Tam Tam...don't make me regret my new persona... :eek: ...its all very innocent and islamified relationship....

Nice...the power of quran displayed at its best...food for thought ladies if/when we might be in a similar frightening situation...thxs for sharing sis... peace

Hard q to the power of 2!....damn..my brother, husband or son? ....if i had only one to save, probably my son, dependin on age too...young child has more to live for than a grown adult who may have had their time on earth...but God knows...only who ever's time is ending won't be saved...out of our hands... p.s.-if we said hubby, would look selfish on our part...how can we live together knowing we sacrificed our child? :eek: peace

FF, for the love of baris, u won't tell! :eek: ..and i trusted u with my shameful secret, if many find out here, i won't hear the end of it, they'd be shocked!....so i give in...no more blackmail...

Yup....our dollar got pounded by their currency....i remember 200can was like 80pounds...sucked... apart from that...when on a trip...u gotta have a schedule...yes ur on vacation, but u dont wanna sleep the day away...u can do that at home...so what we did was planned what we wanted to see each day...museums, tourist destinations, got on their buses...etc....and got to see all of london pretty quick..makes the trip more memorable.....as for the homeland security issue...we were tryin to film Blair's home..passing by in a car and they waved us away...also put up barriers....so ppl couldnt take pics that were too close....also...the queens guards acted suspiscious when we tried to take pics with them, we actually captured one looking at us from his left eye...paranoid folks... peace

FF...ahem...i resent the insinuation :mad: ...wait till its ur b/day....u'll get a nice surprise... I should post ur pm to me..where u told me what to get u cause money is tight ....stay tuned peace

Stringer...be a bit more creative and try not to highjack the thread with ur bashing...not needed...just address the topic or hit the road jack... :mad: How was london UD? what places have u visited? London bridge....?eye of london? etc... would love to tour all of europe and south america...if only welfare would advance me cash for the next 20 yrs... :cool: peace

Qac, don't worry, I usually attend the islamic conference un-armed, any other place, u may have needed a bullet proof jacket In any case, its normal to agree and disagree..no hard feelings from my side ... p.s.-garab is already invited for tea...u are wlc to come as well...but be careful... :cool:

Yasmine...for sure K and Hi are gonna be there...i think the other may be outa town for the holidays....would be great seeing u there too...

Da..lol...yeah i did....old age setting in...same avatar threw me off...i vow to be more diligent next time b4 i mix things up.... About the no-wearing perfume thing....i heard that as well...and i think its ok as long as ur not taking a bath in it....and it makes sense not to wear it to a mosque b/c the idea is praying not alluring men to our dens....a puff will do... peace

Garab...i too don't agree with half hijabis as i like to refer to them...either wear it the proper way with decent clothing, or don't disgrace it at all....if ur not ready to make the full commitment of changing ur clothes, then dont' wear the hijab for the sake...doesnt count much anyways.....other than that...rock on sistas...soon i'll join ur force...when im brave and my imam has improved...inshallah As to the greeting thing....i find some weird like others describe...for some reason...its a scene of mean girls the movie almost...u see somali sistas and immediately they look at each other with suspiscion.."is she or isnt she?"...then sometimes...its almost a lil competition...hataretion goin on....at least from what i viewed, not to over generalize....i do believe though that men in that respect may be slightly better than us...(that cost me a lot to say)...i admire how many of them meet each other and easily get into conversation while the girls look at each other sometimes with suspicion.... peace

oops...blame it on the weather....cold got to my head

kruella...u know every theory has its pitfalls..but at least i was right with one of them.... let's analyze J'adore....timeless...elegant...somewhat conservative scent... p.s.-Bohemian...off topic...im voting for DA name to come back, if ur taking votes that is.. ...no reason...if not...rock on! peace

Can't wait to attend this yr...last yr was worth it and hopefully it can only get better...cant wait to see my fav speaker Imam Zaid... Khayr, u'll take every opportunity not to lower ur gaze, at least attempt it there.... p.s.-ahem(i'll be wearing a hot pink hijab)

...thxs for writing down what i instructed u in ur pm box....u got it!....

lets analyze island kiss-free spirit..creative...risk taker...true or false?

