^ FYI some can be in their 20's for 10 years cuz that is exactly how long it takes to pass a decade

Let's give him round of applouse atleast he is listening and selling that baby back

Lool @sarwaal Good one Che-

When is ramadan? Ramadan Kariim everyone whenever it arrives.

I would swtich the babies regardless of age.

Married or not at some point everyone grows out of wilding out

^Post some pictures of how it turns out. I may try out both the king fish and the muufo coming weekend too ...i'm sure they will look fab together in my tummy

^^Wonderful husband you got there lady. Does he have a brother preferably younger one. I don't deal well with older men...they're not as easily malleable you know

^^loool look who is back with her usual self. oh and the family secret is buried under six feet.

KK from your schedule it looks like you're not working so how hard is it to make breakfast in the morning so you can share the first meal in the morning with your hubby. Also since you're stay at home mom your main job is to take care of the house and the kid(s) so it probably wouldn't hurt to feed and bath your lil girl before he is home. That way you can enjoy your evening together without any chores. ps i know you didn't post your schedule here to be critiqued but i just couldn't resist [edit] LOOOOL @ sex on demand ...

^^well if I was doing all the house work (child care, cooking, cleaning etc) and slaving away at some company while he chit chats and only puts in his 8-9hrs work at the office. He wouldn't have a bed to sleep on at the house. bacda madow baan banaanka udhigi lahaa. However, if he is working to provide for the family and I chose to be stay at home mom I wouldn't complain about him not helping at all..cuz we have defined roles. get it. besides if you look on page one i have already shared my opinion on this issue

Originally posted by umu zakaria: A typical day What do u really think of this? 5.30AM> wife gets up, prays and starts to prepare breakfast, wakes husband up, he easts and goes to work. UNTILL NOON> wife does the domestic work and takes care of the children, those who go to daycare n the infants. NOON. Wife prepares lunch for her husband, tries to call some freinds Husband arrives home , gets his lunch n strait to bed for napping, wakes up lator n prays takes his casariya mid evening meals or shaah whatever u call it and heads to the town or the local mosques. Comes back late evening and he is tired n wants to sleep coz he has to start over 2morrow again! wife serves dinner, tries to make some conversations with him, he may or may not even listen. She on the other hand has the pressure of raising kids, doing domestic work, some of them work, take kids to school or day care and ofcourse take care of all the husbands needs. What does she deserve in return? Believe me, somali woman have alot of patience, i for 1 cant endure all of that. Kudos to those who do that just to keep their family intact. I don't see any issue in the above scenario...it seems to me this two people have chosen their roles. He the provider and she the care taker. In this case if she wants help with teh domestic work then she needs to get from a@s and get a job so they can share the bills and the housework.

1 cup fine textured semolina flour 1 cup coarse semolina flour ½ cup all purpose flour ½ teaspoon of dry yeast Couple garlic cloves 1 small onion Half teaspoon black seed 1-1/2 cups of hot water Salt. Aluminum foil and non-stick cooking pan. You can also add sugar instead of the garlic and onions to make sweet muufo that is good with cup of chai late Step 1 Mix the two types of grain with 1 cup of hot water using spoon (plz don’t burn yourself on my account) and put it aside for few hours Step 2 Get a large bowl, put your mixed grain, all purpose flour, black seed, mince the garlic and onion and add that as well as the yeast and the rest of your water. Here is the fun parts you need to knead it and feel the consistency. Make sure you don’t make it watery but make it thick enough that you can cut it. Now cover it and let it sit over night or at least 6-8 hours Step 3 Turn your oven to 460 degrees Grab the deep dish pan and oil it and put it on the stove. Now dip some water in your hand and kind of free form your dough into four and drop it in the pan. The point here is not to cook your muufo on the stove but to give it that initial sizzle so that it’s not typical bread. Then cover it with your aluminum foil and put it in the bottom rack of the oven. About 30 minutes later move it to the top rack and put the oven on broiler and let it sit there for another 3-5 minutes. Now the key thing in any muufo is the grain you have to have both fine grain and coarse grain mixed together to get the best consistency.

^actually you did but I edited that before I ruined my rep

^^Probably not but make sure to get that in writing

^^That sounds fair. Erm let me consult with my mom and I will get back to you with the ingredients and step by step how to guide.

On a second thought these women have much bigger problems then their husband not being romantic. It’s obvious the husbands that are always at the marfish, local maqaaxi, Masjid etc are running away from their responsibilities at home and want their wives to be super women that handles all domestic issues and gives in at night. I mean why else would they spend all their free time at those places while she struggles with home works, after school programs, cooking, cleaning and possibly working to help put bread on the table and probably not even get back rub at night.

I think it all depends on the woman, you see a women ( not girl) knows how to get what she wants without yelling and screaming or complaining to other women.

It was funny reading this with all the "check" remarks after certain sentences.

Not in the mood to work today at all...so frustrating when you have mountaint of work waiting for you and you cant' get it together. :mad:

Why are you all ganging up on the boy he knows what he is doing...to each his own people. Personally I can't stand long distance at all and I most certainly can not even imagine waiting for anyone that long. My two cents

She needs a man WTF she breasfeeding a monkey for :eek:

What a shame! I can't believe no one knows how to cook muufo good grief. CG for few tutoring sessions I will give the recipe in a heart beat

Girls that age love designer but can't quite afford it just yet so get her anything designer. The best idea however would be to take her out and casually pop into one of the shops and let her choose something. I am sure she would save you money by being extremely modest

7 yrs is a looooooong time to wait for anyone, I say cut your loses already and move on.