islam......and why every somali women who tries to be famous.....starts with the story that her dad forced her to marry someone she didn't want..... u hear the same story all over again...... illahi ha hadeyoo

wooow baby_G .....wha a wake up call.....thnx

hey that happens all the time.....ppl divorce because of their inlaws ......u know what i would do ......move to a city where there aren't any of his family or mine.

I tell my mom to take my lil brothers to Somalia everyday .....they're so westernized plus they can't speak Somali ....but she says it aint safe enough....i don't blame her. Anyways i myself would love to go back...maybe in few years ..... i need to learn more about my dhaqaan and go to baadiyo .....have some CAD iyo CAANO

i couldn't say it better than Honesita.

what a beautifull poem......jazaak allahu kheyraan.

i wasn't born in Somalia but i can repersent KASOBALBALARE.......cuz i spent couple of years there.

it was good.....juss couldnt eat at home cuz i was in school. lakkad 29 aa u started counting huh? hahha

Learning is my life Love is what i feel light is what i need London is where my best friends live lattory is what i wish Language is what i communicate with LACIIB is what i avoid lucky is what i'm losing is my fear log out is what i'm going to do now

hahahhahaa funny

waa fuuraay wallahi......thnx a lot

well........i was around 9 years old when i fasted for the first time......but what was more exciting when my dad give me the permision to fast the whole month i was about 12 years old......daymmm it was great finishing up the whole month ( which i can't do right now )

i read about amina......what i'm still confused about is did she commite adultry while being married or was she single.......... well if she's married and she committed adultry then she deserves to be stoned to death cuz that's the sharicaa laws ......but if she's single then she deserved to be treated as a single who committed zina. if we ever have a government in Somali they should follow the islamic laws ......cuz allah knows the best for its creation ......and if he says that we stone who ever committes zina while being married then we stone them........and if he says we cut the hand of theives then we do as he says....... " should deserve stoning in today's world" today, yesterday, tomorrow.........the laws will remain the same .....we're not gonna change it according to our life styles

scarface.......this is what happens everyday .....we pass each other and stare everyday......it's a routine now eh.....daym i wish i can say salam but i stopped saying salam cuz couple of times i didn't get a reply,

there are soo many somalis in my unversity but i don't even know one of the...........don't ask me why????

what u said is true......soo many of us lost our culture......u see kids that can't speak somali......daym it has been only about 12-13 years since the war started and we're starting to melt in where ever we are....imagine us in 50 years ......if someone from my generation is losing his/her culture imainge their grand children....i wonder if there will be such ppl called somalis in 50 or 100 years from now. I always pray that Somalia gets better but then look at what's happening there is a war between tribes and then there is a war within each tribe......and wars don't end ........u hear a warlord died .....u might think things will get better but guess what probably his son or brother will replace him.... If u only see kids that come from Somalia.....u would feel soo sad......they can't do simple math like 2*2 ......they can't read or write somali or any other language.....not only that .....they don't behave like children.....no respect for elders.......I feel sorry for them seeing all the voilence it must had a big impact on their life and behavior. I try to think of solutions for the problem......but i can't think of any......i personally gave up on somalia.......ALL i do is pray .......and hope ALLAH will help us and our country

i don't know about love........it might be possible .......but personally i have friends on the net.......i'm emotionally attached to them.....although i've never seen them.....i keep in touch with them......i know some of them for about 2 years or more........so caring for someone from the net is possible but loving them the way u're talking about .......i don't know.