Did any of you can tell me where I can find this song: Labxashada Kalgacalkaan Ladiwaayay Laydiisibaan la lee leeyayaayee........... thanks

This black men wanting white women phenomena has nothing to do with "maryoolay, Okey Somalis" in fact, it is seen as embarrassing thing to do. one of my auncles who lived in the USA for over 40 years, married and had kids with white lady. He eventually married a Somali women and have kids with her, but the sad thing is: he doesn't count his older children with the white lady as his real kids!!

I agree 100% with Siman, I think U sum the whole thing up rather nicely what I had in mind. Nomad fellow said it all, I hope it helps Balsam

Originally posted by BARWAAQO: __________________________________________________ Education? Oh no, disaster!...by discussing the importance of education, what if we all decide to delay marriages and in the process become spinisters by 26? No, education is definitely bad (altho almost 70% of the population is illiterate)...maybe we should leave education alone. _________________________________________________ BARWAAQO, ARE U SAYING WOMEN BECOME SPINSTERS AT 26 YEARS OF AGE???????????????????? I am just wondering what the age is for Somali women to call or men for that matter to call them SPINISTERS. Is that mean U are not 26 yet??????? or U counting yourself with the SPINSTERS?

Many thanks to you: Samurai Warrior, You make my day by reminding me Galdogob Galdogob is my birth place and I loved to so much even though I don't have clear momery of it.

and one more thing Mr. Youp-Sheikh, The primary armforces/tools British used to combat agains Darawish were now So called "Somalilanders" Just read the peotry of Sayid Mohamed and U would get enlighen with facts

quote: ------------------------------------------------- The treacherous Brits faced more resistance and lost more men than Italians and they had to use planes to save their skins. ------------------------------------------------ Youp-Shiekh, British Used air planes to eliminate Sayid Mohamed and Darawiish, are U telling me Sayid Mohamed was Norther/Somalilander? Please read the Somali history. Who were they Somali freedom fighters for over 20 years? Infact it was the fear of Sayid Mohamed that British wouldn't sold U out to the European market!!!!!

I guess I am thinking too much ahead. I don't want to involve anybody that I don't think has mariage potential, I know this person that not so much I going to learn from him, that is why I think marriage is real possiblity if I can handle all these uncertainties and guity/embrassment arrounding our case

Thanks Guys for your input. Let me clear something up here: first of all, these two guys are not first cousins, secondly, he didn't dump me but I left him, thirdly, I knew this present guy for long time that I know what kind of person he is and he is someone who is worth to take risk for!

U absolutely right Guto, I feel both guilt and embrasment. All three of us have same circle of friends and our families know each other, so it hard to for be to deal with that suddently change of status!

definately, it was not the look

As I said, I knew him before I met my Ex. Infact we even went elementary school togather,and then went same college with my Ex. but we were never close friends. He is someone I respected in great deal and admire, but he was not the reason I left my Ex. I didn't think it was an option then and he used to treat me like his sister-inlaw. But I have to admit if I had to choose between them at the time I would of chose him over my Ex.

I have ridiculously high expectations.

The Ex. moved on, but I still wonder what kind of effect it will have on him since they were/are close friends.

We are not officially dating yet, but I think we are heading that direction.

Well, I knew the cousin even before I met my Ex. All three of us went the same school and we was well aware our relationship. They are not first cousins but they are closely related and also they are friends too! Even though, it was maintly him, I agree at one point to marry him and then decided that was not a good idea and I broke off with him. The cousin knew all that. Now my ex is already married and moved on with his life.

Would you marry a cousin of your ex. be honest and if U wouldn't why? thanks