No but seriously people, cooking is a skill that both men and woman should have. Now if you don't know how to cook and you are worried that your soon to be spouse will think you are handicapped, just tell him that you are learning.
There are a couple of other sites that a really useful.
Mine of course...
http://tammyssomalih ome.blogspot.com/
An American sister has some really great videos at
http://somalirecipes .com
and a Somali sister has a site called
http://mysomalifood. com