^^^ classy scent..ie classy lady? other favs: Irresistible-Givenchy versace, red jeans...to be continued

island kiss is divine...i second that choice i'm more of a collector of all sorts for dif occasions...some for evenings, ie. stronger scents....and lighter scents for day and summer time... example....Versace Woman is not everyday wear, where as Noa, by cacherel can be....what my perfumes have in common usually is that they are more simple scents, nothing too overpowering but at the same time not loved by everyone...unique..maybe like me? ... p.s.-light blue is another favorite...

Flamboyant said it all....no need to elaborate...but if the men were truly honest with themselves, they would realized most of their reasons were those...in any case, to each his own...whatever makes ur day, do it... p.s.-we have entered another era of the salem witch trials, lets call this one somali-woman trials....so nauseating seeing each thread posted by some guy whining why women are this way and that way...i got a solution for u....since somali men are so spiffy and perfect, why not marry one? ....since its legal in alot of places, go ahead, we'll look the other way.... peace...and stop the whining, makes u look like infants needing a diaper change...

Zu stop, ur making me blush ...am i really that attractive? too late to join ms. Universe?

lol rudy...did it scare u? im glad ...dont make me show u my biceps...make urs dwindle in shame...and my voice...deeper than al sharpton for sure... Ng, sooo sorry, i didnt mean to cheat on our hate-hate more relationship...i missed ur condescention, sarcasm, patronizing ways...no one can do it like u, and i assure u, i will leave the big battles just for u, not these amateurs...deal? :cool:

Og, was i aggressive? were u scared? then my job is done :cool: I would take u more seriously if u gave a balanced view, rather than blame women across the board for ur deficiencies and insecurities...but carry on, i don't blame u...reason and knowledge have it to invade ur part of the world..who am i to burst ur bubble? p.s.-yeah! lets blame these women..cause of u divorce is high....shame on u ladies...ok Og..is that better?

"X..they following The words of Allah..........If you wanna say something justice, but your femenist attitude a side..What you wrote their has femenism all over it sis and becarefull because you are playing with fire." Garab, always using feminism to downplay ur feeble mind huh? u wanna address my comments, address them w/o pointing fingers kiddo...anyways, one cannot be a faulty muslim yet dishing out islamic rules...meaning...the ppl condemning this woman who admitted she had fornicated BUT did not consumate her marriage, meaning she didn't commit adultery but a lesser charge of zina..punishable by up to 100 lashes..he's not even getting that but carrying on with his life defiling young ladies....what pissed me off was that the man denied ever being with her therefore getting off scot free while she's left to deal with accusations...now..what kind of islam is that? not very islamic, therefore this court has just lost its direction and purpose, because they choose to apply it where they want...and all too often women take the fall...now do u get it? u don't? tell it to the judge... p.s.Ng, what have u done? this name doesnt suit u at all....i picture a sensitive gorilla rather than the fierce chest-thumping one u wanted to portray earlier.. Peace

Og, i invite u to shoot any man that calls himself X-quizit...last i checked, i was yet a woman, but thxs for making me doubt myself..excuse me while i ask someone what i am :confused: Garab, i've never said all men, i was addressing Og's faulty logic and giving him asinine answers as he was...and i do know that there are some women just like the men that are responsible for the failure of their marriages, but unlike Og, im not pointing the finger at just one and ignoring the rest. Peace

LMAO....Og Moti, u can't be serious? if u are, i will definetly recommend u to a psychologist that deals with somali men that can't handle rejection very well.... ....bro, are u depressed? insecure? lonely? there is a new drug out there...called confidence, patented by Doc-X, and available in limited quantities, get it b4 ur stuck with urself forever... Reasons behind this post ladies and gents: A-Og was let down when a prospective xalimo ran for cover when she learned his bias and one track mind b-she realized he sucked at stats...with such examples as "all problems and divorces are due solely to somali women, men are exempt" :eek: c-views women as some"thing" to be trained...like a dog...ie-last post, he said "let's train em"...oh..oh...can we get a treat after that? u promise???? :rolleyes: d-he just lacks shukansi skills and likes to take it out on women...hint...ask the married men for tips how to get a woman and hopefully stay with one p.s.-divorce is a problem in our community because all too often ppl marry those they cannot mesh with for life/marry for the wrong reasons..ie-kids right away, etc...OG, u want ur marriage to last? try respecting women, listening to their views, not blaming ur own insecurities on them, and take responsibilities for ur own actions...voila! soon after, u just might get urself an unsuspecting xawa... Peace