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Thank you u guys for replying.so ya think it is the way i carry myself and my attitude?i guess i need to start paying attention to my body language. naasir:iam sorry to say this but not every female want money,okay. first of all i would never take money from any male other my own brothers. second of all, sweety i have a job that pay $8 an hour. that is enough for me to buy whatever i want since my family don't ask any money from me. so we are not all gold diggers and lazy who couldn't do anything for themsleves. we are not that helpless.and for that record,u do not what iam going to do cause u don't know me, now that's a fact! anyway iam really offend on what u say. ATHENA : well, i don't know what else to say other than everyone has the right to their opinion.u hurt my feelings thought.but that's ok Tamina,Kool_Kat,WILDCAT7,The Rock's Chick,and Jawahiir; thanxs guys for the positve input, i really appeciate it.

isn't it very beautiful? that's what i thought when i read it. it is true love..that's so beautiful relationship. IT IS LOVELY, WONDERFUL POEM!

Hi folks, wuz up I :confused: ended the last relationship i was in because the guy i liked wanted more than i was want to give(SEX). I found that was all he was really interested, u know. so there are like four guys are interested in me right now . and i really don't want a guy who only like me cause of the way i look. and again i suspected all thses four guys want from me is SEX..LOL. so can anybody tell me how i can tell the difference a guy who only want ur body or a guy who want a real relationship? by the way, all the four guys are very attractive and iam attract to them..lol

Hey my friends i bet ur wondering why iam so nosy? well it is not really my fault! Iam just curious person and well, i just wanna know..lol. anyway: i wanna get married when iam at least 24! that way iam finish with my education and have a career of my own.on the other hand, i wanna get married like 20 cause so i can have children early but i don't know if i can handle babies and school at the same time.so iam gonna let god decide that for me and anyway i love suprises . what about ya? i just wanna say don't wait too long ! beauty is temporary..lol so use while u got. :

Jawahiir, girl i love your name ,it is my favorite somali name. be sure to invited me to that wedding. lord!i love weddings.

Hey gurl how are u doin? I don't even know why didn't reply and iam still wondering why..lol I agree with you thought.to me if i feel someone now, i usually go with that feelings since u don't know if there is gonna be tommorrow.and if that feeling don't last..then it is too bad u know.but i don't believe holding out for the future that i don't know iam gonna have!i live for the moments and i enjoy while i can.

yo sis i really like that poem.for some reason i feel what ur trying to say.keep it up!!!!! 1love

Hey how ya doin? what i don't understand is why we somali people think something is wrong expressing our feelings.I mean why do have hard expressing our feeling, i don't understand. It is like against our cultural? I mean where do we get the idea that showing our is wrong and weakness.I have the same habit most somali females have. I have hard time expressing my feelings and iam trying to overcome that but first i got understand where did we get the idea that if u express ur feeings, something is wrong with you? :confused:

what is wrong with you guys? if the lady wanna wear blond whig,it is her taste. so ya give break and leave her be.what i don;t understand is what most of somalian people got against experiementing with new things and finding out about new things. proud; i just wanna say do ur thang gurl! if u think being blond is working for you, have fun with it!iam thinking getting my nose pierce? what u think?

Jamal and abdunuur:can u explain in language i understand cause i don't get it.I mean they shouldn't being tht period.so make me understand plz. :rolleyes:

girl i really wanna know the answer to that Question.I been wondering the same thing.u talking about men in their 30s but the ones that been hit on me and who scared me are like real old guys who could be ur father.oh that's just so nasty, i swear. :eek:

What is more important when it comes to choice of a partner? The feelings for the moment? Or the possibilities of a future?

When i think about the love of my life, none of my cousins come to mind.No, i will not marry any of my cousins..noway!

Hey, how u been Lakkad? I think our grandparents love fit in UNSELFISH LOVE!

Romantic love --this lover thinks constantly about the loved one, is jealous, unrealistic, will tolerate anything, is sexually attracted by physical appearance, needs repeated reassurance he/she is loved in return. Typically lasts a few months or a few years (some anthropologists say it lasts 4 years, i.e. until the baby is through nursing and can walk and run. Then the love bond releases the more powerful males to find another female to impregnate with his genes.) Best friend or companionate love --this lover enjoys the companionship and intimacy of a close friendship. It is a comfortable, slowly developing, trusting, committed relationship, not intense excitement, desperation, or sexual obsessions. Unselfish love --the lover is devoted and self-sacrificing to the loved one, gives without expecting anything in return, is gentle, caring, and dutiful. Logical love--the lover carefully selects the "right person" logically, looking for someone with compatible interests, similar education and religion, a harmonious personality, common values, and long-term goals. Game-playing love --this person may be charming but is hardly a lover; he/she merely enjoys the dating game. He/she relishes the meeting, the impressing, the seducing, the challenge of a conquest but usually makes it clear there is little or no long-term commitment to the other person. There are other kinds of loves and lovers, of course, like the one who searches for a physical ideal--a great body or some specific bodily feature--or the one who is so possessive he/she wants to control the other person and gets physically sick or depressed or does foolish things when the relationship seems threatened."

WHAT IS UR DEFINITION OF SEXY? WHAT MAKE SOMEONE SEXY?SOMETHING FROM THE INSIDE OR OUTSIDE?WHAT DO U FIND SEXY IN EITHER FEMALE OR MALE? p.s. Ithin iam very sexy!

So what do the husband do for his wife? same thing i expect it.

Iam why is that anyway?It is not fair,if u know what i mean.

Kiss my boyfriend in front of somalia people?!!lool.You must lost ur mind.I wouldn't even kiss my husband in front of somalia people. It is just something we don't do.We do all that behind doors and i personally like to keep it their.But i got give to u..u have alot nerves girl!!!

I really don't know any somalia guy who would marry u unless u can't children of something u can;t help it.

Hey he sound to me like the way a muslim guy supposed to treat his wife.In islamic religion, a man was supposed to do all that and more for his wife.I personally wouldn't want my husband to pay for everything for me.I wanna pay for my own things and help him too.And just cause he pay for everything don't mean that i have forgive him for anything.I mean he was supposed to be taking care of me and not hurt me.If he cheates on me,i forgive him and leave him.so u see money is not everything after all.IT is not about materials.

If u got raped and u got pregnant,would u keep the baby or would u get obortion?lol i really wanna know what u would do in this!

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I really wouldn't care wether he is virgin or not.If he is virgin well good for him.If he is not virgin again that's his business and not mine.I mean that's his body after all and it's up to him to do whatver with it.If i love the man and iam gonna married him wether he is experieced or not.Another thing it is not my place to judge him and what he did in his paste.Iam cool as long as he don't have any diseases.