imperial-lady

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  1. I thought the movie's theme was excellent. I do believe the plot had some minor problems, there was times when the movie sort of shifted to a pointless direction. The actors where hot though, any film that has those deadly combinations is a success. But overall it was more of an epic than a movie, and the ending was pointless. Leo's character never had the chance to revenage his father's death, it was as it was handed to him, since there was another battle going on at the same time as the "Gangs" were fighting.....which was a bit confusing...well I didnt' overally enjoy it!.seen better!
  2. Well, I was born in Hargesa.(I hope I spelled it correctly). Moved to states, when I was two, lived in Florida, Cali, Newyork, then to Iowa, where I lived for 18yrs, now I reside in Mn, and will continue to live here till I am done with schoo. Gosh I hope next time I move, it will be forever.
  3. Well this is a personal sitiuation. I feel bad that your girl is actually parading around telling everyone about her personal business. But then again she is doing it subconsciously, because she is hurt, and she wants to express her inner thoughts, she just doens't know how. I'd suggest is that be her friend, do not judge her, because u have no right. She made a mistake to her it wasn't a mistake, and she will deal with the consequences, in her own terms. But whatever u do, please be there for her, even if things aren't right between u two, at the moment. Sex and women, plus emotions,....damn we are cursed! :mad:
  4. If he cheated on me i will commit the Sin of chopping his genitals into tinny pieces . :mad:
  5. To be honest, I do believe old standards should still be constant in terms of who is paying the tap. But when it's reperative, then I'd say that women are just being ignorant about it, after the first date or the second date, I'd definitely take the tap; I wouldn't want him thinking that in return I am going to give some thing back to him. Plus if women want to be treated equally with men, then I suggest u'll leave your little traditional bubbles and start thinking like equalls. Besides, I think it's impowerment when a women takes the tap.....it's sort of sexy in a man's eye. Prehaps I am wrong, but it's how I view the situation.
  6. Well Marriage is a big deal. And I dont' think people really choose a time to get married. Yeah u might have an idea when u'd like to get married, but I think destiny takes over; regardless of how much u plan. For me I'd like to get married, when I am a bit wiser. Meaning I don't think I have experience, anything yet; in terms of relationships or life. Besides u can't get married, without your partner in crime. I guess what I am trying to say is that, marriage is individual thing and I further think that, being in a foreign land has definitely influenced Somalis in one way or another, but I think the insitution of marriage it's self hasn't being altered yet. It's cultural, and universal. So I guess marriage is personal, and can't be timed....with that note, I wish happy marriages for everyone....when U do decide to get married.
  7. Well u want respect right. Women have many sides to thier personalities. We are different, but when it comes down to men, ladies we must admit we are the same. Now don't even start deny the fact that when a man tries to charm u, u fall for it. Regardless how many times u told yourself, it woun't work and there is no way u'd let him take control. I believe as women we are nurturing, therefore; we are easily munipulated. I do believe though, women have more power than they really are aware off. If a women wants to sleep with a guy for example, she will, but no one can make her do something she doens't want too. Also we are very strong in terms, of business, smart as hell, and always rational, except when we emotional break down. Then we lose the train of thought. I am not hating on women, but seriously ladies, when it comes to men, let's face it we fall for them. Not all of them, just the special ones.....u know Mr. forgivable. Well that's my two cents.
  8. This is a complicated issue, take what u can, and leave what u can't accept. No one can alter anyones view points. Pro-choice, and has sever consequences. Let's put this issue to rest. I am sick of people chaning what this whole issue is about, I didn't claim to murder one year old's. I never said aborotion was right. So whatever a young women decides to do, it's absolutely her own choice. So......let's leave this topic, and I hope to those victims who are dealing with these situations, I hope u make it through; and might go be with u.
  9. Wow, I don't know what I'd do. Iam the biggest scary cat in the world. I think I'd sit put, till something happens. I know it's wack, but it's me.......I am chicken when it comes to things like this!
  10. LeXus........dang the same post :eek:
  11. King, if I choose pro-choice that's my own opinion and thought. To answer that question, whether we are right to choosing who lives and doesn't, it's stated in the Quran, that If the child's out come is going to be disfigured, or the child has serious illness problems, then as a mother she has the right, and the go ahead to abort that child. That's my point of view, that's what I was trying to mention. More questions, again the book is due out later this year.
  12. My intentions toward Pro-choice are simple. If a young women is rapped, she has the right to abort the child. If a young women is dealing an infected child, or there is a claimed danger, it's obvious that she might need to abort. Those are the clear cut answers. The complicated sectore on pro-choice is that, let's assume a young women gets pregant; for whatever the reason might be. Lack of education, lack of protection, or the pure ride of ignorance on her behalf, because she wants to experience the full thirst of her partners flesh, whatever the reason might be, that girl might not want to keep this child. Even though, it's HARM in Islmic law, to abort a human being; without proper reaons, she might dismiss those rules and go ahead with the procedure. Now say whatever u want to say about her, but altimitly it's her decision. She is the only dealing with those consequences, not u, nor I. Therefore, I stand for women rights, I believe that a women should have the choice, to make her own decisions, and let her deal with her consequences whatever that might be. If u all need further explainations, I am writing a book that's due later own this year, check it out in your local libararies, or nearest B&N book shelves. LOL.
  13. What a senseless topic to comment on. Freaks of nature!!!
  14. Hello ladies and germs. Let me start of saying that I am pro choice. I believe in abortion, when it comes to logical reasons. The topic u raised is an important topic, on many levels. This proves that as somalis we have long ways to go. Obviously there is a problem if our teens are floacking to the plantparenthood clinics. We must educate on subjects such as sex, and other sexuality topics. I think for so long we as somalis have shyed away from sex topics and sex education; due to that we have problems that this topic is dealing with. I think as soon as we start opening up about sex and the safe sex we can really achieve something. It's obvious to me if the doctors are asking for some sort of solution, from our communities that this is huge social issue. Well all know that some teens or young adults will not always practice safe sex. Sex is complicated. When dealing with sex ur faced with many questions, should I have sex, I am ready, I want to have sex,but I am safe? There is no easy answer, but as an indivisual you make your choice and must live up to your consequences; whatever that might be. To conclude, we have to come with possible solutions to this problems, and a good head start I think is through sex education, and having an open mind when it comes to this types of issues and topics.
  15. OG.GIRL......u dad pay for u Aroos :eek: .....naa Dont waste my Adeer money ......use ur so called kings money to make ur aroos .........my parents wont pay a dime i luv OG girl :cool:
  16. Hi, Having someone as a solemate is huge deal. U must know what u want, and what your partner wants. Then can u only come into argeement. I'd suggest that, u absolutely talk to your partner before doing anything that is life altering. So that u can both be on the same page.
  17. i feel for you walaalo......