Chocolate and Honey
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The Jin union is nothing but a fantazy that men conjure up after they chew jaad all night long or so I was told by my uncle. But Nuune, dadkuu ka waalaayaa.
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Interreligious marriage + small rant + my solution
Chocolate and Honey replied to Sherban Shabeel's topic in General
GDW, Perhaps I'm your Jin companion? I kid, I kid.Or Do I? LOL! -
Tuujiye 10.0 miyaa saan? Maxaa dhacay, Forumka radical uu kaa sii dhigooyaa see camal? Shaax cab. Is daji. Dadna timaha ha ka xiirin, maxaa jiraa Al-shabaab maa wax kuu galey?
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Interreligious marriage + small rant + my solution
Chocolate and Honey replied to Sherban Shabeel's topic in General
SHABEEL, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Dont leave. We value your opinion(at least I do!)Ignore those who ridicule. You know that we are conservative people when it comes to family. Our religion is where we get our morals and values from which is why anytime you ask a Somali person a question about values, they tell you whats ALLOWED and NOT ALLOWED in Islam. It doesnt make us close-minded or hateful. We can all live in peace and harmoney without undermining each other's values, can't we? -
Ibti, breathe. Dont pay attention to sick people. A Somali kid is a Somali kid regardless of what region they hail from or stupidh clan they belong to.You're doing a wonderful job. Please dont be like me and stop. We've run into this problem so much so that I stopped fundraising. I have a short temper when it comes to qabiil and going off on ignorant, qabiil sick people wasnt a good look. My friends have more patience masha'allh. They(cuz I'm out lol!)run this organization called PUSH that sends medical supplies and medicine back home to help doctors. They rotate the location each time. Last time, it was Mogdisho and some people actually refused and asked why would I send stuff to H kids when kids from X kids need it?
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Interreligious marriage + small rant + my solution
Chocolate and Honey replied to Sherban Shabeel's topic in General
Are there Muslim people(and I say people because Men ALSO cannot marry any who is not a practicing Christian or Jewish) who marry non-Muslims? Yes. Is is allowed? NO! Will it work? yes, as long as none of them is practicing what they claim to believe. -
LOL@"send cake." Speaking of cake, I just had a slice of almond cake for breakfast, yum! I think I'm a bit shallow hence my attention to fitness. No, Lily it aint mine.
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Educating prostitutes about the dangers of HIV
Chocolate and Honey replied to Sherban Shabeel's topic in General
I know Ina Abti. Malika wanted a bit of entertainment. If you ever called me that, she would be the first to join the manhunt. -
LOl@Zayid. Leave Shabeel alone. Malika, I'll pretend that I'm hurt by the rejection while you milk Shabeel and get the xaal money as long as you promise to split 50/50
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Morning Gabdho. Lily, I warmed up properly but my body is not used it. I came in limbing literally. Ibti, Waa summer soo ma aha. You know me and my vanity. Plus, I'm going to this one fantastic, bigger-than life wedding this summer.
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Hello folks. I feel so sore today. Maybe lifting weights wasnt a good idea. Oh well.
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Educating prostitutes about the dangers of HIV
Chocolate and Honey replied to Sherban Shabeel's topic in General
C&H, deal with Ducaysane please,rip him off! Malika, You know I would've had his head in the town square if he was reffering to me but he was talking about the woman in the vedio. Sherban, I was reffering to the comment about your future daughter. -
Che, this 97% waxaanba ka xishooday inaan dhaho 100% se camal waaye sxb! anyway this 97% is based on my own estimate. I used to work with some somali cumunnities and over the years I've met with over 25 'victims' qaar la soo garaacay mid waa xasuustaa ciyaalki Morocco laga aaday and I have also heard these stories when I was in Holland last year (quite common there) capisce? ever met any algerian in Lodon, he will ask you to help him find a somali sister for marriage sharciyada lagu qaata gabdhahana waa jilicsan yihiin...micnaha waa iska allowsahalyaal waaye LMFO!! I died.
