Shaking handes with men is harm too. someone told me ur not even supposed to check guys out..ur supposed to lower ur gaze.and when ur speaking to a guy..ur not supposed to speak sofe sweety voice..that's what i heard.

Salaam, I had a question regarding sex. I heard that it is haram for the male to use a condom, is this true? Are married couples are only allowed to have sex if they want a baby,and not just pleasure for themselves. Does anyone know if this is true, thanks. Wasalaam.

THANXZ FOR THE ARTICLE SIS..I LIKE IT!

Very nice poem! . you could learn alot from it.

thanxz buubto!

Okay folks, here goes my story. This happened when I was 17. one day I was in somalinet chatting and I came across this guy. when I go there, I did not take anything serious. I used to play with people's mined.lol.I mean some guys are so serious when they there. anyway as usual I was playing around and I meet this guy from where iam from. I was like cool. we chat like hours and he was real funny guy. He told me about himself. He was 21 and blah bah told him I was 17 and he was like cool. Anyway he give his cell phone# and said called me if u want too. I was like sure. I wasn't going to call him really but one Saturday I didn't have much to do and I was bored and I came across his #. I was what the hell's know. I called him and blocked my #. In case he turn out to be who knows what and stock me? Anyway he answers the phone and was like I thought u weren't going to call me. I told him I wasn't but.lol anyway we talk on the phone and he was real cool guy. he email me his pic and man was he cute ....and I email him my pic to him. anyway we dated for while. The end of the story...rights? //

Frist of all i think everyone goes through what u going through. It is call finding ur real self.and it is progress we have to go through in order to be better person. and it is hard. I mean it happen to everryone.u have to take one baby step at time and plz be patient.I mean u can't be too hard on urself. just cause u decide to change don't mean it is going to happen overnight.besides it is hard to change habits.And in order for u to real change, u have to change the way u think! u know how they say u are what u think? well it is true.and read the quran, learn more about the islam and make new friends with people who are like you! GOOD LUCK!

Frist of all i think everyone goes through what u going through. It is call finding ur real self.and it is progress we have to go through in order to be better person. and it is hard. I mean it happen to everryone.u have to take one baby step at time and plz be patient.I mean u can't be too hard on urself. just cause u decide to change don't mean it is going to happen overnight.besides it is hard to change habits.And in order for u to real change, u have to change the way u think! u know how they say u are what u think? well it is true.and read the quran, learn more about the islam and make new friends with people who are like you! GOOD LUCK!

Frist of all i think everyone goes through what u going through. It is call finding ur real self.and it is progress we have to go through in order to be better person. and it is hard. I mean it happen to everryone.u have to take one baby step at time and plz be patient.I mean u can't be too hard on urself. just cause u decide to change don't mean it is going to happen overnight.besides it is hard to change habits.And in order for u to real change, u have to change the way u think! u know how they say u are what u think? well it is true.and read the quran, learn more about the islam and make new friends with people who are like you! GOOD LUCK!

Frist of all i think everyone goes through what u going through. It is call finding ur real self.and it is progress we have to go through in order to be better person. and it is hard. I mean it happen to everryone.u have to take one baby step at time and plz be patient.I mean u can't be too hard on urself. just cause u decide to change don't mean it is going to happen overnight.besides it is hard to change habits.And in order for u to real change, u have to change the way u think! u know how they say u are what u think? well it is true.and read the quran, learn more about the islam and make new friends with people who are like you! GOOD LUCK!

kool_kat:did ur friend thought just cause she wear hijab that she couldn't do anything?i mean like hijab don't change you. it is the only the outside that looks different but u are the same person inside. but people are going to look at you diferent and they will treat you different too.i don't know why but they do that.

chick:what u told ur cousin was right. I mean u either wear hijab or u take it off.when i say some people are ignorent i didn't something like. I mean like say if u are a sis who is good muslim and covers up and dresses nice but someone other muslim sis who doesn't cover told u to take off and dress less cover up? u got my meaning?if you told someone like ur cousin to take off their hijab u are right.I mean ur cousin and anyone else who do that is wrong.Another muslim person telling someone muslim to take their clothes off, now that's what i don't like!

hi ladies Did any other somalian female or male ever told you to take ur scarf or change the way u dressed? like ur cover up , they told uncover? well this happen to me.this somalian woman actually told me that i had too much cloths and i need to wear something that fit :eek: :eek: . i mean what is happening to us? I mean some of our people are so ignorent.

I think maturity has nothing to do with age.I know some old people who are real immature and some real young people who are very mature.it is how u act around people and how u handle things.I think being means being adultlike.for example if u were always around older people than u would probably act like them.i think being immature is childlike and being mature is adultlike.

I think maturity has nothing to do with age.I know some old people who are real immature and some real young people who are very mature.it is how u act around people and how u handle things.I think being means being adultlike.for example if u were always around older people than u would probably act like them.i think being immature is childlike and being mature is adultlike.

I want to have traditional wedding.And iam gonna have my wedding in the day time. .lol Iam not gonna spend money on hotels and all the other stuff. I just want simple traditional wedding with alot blessing. most somalian weddings these days are like the gaalos.in another word i want have somalia wedding.

I think somalian people do that cause they are insecury with themsleves.

Iam totally against. I mean if some other people are okay with, that's them but i can't deal with it. first of all i get jealous and just knowing that my husband had sex with three other female would make me real sick!lol. i could even get disease in that. it is nasty.

lakked great idea bro! i always wanna make difference in someone's life. There are so many children without parents in somalia.I think if we are going to do something we should do something for them.We should collect money each of us and then one of us have to go somalia and give the money to them. I mean we can't trust the money with anyone else. we built like orphan place for them where they can at least get shelter and food. as for getting the money, i know i can persuade the people to give it to me. also they are alot older people with nothin their. i think we should built house for them too. that's just my ideas.

Mobb_Deep :I don't recommend wearing tight t-shirts before you cut that BELLY namean..loooooooooool.man that was so funny! wow! i thought only females care about the way they look! i want some tips from u mobb_deep. i want to be real fit too.well iam almost their. me and my girl walk every morning.

1. the perfectionist 2. the giver 3. the achiever 4. the observer 5. the analyzer 6. the boss 7. the mediator 8. the romantic 9. the adventurer

I see some weridos here...jk Be Difference is unique!