GOSH, I thuaght SOLers where able to make up their minds on such simple issues, why even argue and counter argue. birth control is a matter of indivual (couple) choice, how often they choose to have kids is down to them, and if science allows them to assistant in this matter so be it.

^^^ aren't an observing little girl, u even analysing the family in the background, for all u know they could be cheering him on. any girl or women would always melt when u start showering them with complements ( that rule centantly does not apply to under 18s only.

^^ Think sunny G, is shes good mummy and wifey, hence the Hussie will turn out good in all cases, unless that is one has balwad.

ohh parenting huuh, i have the perfect plan when i 'inshallah' become a parent mysef. just make sure i marry a girl that will make the best mum, and my job is done. a good wife and an even better mummy = not so bad kids. the rest is simpe.

I say leave the Arabs alone, their ways may not be perfect but they still excell the Somalis in more areas than one. Somalis have a talent to spot and comment on the fualts others but never examine themselves.

^^ Lilly there will a serious conflict of interest unless one is willing to become a tru Brit through and through and thats the most snoppery department of them all.

^^^ OK, i know wat u read last summer, that Italian political satirical book.

^^ Become a Civil servant. has its perks ... but money is shiiid. at least u get breaks off the computer

I'D hate to settle in one place ... but i guess once am married it will be an islamic country. i do love Cairo ( has the businessnes and gethoness that attracts me ... more like London with louder and more freindlier people )

^^ Hecuba i know what u did last summer

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IS A QUESTION OF PERCEPTION. ur brain was told wat it will see if it concentenrated on the black cross so the brain responds to the instruction. condition ur brain differently and see what u will see ... sorry is no late for u lot already u brain is now corrupted. NOW U WILL FOLLOW MY LEAD ... I AM YOUR LEADER ... I AM YOUR LEADER .. I AM YOUR LEADER ... FOLLOW THE LEADER ... FOLLOW THE LEADER .. ok stop following me now.

Who says anything about they can't get it .. so tell me where did u get ur facts from tat is the Somali men who are spreading and not the other way round. like is said it before, is serious issue and the moment u decide to deal with seriously will u be able to tackle it ... so stop blaming the men and find out the real causes and reasons behoind it.

Originally posted by JUSTICE: quote:Justice wats ur address then. I'll give it to you if you're serious. When am i never not serious?? ..

Originally posted by JUSTICE: quote:Justice wats ur address then. I'll give it to you if you're serious. When am i never not serious?? .. Canjeex write the address down

Loool gosh ladies ( or little gals) now u blaming all to the poor Somali men for AIDS. very little research exists as to the extent Aids has spread amongst Somalis , but the general picture IS the infection rate is very low amongst Somalis and Muslims in general .. thank Allah!!. this is serious issue and should be addressed in serious way .. rather than clowding it amongst other petty somali male issues and their 4 wives in four continenatants.

Originally posted by JUSTICE: He can come to my house,and ask my father to mary me. That's how I would want to meet anyone. ^^ Justice wats ur address then.

CAN I HAVE MINE FIRED AND WELL DONE PLEASE.

Don't tell us how good or bad the movie is .. some of us still have not seen it so don't spoil it. But the main debate for us Muslims is that this book is phalasphmy against Isa (Jesus) (AS) BUT yet we make no fuss of it ... many muslims read the book including myself and we only see it as a work of Fiction, but what if this Book targeted any Islamic figures ( of which Issa is one ) their uproar .. and Dan Brown and co. would have fatwa on their head by now. now all this is making me think .. should i see the film at all ..

Well well he we go again ... why the Somlis u wonder huuh the problem is not easilly fixable and there will more examples of such events. whats the answer u wonder .. well i do wonder that myself, there is no quick fix or easy solutions. but there is one simple fact in this , we Somlis do not have within our ourselves those indivuals capable of tacklings the social and educational problems children are facing today. as long as communites are being run by self-serving middle aged man ( whose own family are on benefits) the problem will always exist. yes u will see the next few days the mad rush of few Somalis ( some with good intentions others lookin to please their paymasters ) attempting to tackle this once again, and after few weeks it will long forgetten till something similar happens.

Bis(h)ata --- commericials work ... is affecting u without u even realising it .. don't think they spening all this £millions if its not working on u ..

Niiko .... the only time somali gals look hoooot when she shakes her booty the right way ... still like LillyWater said, no decent gal should do it for the wedding cameras ... 'Bakar Bakar stop the car for me' and time Renualt used the niiko for their adverts .. now that whats u call 'shake it that *** '

^^ I wonder what adventures the Canadian army have ( peacekeeping in Bosnia ) About moi, very simple really, born in Hawo Tako ( just outside Mogadishu ), i still have memories of the red sand there. Left Somalia at the begining of the war and came to UK in 91' ... and since then life has been one learning curve ... from the 1st day attendin primary school to where i am now ( stuck in a dead end job ). and oh yeah I've lived in Egypt through couple summers ( was my home from June to August for few years till work came along )

Emperor keep it up, u have good heart ...

^^ Protectiong who from who i wonder ... ?