Salaama calaykum In my experieince i don't think race will be matter as long as the guy is muslim, then you have the choice you can marry who ever you think is your soul mate as long as they are muslim, cuz i have some relative whos husband is white but you got to beleive this the guy is just maasha alaah really nice takes care his kids and so on,,, i fell for my self some times jelous and i feel like i wanna marry white muslim dude but you never know who you will end up with but make sure they are muslin 100% much love to ya'll

Salaama calaykum I'm very sorry what have happened to you brother and you have to beleive that most of the ppl aren't the same. i know and i beleive that there are some jerk's that like to broke ppl's hurt and some ppl oo ka shaqeysta in ay dadka isku diraan.but i think you didn't had to take such a action cuz this lil girl didn't do any thing to you but love you, now tell me is she had done somthing wrong,,, i have read both your posts and i understand that you are trying to got some advice , what i have understand was fist of all you had to think twice before that action has been taken, i know it did happened already but all what i'm trying to say is it was your foult who made this lil girl make her love you aren't you, i would say to you just tell her in face that you don't love her period she will be hurt but i don't see no other solutin cuz she loves you right now tell her that it will be hard for her to take it but she will got out of it.... on other advice that i would like to suggest is plzzz don't play around with lil girl's cuz thay are ll masaakiino they din't deserve to be pay something that they had nothing to do with,,, and beleive it may be allah is keeping some thing that more kheyr for you in sha'allah,, plus keep praying and try to forgive her ok good luck i haope what i have said will help ,,,, moch love to ya'll

SAKAAMA CALAYKUM WELL LET ME SAY THIS, I HAVE AGREE WITH SILENT-SISTAH WELLL SAID SIS NO THING TO ADD, AND ALSO THIS TRUE they are normal, not shiekhs, but at the same time as studying and working for Dunyaa, they are working for their akhiraa! SO SIS MA'SHA ALAAH SLAAMAAD,

Salaama calykum Well said silent sistah,, Maasah alaaha that is what i was about to say,,, Once againe well said nothing to add,,,, Much love to ya'll,,,

Salaama calaykum Let me thank you sis for sharing with us with this worthfull artical, and you know as i read I throught man this too long,,, any ways Once againg Thanks BIG MOMA,,,,, Much love to ya'll untill we meet one day,,,,

Salaama calykum Thanks walaalkiis OG-MOTI,, for being standing by me,,, just kidding ok,,, any ways abowe I realy appreciated all that mac mac from all- somali men huh,,,LooL,,,, I accepted,, ok,,as long as you represented them wouldn't accepted from no one else,,,, nothing personally with my writting,,, cus waan luloonooyaa,,, i have learned this new word reacently,,,,,Much love to all my sis and bros,,,, un till we met one day... :cool:

Salaama calaylkum OK,,,, OG-MOTI, I will take kinda back, i will do any thing that will keep my bro happy right!! so, you're cool, and very smatr as far as i read your posts. well thanks again, nothing personall in my writting ,,, much love to ya'll

Salaama calykum Well come maandeeq sis we love you too more than you will realize so i hope you will have fun with this help full familly ,,, move lov to ya'll

Salaams That was a wonderfull piece it really touched me how nice it's thanks sis for sharing with us move lov to ya'll

Salaama calaykum Well let me see i can't say all mens are bad cuz you know there are bad women too. you can't judge mens are so bad cuz you don't wana be sexest. I think all what it takes is be treat him well and he will treat you as a queen.After marriage i don't think there should be such a problem, cuze man is like how you take care of him, if you only know what i mean. Much love untill we meet again....

Salamz,,,, I think sis the situation is jus simple jsut let him go. cuz you said she can do better without him right then she don't need to be depending on him, I personally would advice her to forgot about him, and move on.. cuz revenge is not gonna do any better that is my idea,,,,, much lov untill we meet again

Salaams,, I want to CONGRADULATE to all of us who had worked so hard throught the school year and some of us graduated once again CONGRADULATIONS !!!!! Specially to my best frinend who has graduated last nighr form wash bron highschool, way to go girl I'm so proud of you. you finally made it it's been so long and so hard,but you know you made it.now face on, the next level of your life and foucus on what you really have to do.. Also, Najmah 03 congradulations to you sis,,, way to go,,, i know how it feels when you finish high school i have been that way once, and i remember when i walked in the ceromny i felt so nerves but it was wonderful moment,,, Much love to all my sis, bros in this site.

