i'm not sure if I understood this clearly. Yes, they / we are supposed to live by a different code, which is supposed to cover every aspect of our lives. Lol. Walaalo just because you wear hijab doesnt mean that you're supposed to be a model for all thats good. Ought to is not always what is . Wether you're wearing hijab or shorts, it comes down to personal integrity. Do you beleive that a certain action is right(morally) go ahead, Nope? Then it is between you and your creator.

Just some jumbled thoughts of a man slowly loosing his religion. Who is that man? If it is you, please make some soul searching ASAP. It is a terrible thing to lose your faith in Allah. In sha'llah you will be guided.

LooooooooL..I don't know man, the man who was arrested for groping the cop apparently looked at the cop's groin, and said "how are you Papi"...Meeshan waxka baxsanaya majirto. Bet he'll never use that phrase again

Why does it make a mockery of hijab? Are they supposed to live by a differnt code? What if it was a girl wearing a long skirt, long shirt and scarf? Apart from the xishood issue, whats the probmlem? They're probably a newlywed and dont see anything wrong with showing effection in public.

I always thought (as in past tense) Raaliyo was the one who cooks, cleans, looks after the kids; makes sure hubby's dinner is on the table when he gets home with the bed made and his macawis and shukumaan neatly folded on sariirta; puts the kids to bed early so he can enjoy a quiet evening at home after a long days work; doesn't complain; lets him handle the finances ( ); lets him go out on weekends cuz he has worked so hard during the week... WTF! Waxaan ka tagay lee dhulkuu kusoconaayo inee seexato suusan dhulka utaaban...Yaabayee igaarka dahab maas ka suubsan yahay? @ dhulkuu kusoconaayo inay seexato. I believe this is "official" definition. When I think of "raaliyo" I just think of all the things you've mentioned. I'd rather clean and have him cook. No philosophy behind this reasoning really, it is just that I dont like cooking and a man who cooks is sooooo sexy to me. Thats why, in the past,when a guy said he enjoys cooking, I used to pay "extra" attention

It is a set up, hun. "Whatever" is also open to interpretation.

If anyone has a comprehension problems, it is you. You failed to notice the main issue being discussed. The Thread reads: In Kismayo, Mer & Women Should Not Go with the Same Car RR says: Amazing people still support these demonic groups Nothing wrong here: expressing his opinion. Kashafa: Amazing that in the year 2009, you're still swimming in the sewage of clan owr-kacsi and you're still fishing from the same fetid river of "Alaayaaaay Tolaaay iga soo gaara" failure. Whassa matta, boss ? I thought that approach failed miserably in '91 ? Mase it's a case of can't teach a old dog new tricks ? Did I miss something here? No one discussed clan here or mentioned other policies so off you went like a mad man hijacking the thread. The day is not long when you will be seen on these boards squealing like a stuck pig on the humiliating annihilation of your clan militia. rantings go on. it is over(thank god) Wait… nope more rantings: Jowhar is gone. Mahaaday is gone. 98% of Xamar Caday is gone. Shabelle Dhexe is gone. With the fall of Beled-wayne, the conquest of Hiiraan shall be complete. Aynal Ma'far ? Where will you flee to ? Your Tolaaaaaaaay Hooogaaaay Baa'aaaay will flood the airwaves as you call for 'qaaraan' and 'gurmad' and 'gas and ammunition(lol) from the Tol-ka. But the Tol-ka will respond: "Maandhow, the age of clan owr-kacsi is over. We have been crushed by the Islamists. It's over. Let us reminisce on our heydays of dhil, dhac, and kufsi. Let us cry rivers of bitter tears on the memory of heroic Halyeeys of M.Dheere, Cabdi Qaybdiid, Bashiir Raage, Saciid Jalle, and Cabdi Waal. (Note: all of the aforementioned CIA-funded Moori.yaan leaders have been deemed the Somali equivalent of Khaalid bin Waalid, Companion of the Prophet(PBUH) by no other 'authority' than his His Eminence Al-Calaamah "We must expel the foriegn hordes from Gedo, Bakool, Toghdeer, Zaylac, Jubba" Shaykh Janaqow.) Nowhere do you address the issue at hand. Wait… here it comes in a second posting thanks to NG comment: It remains as accurate today for Sharif/Sharmaarke TFG supporters. Oh lord... it started again About the ruling, if true , I think it's ridiculous. We're facing bigger problems in Somalia than to worry about whether a man and a woman come into physical contact when sitting on a bus Nope.

