LOOOOOOOOOOOOOl! It doesnt apply to us though.

Or he could stay home where I can keep an eye on him um..happy or unhappy na'mean? Why wait for him find his way home marka horeba? Better safe than sorry as they say. LOL!

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I'm not very fond of spouses(and by spouses, I mean men, LOL!) taking long vacations by themselves. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Whynot, are we suffering from trust issues No, I'm suffering from reality Send a farah to the Bahamas and he will take a detour to Africa and get married to his father's 4th cousin's daughter who's sister is married to his second cousin

LOl! Welcome Karl. Dont let the haters dissuade you.

I'm not very fond of spouses(and by spouses, I mean men, LOL!) taking long vacations by themselves. They can with friends and family members.

LOl! Ala dadkaanaa! War gabadhu idin ma dhihin I want to travel. She asked if there were things you put on the back burner, so to speak, that you wish you had not. Do you feel as if time is passing you by sometimes? C&H, I think I want to try the selfish phase, but I need to move to the end of the earth first, otherwise they will think Jiin baa ii galey and I'd have Quran read on me exactly the reason why my selfish phase didnt last.

Morning folks.

I think you're in the same boat with all the girls who responded the same. ZACK, this "bait and switch" mentality is whats wrong with some men's solutions to such matter. And yes a woman can seek divorce if she happens to be unhappy and treated unfair in her own marriage.

This is not the first time. WOW! The politics section does make me lose respect for some people fast! I did read your post. In fact, my last post was for A&T NOT FOR YOU. Thank you for pointing out my "illiteracy issues." GOO DAY!

LOL! Whateva makes you feel better about yourself. But should you want to pick bones with GD, then you should clarify that instead of dragging all Puntland to the mud. This whole hebel of qabiil hebel sidaan aa lagu yaqaanaa is backwarded and doesnt help killing off this poisonious thing called qabiil.

LOl! dont I know it?

Both of you(Ibti and AT)sound like qabiilaystayaal right about now. Puntland is not a pirate land. There are so many honest, hardworking people who have nothing to do with piracy. And no, not everyone condones piracy. If you want to attack an individual, I would suggest you do so. But this whole Piratland tirade is embarassing. CONGRATUALTIONS TO US SOMALIS! YAY! We just found another way to pick on each other. EVERY OTHER POST IN THE POLITICS READS: Puntland handed over someone, Puntland sold a child(The fact that it is not true and the child in question is a SOMALI child scores less)SL handed over a somali person, the ONLF were captured, the TFG are failing. AM I the only person who sees how we, the educated few found another way of TOLA'YEY?

LOL@ the God of the Quran." Tolow buug ma qoraa detailing how oppressed I was(beaten, tortured, was told about women being subhuman, was forced to marry a sheikh thrice my age,terrorized, paralyzed by fear I defended the religioun that caused me so much pain) and how one day a christian friend? No, scratch that a Jewish friend planned my scape(ocourse mentally), freed me and showed me the path of true peace. There I met my Jewish husband, AHH... A saint, a man of passion. No, a white knight! The title would read something like; THE OPPRESSIVE RILIGION AND THE TALE OF THE WOMAN WHO LIVED AND SCAPED IT? I will then book air time with major media outlets; CNN, FOX, The TODAY'S SHOW, The VIEW, GASP!! Oprah!! stupidh is as stupidh does. waxaan waa publicity stunt at its best.

My 10year old sister(almost 11 and all cuteness soon be gone)couldnt eat when the earthquake hit. She gave away all of her life's "saving" as she calls it.

So Ibti is a big baller huh? Interviewing presidents and such! By all means go ahead and since you're SOMALI first, speak for ALL Somalis. Morning folks, after a long hour of debating wether to come to work today or not, I'm here. *sigh*

Please dont partake in a "trial." It is exactly what it says; trial, meaning they dont know the side effects yet so they'll test it on you to see how your body reacts to it. Umm.. some people have horrible reaction to drugs such as kidney failure, blindess and heart problems.

Ibti, Trust me. The man IS angry about the sex first. If it was about children, they could've adapted you know?

So nomads; what about all the things you forgot to do? eh @the convo with the husband. At any given day, I feel the same way. I feel like I'm letting time pass me by. When I was younger, I had a long list of things to do from traveling everywhere to volunteering at shelters, learning centers, to going for multiple degrees, to owning bussinesses.But now I'm not even 30 yet I feel like I've lived a long, tedious life full of demanding family, bosses and deadlines . I tried the "I will do whatever I want" thing for a while, but it just made me look irresponsible and the people in my life where in utter shock. It just felt silly. Maybe you need to make the "MUST" list and work from there.

LOL@ is that it? If you lost 3k, that's 6lbs! Thats great! Your friend needs to take a chill pill!

Looma abuurin but why get married then? She could've easily stayed single and enjoyed life without nac nac iyo qaylo. But no, she took a husband. She is the other *****!

OMG! No Way! Stupidh fooqul stupidh. Why stay that long? He is not insane, he is just bitter to the core. Ala! aduunkan nacasiin ka buuxo. You wonder how they keep going in life.

You only have committment issues until you find the right person then you'll be singing different tune. So no worries.

I'm determined to make the SOL community fitness freaks. So since summer is approaching fast, who is hitting the pavement, gym, diet centers(Ok, maybe not that extreme)or their treadmils? Come on ppl, participate!

LOL@Ibti. I like how you broke it down. There no laws to commitment, just two souls willing to bear with each other.

Indeed Happy Women's Day(giggles). So Cara, why dont you share a cheesy story with us. I feel refreshed today masha'llah. Ibti, You get too many proposals! If I was your husband, I would.... Hello Juxa, Malika& gents