Salaam,z alhamdulilaah no complains at this time, How about ur self, much lov to you

Salaams to ya'll let me see my self to begin with i didn't met no one form this site, but there some quite of view ppl that i would love to see them,,, 1. OG-MOTI,,, He is kinda cool guy 2. the clown,,, funny some times makes my day 3. Mizz,luxus,,, i like her when she fights back with OG MOTI,,,and i will love to see you in reall lif so the rest of you i would love to see ya'll or meet you one day i hope i will see some ppl from this site... peace and love [ June 09, 2003, 11:08 PM: Message edited by: Asraa ]

salaamz Bye king450, i hope you the best wishes ever and i hope every thing will go fine for you.good luck with your journey have fun with it, my allah will be with you in sha allaah,,, good bye good bye

SAlaama to ya'll I'm not here to disappiont on no one but i think the game it self called,,,,(GAAGAA CADALE)NOT CIGALEE,,,I just came across this topic,so no hard feelings. that is what i think we used to call, and you know what it used to be my favorare game to play as a kid,,,, peace out

Salaama calaykum To the sis, walaashiis i my self think a BIG WEDDING,shouldn't be the cse cuz we all know most of the ppl who had a big wedding didn't have a happy life cuz just think of one thing. the money you spent and the ppl you in vite that night what ever they do, sin,or any thing like that include your self that you will have 50% of that danbi,, subxaanalaah,cuz waxay ku yimaadeen madaxaada. Secondlly after big wedding you will have credit to bay with interst an other xaaraam, so walaashiis talk to your parents and i think if they are religious they will never want to have a big wedding. the fact you can have a tradition weddin forgot about what ppl would say or would think jus focus on your life and what you wanna do.

Salaama calaykum,, I personally think kids are so adorable but some times they are very anoyed, i beleive your own kid is more loveble then adopted one. I don't wanna adopt kid i would love to raise my own kids. Back in somali I always wished if i can find a baby laying on street cuz one time freind on mine found a girl she was so peautiful really beleive she took care of here then later she died, but i never had that chance. Peace and love untill we meet again.

Salaama calykum I my self thought about it cuz they kept on call my house my cellphone all the time. that was when i was in 12 grade in hight school i was about to graduate, then they know whose really coming to the reall world so, one day i told then i'm not interested them they stoped calling me. Proud sis i was thinking it might be a good deall when you don't have to worry about a tution, but i statrted thiking twice.i hope you got my point just think what is behind the money that they are giving to you or the tuition you don't wanna put your self in a danger place and you don't wanna serve kufaar countr, that is my openion. much love to ya'll

ACUUDU BILLAAHI MINA SHAYDAANI RAJIIM BISMILAAHI RAXMAANI RAXIIM :confused: What an earth that you are wishing for subxaana laah,,,, Duniya i think you really need some help,,, all what i can say is Allah hakuu naxariisto,, and keep in mind What goes around cames around I'm still wondering if this is a true story if it's waan kuu baqsanahay ,,,Subxaanalaah,,,

Salaam alaykum I personally have cousins who were born and raised in kenya, the fact i never had the chance to meet them but finally i met them when we had to go to nairobi. Actually they might not be as helpful as you want to, but i realize that they are very very maskiin ppl, cuz they have a lot of respect walaahi i'm not just saying it but for sure they are. the funny thing was the younger ones didn't somali language at all!!!!! but know i'm very very proud of them walaahi they are very very active and smart ppl I love them and I adore them, so somalisiju, sis or bro we don't hate you we love but i know the fact that sijuu ppl are very comfortable talking with an other sijuu if that is true what i think let me know... peace and love untill we meet again.

Salaamz Subhanalaah, I have not heard yet, I laahey ha'unaxariisto, maashaa allaah. Like my sisters are saying please watch urself and be careful.

salaama calayku,,, i Should go with #2 Same city, cuz i beleive that is the only way that you can keep on trac on what you mate is doing peace and love

The car behind you blasts its horn because you let a pedestrian finish crossing. I really feel this one it really iritates me so much,,,peace out

Salaama calaykum proudson,, I'm doing alxamdulilaah no complains, and I should say to you this your family ha'is martiyeenin Wellcome peace and love