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Educating prostitutes about the dangers of HIV
Chocolate and Honey replied to Sherban Shabeel's topic in General
Having sex for money is abusing your body? Really? Maybe to you, but not to most of the world. Habits which are repulsive get progressively rooted out from our behaviour, such as burning people at the stake, cruelty towards animals (alhtough there is still much work to be done here), and all sorts of gruesome things. Prostitution isn't going anywhere, so that should tell you something about what's truly inside of people. I'm not glorifying prostitution, I'm defending it from people who try to villify it, and make it seem a lot eviler than it actually is. I'm reminded of that thread about Waris Dirie, where some nomads were like "OMG why is this prostitute (which she isn't but whatever) talking about FGM? On what authority does she complain about it?". What does Shabeel think of all this? I'd rather my daughter be a prostitute than someone with her clitoris chopped off. I think the latter would be a lot more damaging to her dignity. You may disagree. Anyway, your last paragraph is nothing more than a rant, driven by your prejudices and your total disgust at a profession which feeds millions of people worldwide. Also, prostitution having such a terrible impact on humanity as you described (financially, health-wise, blablabla) is absolute BS, based on ZERO research/reason, and totally based on your sentiment of revulsion. Finally I'm not going to advise women to drop medical school to become hookers, because - unlike you - I'm not riding around on a high moral horse telling people what they should to with their lives. It's their damn choice whether they want to become surgeons or prostitutes, or pilots, or anything else. As usual, emotions get the best of you. You seem to scream freedom of CHOICE whenever someone disagrees with you. I treated this as a debate on an intellectual level and pointed out the physicall and pysochological harm prostitution does to people. But I see that you're taking this personal. You can view me however you like(intolerant, close-minded, whateva)but my position will not change. Prostitution is a DIRTY, DISGUSTING, DISGRACEFUL,HARMFUL job(if you even want to call it that)that strips people off their humanity and reduces them objects. I hope the women who were forced into it by circumstances to GET OUT and the ones who chose it to see it for what it is. As for the comment about your daughter, I hope you NEVER advice her that. -
NewYorkers against Mosque built at Ground Zero
Chocolate and Honey replied to SeeKer's topic in General
You get mad at me for pointing out your prejudiced view against this mosque to 'incite more hate'. You could disagree as others did without judging the mosque to incite more hate. How could a mosque that isn't built yet is gonna 'incite more hate'? Don't be so judgmental next time. Listen, this is what I wrote: No I wont. I dont think in abstract. Realistically, it will incite hate crimes simply because the people who lost their loved ones will not bear to see a mosque anywhere around there. So I say, find another freaking space and leave ground zero alone. I stand by this statement. This Project will incite more hate because Ground Zero is an emotional place. It is also a memorial ground for those who lost their lives. It is outrageous to think that a Mosque of such magnititude will be built so close to a place where MUSLIMS crashed into planes. It is in the media already gathering up storms.They should find another space and leave Ground Zero neighborhood a lone. I never stated that I think Mosques incite hate or intolerance, that was your own flawed thinking. Now stop judging me for my darn opinion :rolleyes: -
Educating prostitutes about the dangers of HIV
Chocolate and Honey replied to Sherban Shabeel's topic in General
Ok Shabeel, It is your time to listen to my reasons. I didn’t know you had more experience or knowledge. Good for you. You at least know what you’re talking about. First of all I KNOW prostitution always existed everywhere and will continue to exist. No argument here. It is human nature. AND I’m not trying to change human nature but what I would like to see change is human behavior. Your analogy of the urge to GO to a bathroom and SEX is flawed on so many levels. First of all, SEX is NOT a need based. It is a Want based no matter how OVERWHELMING the urge might be. You said, if people who oppose whoring knew how many people have sex for money or whatever, they would cry. Then you proceeded and argued it is a choice. This is your first contradiction. It is EITHER a choice or women (and men by the way) are forced into it by circumstances. When you stated that “We shouldn’t be alarmed,” what do you mean? How can “We” not be alarmed considering the impact (Financially, morally, health, reproduction, human rights) this profession has on the world as you’ve stated? Then you proceeded to defend it as a choice. Ok. But how is it a choice when every woman who comfortably chooses to have sex for money or favor, there are two that are forced into it by circumstances(parents dying off leaving 10 siblings behind, being a refugee, drugs, abduction, PIMPS, etc)? I would say, maybe the percentage of women who are being trafficked across continents or being forced by PIMPS with guns is small but the ones who are forced by Circumstances are far more. So how is it a choice? Finally you brought up the core of this issue: MONEY. The goal of whoring is MONEY. What really bothers me is the fact YOU seem to be glorifying a dishonerable profession: A real, professional prostitute (not refugee girls in Yemen) is a woman who is in charge of her life and her body. Her soul? God knows, but I can tell you this woman is no victim. She's better than you in math. She knows more about life than you do. She understands mankind more than you do. She knows how to have witty conversation than you do. She is kinder than you are. In many respects, she is a better human being than you are. Still, you look down on her and want to "save" her. Really? A woman(or a man)selling her/his body for few bucks has lost the ultimate control. She or he is no BETTER, WISER, or More in control, IF she did she wouldnt subject that kind of abuse to her own body that host her spirit. Also this surprised me, Well, guess what! Women enjoy sex, and women enjoy money. Some women decide to combine the two, and enjoy getting money through sex. Some women develop friendships with their tricks, they gain influence and suddenly find themselves in high society. The game can be beautiful just as easily as it can be ugly. There are girls who make as much money as surgeons here in Canada. There are girls who live a better life than you do. You can enjoy sex and money, but sell the first for later is a dangerous combination. You're glorifying a woman(or a man)who sells her body and opens it to a host of diseases for few F-ing bucks. It is ******* sick to think that devoloping a "friendship" with a man who f-ing bought you and gaining access and affluence through him is considered "SUCCESS"! :eek: You also stated that some make more money than Surgeons, well if money is one's GOD and goal in life regardless of which route they take to obtain it, then so be IT. And if by BETTER life you mean, they come home to mansions and drive Mercedes because they had their legs open all night long then we certainly have VERY different definition of better life. :confused: And in such case, why dont you advice women to become whores instead of slaving away in MEDICAL SCHOOL to become brain Surgeons? :rolleyes: -
LOL! You made me laugh wallahi.
