salam, thank you for the reply, well actually we have only had the nikkah as of yet so we dont live together, infact i brought up this topic so that it does not come as a surprise to him, and im not from somalia actually im from pakistan.

he just wont agree with me, now it is fustrating me, i told him about surah al-ahzab and so he read the translation on the internet and asked his mom and she said something completely different, infact she said it is okay, im not sure what exactly to do now because he can't see my point of view, i even e-mail the local islamic newspaper they told me the same thing that it is haram... somebody help me please.

My question is regarding women changing their surname to their husbands name after marriage. I have been told that it is haram but my husband will not agree, he wants me to change my name. When I tell him that it is against Islam he askes for proof from Quran. Can anyone please provide me with proof from Quran or hadith, and please provide the links or sources (authentic sources) so I can show him. And the reason for that ruling. Thank you

regarding ur thoughts here on having two wives, this is completely upto you and if you can treat both equally and support them, but always keep in mind what you 1st wife might go though since it is hard for a woman to cope with her husbands other wives