Other than that, she can do whatever she wants with whomever she wants. Wow. Thatz a bold statement. Are you sure? So if she decides to take a little getaway with girlfriends in the Bahamas, it is ok as long as she plays the piano and "other" instruments upon leaving the house? I kid, I kid

If my argument is repetitive, that's because it's working. Don't fix what ain't broke, ma maqashay ? . What I'm here to tell you that it aint working and it is definetly broken. You're fixated on the minute things like where heblaayo ileen waa naage should sit? You'd rather draw blood than admit that you're(and by you I mean the lunatics you dearly support)being petty. And sometimes, it is just a darn good debate strategy to state the facts involved without overshadowing it with all the blah blahs. you're like a chiken without a head, going round and round and thats just aint a good look for someone who wants to put a point accross. Debate 101: you lose your audiance when you speak for the sake of hearing yourself.

I think Kashafa is on crack! There is a serious incoherence problem with all of his arguments. Marki geel loo heesuu asagana ari u heesaa. The same repetitive argument for virtually every social issue.Kala aayar bahasha, in adeero.

Who gives a f*ck I'd just make it my business to make his life miserable if he doesn't co-operate. you scare me my dear. Val, you're right. Nothing is wrong with being a good homemaker however, being only just that is problematic in itself because it tends to end up in "man of the house makes decisions" situation. And who wants to be that helpless? When you're helpless, people take advantage hence the raaliyonimo where the man acts like a man and gets away with a lot of shit. NG,your theory? stuff and nonesense SS, do I sense a raaliyo in the making?

Ok. A couple of my girlfriends and I were discussing the term “raaliyo” and what it entails the other day. Not too long ago, a very religious aunt told me that women are out control today “ because they don’t know their place.” “Women in asxaabihi” she proudly announced “ they used to bring their husbands a cup of water and a stick to beat them should he felt like she didn’t do a good job that day :confused: . ” (seriously I don’t know where the older women get the hadiths from. They have hadiths to pack up every argument they make ). I felt a little bit nauseated and walked away. But her comment got me thinking. I started thinking about what I'm willing or not willing to do in marriage. So my friends and I started talking about this topic. It was the most eye-opening conversation I have ever had about this topic. Sure we all agreed that the husbands need to "help"( a very tricky and anger-inducing term in the feminist world because it is so vague. help in men's world means setting up the table while the pregnant wife is working like a machine in the kitchen, bedroom, bathroom at once with a toddler fastened on her back ). But something happened when we started defining help(we were suffering from extreme boredom that day so sue us )none of us wanted to divide the housework. We felt ashamed , as if most of the housework were "designed" for women? Am I delusional or are we secretly striving to be "raaliy" but dont wanna admit to it in this day and age? Most of the career oriented, feminist, out spoken, egalitarian girls(who were bent on changing gender roles in our culture) that I know became the stereotypical housewives (homemakers with dead careers before it even started; barely surviving on one income with more kids than they anticipated. A career woman’s nightmare: the life your school teachers warned you about) they used to frown upon. Most of the men they married were egalitarians in the beginning of the relationship or so they claimed? but as one of my friends said with a sigh “all that equality talk went away with the honeymoon.” However, it is too easy to make the boys out to be the root of all evil. So are we: a) Bound to become our aunties because deep in our psyche we hold the believe that we should be “good home makers” in order to hold on to our men? b) Finding the live of the “Superwoman”(you know that one with the blooming career, social life, kids and husband) to be a made believe? c) Realizing that the boys haven’t changed with the times at all? Do they still expect us to play the role of the submissive wife? Ps… although I’m a hardcore egalitarian advocate, I still cant picture my husband with gloves on bent over the toilet with a brush cleaning unless I’m pregnant with twins and haven’t seen my toes in months . Where does this come from? :confused:

Alas! Sis. Anyways PM me the gory details. I'm outa here.

Oh my woman!! I'm very random and you bear grudges I see my dear. Seriously though, next time be sure to pm me so I can reserve the date.

My God! And I shall leave it at that.

Looool and as you can see, I havent visited that place until May 21st.

Che, ceeb. Ofcourse the boqor and his lovely lady's dhinacs. Sabri, no hun. There are so many "dhinacs" in the story and my Somali is poor so I came out thinking WTF? Is he really advising what I think he is advising? And if so, would elderly NG share this?

Wut R U talking about? I didnt see such thing. I would've loved to see you and welcome you to our lovely city.

Looool. didnt wanna come out thinking completely dirty. Then I put "dhinac" and "dhinac" together and it was like oh yeah? Ciyaal suuqnimo badanaa!

SS, really? Are you back to your home town? How come you didnt pm me? Yeah, I'm planning a little getaway myself.I'm jelous of all of you adventerous peepz.

waxaan ku wareerey "dhinaca" yacni ma fahmin :confused: . And also ninku talo xumaa? Ok maybe I did understand it a bit.

In Asia?

Morning Trollers. Val, are you you on vacation too?

My God SS wut a list! Anyhoo how u been? How is the lovely weather treating you?

Looooooooool.