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Educating prostitutes about the dangers of HIV
Chocolate and Honey replied to Sherban Shabeel's topic in General
C&H education does help though, prostitutes in the West (hold your horse Sherban) are much less likely to be infected or infect the clients because they are given basic education, are protected (from violent/ force) and have lots of options, as suppose to ones in East/ poor countries. Therefore less infection carried to the community. It is there and the way to deal with it is not to ignore it or try to force them to stop (it will just go more underground, dodgy and more risky for all involved) Repressing somehow makes it more cool or the thing to do (drugs, sex, alcohol, porn, magazines, music), I disagree with the Al shabaab approach of killing them or trying to force closures. Give them a better alternative and it won’t attract the poor young girls. This is really a none-issue with me and I think we have bigger problems/ issues before we can pay this one any mind or air time. I disagree. Prostitutes in the West are less likely to be infected because the clients fear for themselves. Even with basic information about the horrifying diseases out there, sex without condoms pay WAY more than protected sex. I was watching an episode about prostitutes on Tyra show not too long ago. This very same issue came up and they interviewed "clients" AND prostitutes. You know what they said(yes even here in America where sex education is taught in public schools)? They said "Condoms just ruin the fantazy. The animalistic passion." :eek: And they did a survey of how many of them will accept more money if they go bare and 90% said, yes! And mideeda kale prostitutes are NOT protected under special law.I dont know about Europe, but here they have PIMPS who pretty much treat them like sex slaves(beats them to death, takes all their money, tells them what acts however preverse to perform, where and when). They get raped more than they can count. AND they dont report it because it comes with the profession. I have watched countless documentaries about the sex industry and it's sickening what these women go through :eek: Most of them have drug problems so they DONT care about health. NO one can force them to stop. And I'm not advocating for murdering them. I'm just saying, of all the problems in the world to nurse and "educate" people about, prostitution is not one of them. I can get behind organizations that slowly weed them off whoring by teaching them other skills so they find other jobs and better themselves. But preaching to them about protection so that they can be safer whores is a no no in my book. -
Educating prostitutes about the dangers of HIV
Chocolate and Honey replied to Sherban Shabeel's topic in General
What you need to do to be pleasant is STOP judging. DONE! Everyone can have a good time then. Oh I'm not concerned with being pleasant. What you need to do is stop being sympathetic to EVERY thing out there. Sometimes, having a wide, wide open mind is not a good thing. Ibti, I know it is the oldest profession but it is killing millions of people. Infected people infecting non-infected people who then turn around and infect their wives, husbands etc who then give the disease to their kids, who then die off. "Educating them" won't do a single thing because it pays good to not wear protection and if the primary concern is money( and IT is. No one whores for humanity), then they'll ALWAYS choose money. -
Educating prostitutes about the dangers of HIV
Chocolate and Honey replied to Sherban Shabeel's topic in General
What they need to do to protect themselves is STOP whoring. DONE! Everyone is safe and sound then. -
And this is why I love you. Because you are so goddamn rotten! Seriously speaking, foreign policy aside (which can be impossible to do) I do think you guys have the best of everything. And I'm not just talking about education, science, arts, technology... Sponsor me!! I wanna get out of this cloudy, ugly island filled with grumpy people with bad teeth Sure, sure. As long as you pay me everything back plus interest . Gots to make mo' money na mean?
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Hello Lily. I have to keep reminding myself that. LOL!
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NewYorkers against Mosque built at Ground Zero
Chocolate and Honey replied to SeeKer's topic in General
What you mean more hate? Do you believe mosques in other parts of the city or country incite enough or acceptable hate and this particular one will incite more hatred? What do you know about the people planning this one to reach this conclusion? Mosques are buildings like Churches, Synagogues and Temples. They are all built for the same purpose and the same people. People of faith use these buildings for worship. Not much difference except each adhere to different faith. One doesn't incite hate more than the other. One is not holier or acceptable than another religious institution in terms of the laws of the land at least from what I know. So I don't know how you can draw the analysis that a mosque in New York or else where is going to incite more hatred unless you believe mosques promote hate and intolerance. Would you also object other religious buildings anywhere near this place? Stop watching Fox News. :rolleyes: Waxba ha is qalajinin. Re-read what I wrote. There is no analysis. And I dont watch Fox. And yes, I would object to any other religious building on or near Ground Zero. Now, take a chill pill. -
Oh Ibti, dadka adiga kaa qeeylisiiyey yaa waaye? E-mail their location, I'll take out a hit on them. Morning folks, I'm having summer fever. Also, if I have to look at another naked girl in my classroom, I might just lose it. Pray for me bal yaan la xirin for asault.