lulla

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  1. Asalam Calaykum everyone how ya doing? See i have a question but i don't know how to put words into it.. see I want to talk to my mother about guys and realtionship and allowing me to let guys called my house and ask for me..iam tired of playing the pertending game..u know..the mother act like iam not talking to any guys and me acting like iam not either..and if a guy actually gets the nerve to ask for me..my mother would be standing next to me..giving the look that says u better hang up the phone..so i say bye to the guy and then after he hang..i said to the don't ever called my house again in somali..lol. so then i tell my mom..i don'tknow where he got our number and i don't know him ect.u get the point. all my friends go through the same thing..anyways..i was wondering did this happen to anyone here and did it change when they got older? iam just wondering..is this some kinda cultural thing that most somali female go through? cultural thing meaning that their are some topics we just can't talk about with our family member or feel comfortable enough to talk about it? anyways let me know what ya think..
  2. Heeeeey everyone..GOOD TO YA AGAIIN..LONG TIME NO SEE..I EVEN MISS SEEING YA NAMES..LOL I HOPE EVERYONE IS DOING GOOD!!
  3. I believe in honesty but i don't think it is the best policy.I mean what is the truth anyway?Your truth might not be my truth, so how do we decide what is the truth exactly? sometimes i have hard time deciding weather i should be honest or not?what if i hurt someone else's feeling, what if i say the wrong thing,what if someone hate me because of it? Most people nowdays do not tell the whole truth.They either leave something out or add something to it.This honesty thing is a very slippery slope. We all say we are honest. We all expect honesty from others. So, the question is, should we always be honest with everyone we contact?The answer is, probably not.
  4. First of all,how is everyone is doing? okay, i have a question and i want the ladies here to tell me what ya think.Imagine your in the same solution.And this not about me.See most of the time i post question si have or questions that are about something that related to me personally.Okay now.Say you have a best friend who is happily married to the man she is in love with.Her and her husband have been marry for like 10 yrs and they don't have any children.Her husband loves kids and wants really bad to have some kids.now remember your best friend loves him to death and would do anything to make him happy. Since she can't give her husband any kids,he husband wants to marry another wife.And of course he afford another wife.He has more than enough money.SO now ur best friend like ur sister who u love to death come to ask you a something that is really important to her.and remember right now ur single woman.so now ur best friend come to you and asked u if u could marry her husband and be the one who give him some kids.and of course already she discussed this with her husband and he had agree to marry you if u say yes.And remember her husband is very good looking and he is all that.So MY QUESTION IS WOULD U MARRY UR BEST FRIEND'S HUSBAND IF UR UR BEST FRIEND ASKED YOU and THE HUSBAND WANTS MARRY U?
  5. 1.good attitude 2.open mind(willing to try new things) 3.just being urself
  6. sis..that was interesting stuff.thanxz for sharing with us.. farey : no need to insult her..if u don't like it..too bad..nobody forced u to read it. :rolleyes:
  7. hey hibo,how u doing sis? well..it is great to know that..it makes me feel better that women are not the only who get depress and blue about break ups.
  8. lulla

    Question?

    why do people cheat?that's good question! i personally think there are many reasons people cheat and some reasons have already been said..the reason people cheat is cause they feel like their something better out there for them or they don't care much about the person they with or why else would anyone disrespect someone they love like that..it don't make any sense to me.or maybe having two female at once makes me them feel worthy..or they just are not ready for commitment..or they just confused..they don't know what they want..
  9. how about u show us another side of you we never see before for a change huh? i don't think u should chose any of those nicknames..how about something opposite of that..something..i don't know
  10. Hi everyone. When u see other somali people,do u feel insecure? and why?also do u stop and greet them?or do u ignore them?
  11. i heard it is not harm as long as u cover ur face.
  12. WHAT I LOVE ABOUT BEEN WOMAN: Expressing emotions Wearing beautiful clothes Being creative Being loved by a man Being pregnant…and being a mother Ball gowns Make-up Women friends Shoes I think one of the most wonderful things about being women is how many choices we have. We can be soft and feminine; we can be strong and assertive; we can be mothers, workers, artists; we can feel deeply and weep without anyone questioning us. We can even be giggly and silly. Also, women can hug and touch and hold hands. Most men swat each other on the behind, sock each other in the arm, or if they do hug, it’s a quick, stiff embrace with a slap on the back, signaling it’s over. WHAT I DON'T LIKE ABOUT BEEN WOMEN; Job discriminatioN Having to wait for men to make the first move Getting old Being judged by my appearance Feeling insecure about my body PMS Being considered the weaker sex
  13. If iam in love with the guy,i won't care if he has 5 children..i would marry him.
  14. If iam in love with the guy,i won't care if he has 5 children..i would marry him.
  15. If iam in love with the guy,i won't care if he has 5 children..i would marry him.
  16. If iam in love with the guy,i won't care if he has 5 children..i would marry him.
  17. i wear make up to match with my mood just like clothes,and make up allows me to express myself in certain way with all sorts of colors...plus with make up..u can create all sorts of looks..and make up can tranfor u from normal to sexy..and make up help show off ur best feature(eyes,lips) and hide ur worst feature(skin).
  18. i wear make up to match with my mood just like clothes,and make up allows me to express myself in certain way with all sorts of colors...plus with make up..u can create all sorts of looks..and make up can tranfor u from normal to sexy..and make up help show off ur best feature(eyes,lips) and hide ur worst feature(skin).
  19. lulla

    Tell me!!

    i wear make up to match with my mood just like clothes,and make up allows me to express myself in certain way with all sorts of colors...plus with make up..u can create all sorts of looks..and make up can tranfor u from normal to sexy..and make up help show off ur best feature(eyes,lips) and hide ur worst feature(skin).
  20. lulla

    Tell me!!

    i wear make up to match with my mood just like clothes,and make up allows me to express myself in certain way with all sorts of colors...plus with make up..u can create all sorts of looks..and make up can tranfor u from normal to sexy..and make up help show off ur best feature(eyes,lips) and hide ur worst feature(skin).
  21. i love my eyes, lips,my long neck, and legs.