Sheh, its true she did choose him out of the thousand other suiters but honey what i was suggesting wasn't to become bitter but to realise that it wasn't "all good" and that there was obvious incompatability and a big reason why the relationship ended. I am a firm believer that eventhough one person may make the actual move of breaking the news but deep down its never complete shock to the other partner... you always know it was coming but too afraid or too lazy to face music or maybe hopping it will go away..

As someone said before me break ups dont appear out of thin air there has to be something that cause it so concentrate on that lil fact. Also delete everything that was good from your mind and focus on all the litle stuff that irritated you about the other person and in no time you will wonder whatever made you choose that person. hope that helps.

I was about 11 or 12 and had this huge crush on my dugsi teacher i used to get up early in the morning not to pray mind you but to listen to him lead the fajr prayer...I remember one day he was looking for his kid brother or something at the movies and found me and my friends with no hijap... ofcourse we all run away but then he used to bring it up every day ... now that i think about it I cant figure out why i was ever attracted to him

Surprised and lil disapointed.

It was very upseting to see France boot the holding champions I feel like brazil let us(their fan) down. and to think I was waiting for Brazil and Germany finale :mad:

I am not a movie person but i remember enjoying that diary of mad black woman movie but the sequel felt like watching the same movie over again.... :eek:

My name is very old traditional name. lol

Hmmm... Interesting. . . . NEXT

Why settle for married man when there are so many other candidates?

I love all kind of perfurmes depending on my mood and the season....currently its The Island by Michael Kors

waa laba iyo tobanki iyo labaatan. or 12:20 pm

Tuujiye Nice to see you're still breathing and screaming wareer badanaa

Originally posted by Yoonis_Cadue: I welcome this new initiative. However I'd like to add that female's should be restricted and banned to voice their voices. It ain't a good idea to include Women . Maandhoow you can't be serious. Do you really hold such opinion?

Originally posted by Simply_I: I would like to say that sawirkiina dhan haddoo ii sawirnmay! I’m new in SOL as we are all aware and when I first got here the first thing that I have noticed was a young lady oo tin daban oo dhaheeso love before marriage is right ive lived it, practiced it with a passion and I will in the future. So I thought of how I can actually change that kind of attitude in the small minds that I came across, and show that what is cool is Islam, and what else is cool is soomalinimadaada. Amerikaan iska yeelna waa marax. Nobody likes to be told what to do, so I thought I will share their interests first and once they like me share mine….i was so immersed in the goal that I failed to identify all the possible obstacles religion dragged along the line but only human am I to do so. I knew that adaab is important in religion, so I was going to show the young ladies what it is about me that men like and even if they wouldn’t start practicing straight away maybe someday they would ponder further on its benefits and change. So I bussed a lot of silly jokes to find common grounds and indeed it worked because a few notables changed their lines before sunset.A new customer Ibtisam posted 27 posts in one night out of enthusiasm for Islam. Think of the post about my past experience about deen it is directed to a young audience. If there was a guy that I wanted to know I wouldn’t talk with the guy next to him let alone him. Castro is not my type because he is very religious and parades from politics to science and there is no stability. I’ve praised mutakalim so that I could show creativity fits with being a Mullah. And I mentioned Alleubahane because of his shactaro. And sadly because moderators joined in with the shactaro I thought they got my drift and supported me it seemed as though they were desperate to keep the peace. I never liked politics I don’t even know your tribes Somaliland or puntland? But you sure have left a bitter impression. Another point that I wanted to emphasise was that in a debate if someone treats you impolitely you respond back politely without biting their head off, maybe they will learn and next time act more civil. And as for waterfall I hoped to teach her someday that to be liked, you don’t necessarily have to use arrogance as a weapon there are other ways. I have even written in different accents of Somali to avoid enmity and show unity. I would like to apologise to all the people who live in Muqdisho and say how deeply sorry I am for misrepresenting their identity. So I had a theory and a possible destination in hope to provide benefit for the young society of Islam... What about you guys, what were your goal and the products?? For those who have questioned my chastity for Allah knows best and all my other intentions, Insh’Allah ayaga iyo ALLAH ee ka dhexeysaa. PS: ather oyaal black people are also undiplomatically correct. THIS IS WHAT I LOVE ABOUT SOL.

Bisharo, I think Qorshel may be the best person for your project (sperm donation).

Originally posted by Bishaaro: In all honesty, I now am in a position where I'll have a baby with Anyone, does not matter who. I have my clock doing tick tack. I have 26 year old freakin' eggs that are suppose to create a healthy baby. My internal self is light years younger than my age, but that isn't going to give me the three children I so desire to fulfill my life. I have at max three years to find a man to bear children with. I will not be in labor past my 30th birthday. I'm in a good economic position, he does not have to pay one cent in a child support. All I need is a child bearing Muslim/Somali partner for two or three knock-me-up's. Desperate times call for desperate measures. LOL, hey when you find him get me his brother eh!

Inallilah wa inaillahi Rajiuun. Legend sabir iyo iiman allaha kaa siiyo aboo waa lawada dhimanaa .... bill kheyraysan buu dhintay aabahaa allaha unaxariisto. Aamiin

Originally posted by Naku Penda Piya: All women bleed out of their punany once a month. You guys know it too. Big 'effen deal. Issues like this shouldn't be taboo. Some of us have tampons jammed up our you know where, and others for padded absorbent brick stuck in their knickers. Hello? Stop blushing. And if I don't stop typing right now, i'm going to leave a big stain on my beautifully reupholstered computer chair. Luckily, it's a floral print on which nobody will notice an errant red spot. But gotta go anyways! I'm just PMS-ing, sorry Xoogsade Ciyaal suuqad numero uno

6 pages and ya still at it...give it a rest will ya :mad:

hmm, the thread was about Seattle but I see peeps representing their state ex mpls....let me say one or two things about my state the best place to be...the "birth place of avaiation" and home of the buckeye eheheh

I don't fancy becoming fat, hagard and unkept. Who would wanna lose their hard earned body.... here is where adoption comes in handy

waa wariiriga dhabar loogu shubi jiray ciyaalka marka loo duubayo.

Friend of mine who recently got married was saving for his wedding for almost 2 years. He was saving every penny and cutting cost wherever possible he even stopped going to starbucks. when he was ready to set a date and get everything going his bride (who was pushing him to get second job) decided she did not want wedding after all and had small meher including just the two families. And had him payoff his debt including student loans. I thought that was smart move on her part even though I would probably have gotten a 7 carat ring instead

^^ Thanks to uncle sam atleast we have the help line and back home there is always the qabiil line ( xaal) so you two are out of luck here **hates farahs with violence tendency**