Malaysia u sound pitiful. Get over that girl, ure litterally crying about her in front of us all LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL...did i do that? i remember one of her topics i gues she is at acceptable level to any men .....looool

FIRSTLADY, what you want when it comes to men is man with great career and great personality...that is great Are you all that? in your case i think integrity is important SIS otherwise there might be WAREER..for you firstlady you seem to me great somali woman and you deserve all that ..but for real i call all those common attribute requirement DREAMS..we have all those pictures in our mind and we want but sorry to say never work out .. one solution is ..you better take ur selves into process(shukaans) of integrating ur different characters/attributes togther in order your goals(marriage) to work out for you...

Fabiana and Legend of Zu......you are talking about lacag ..i dont mind giving money to my somali sis(ay ka xuntahay) hadii aan awoodo..i think one of ur common attribute requirement is LACAG when it comes to GUUR..is it?

The brother lives in Malaysia which means hes probably well educated and makes a decent living Thank you i like malaysia , is my ideal place...

i will never forget u fatima kkk..who is fatima ..can i help you finding her around here? you are right they are honnest and deserve to be GF or wife ...

hello valenteenah, We all looking for these attributes: intellectuality, honesty, generousity, Intelligence in men or women but there might be conflicts in there..if we meet a man/woman with all these requirements we are really luck but onething to make sure is integrity and ask our selves , do we also have all these attributes we looking for im men/women if we are not , is your partner enjoying living with you? what is the probability of getting divorce there? Is like going to have new venture in BIG large full of capacity industry with no required capital, experience and so on -----------> failure waits you in there is the better solution is look for someone you think you(guys) share same attributes...?

I don't agree that marriage is a need rather than a want. Many people don't get married, simply because they don't WANT to get married. Calaf is onething but if you are not into Haram stuffs you need someone to share life witH and you have to be serious with that ..is your number one goal if you know or not..

Sorry if the topic is confused, let me refine it: Why most of somali women mention same common requirement when you ask them attributes they test in men, and what are in those requirement for them?

Dude, you do realize, you just answered all of your questions, right? Ya i just answered all of your requirement you always mention ..but are they really something exist inside of your or you just simply say them ? and my question is ..what are your needs and wants in marriage: everyone in this world has need and want..under Marriage umbrella NEED can be honest person to share life with in order your GUURKA last-longer. WANTS is something like ..money. qurux, education etc. Are most of you do know that ? if you say every-women do know ..can any of you mention over here as well as telling as what is in it for her.. for example if you say Honest person..what is in honest person for you?.

I don't understand most of the stuff dat you said, but before you start ranting about others. Do you know what you want? i know what i want but not those are looking forward to satisfy their NEED(Marriage) i dont know if it is something for short-period use..

Do they really know what they want?Are they suck? is the quesation i sometimes ask my self. they are all share common WANT/NEED: They are right for onething: they want marry ofcourse they have to because it is NEED.. not WANT you cant ignore it. Otherthings are : Nin fiican They are not capable of differentiating Nin fiican between Nin xun . i cant understand why you not this? He must be educated: i know you dont prefer this , it is not must..cuz marriage is A NEED not Want. I can help ya here ..Knowledge is not the power character is the power. Fanancial requirement: i know in this ERA you dont ask ..but the truth is you Want ..remember u simply say LACAG WEY ISKA IMAANEE DHIB MALAHA TAAS, How? BEER CAMAL MEY SOO BAXEE?. Ok let me ask here ..ARE YOU GUYS(LADIES) know what your NEED and WANTS in marriage?. if you really know, what is in it for you or for your future?

i call this topic for us to share ideas over here...let me know if there are any round then we might start sharing ideas... regards man _in_malaysia

These are Somali men abbaayo, most of them probably grew up when women were not "supposed" to put up ads. who said that ..women used to put up ads WELIGEEDBA you see when u become an adult person mISE guur qalbiga kaaaga so dhaco ..you star wearing DHAR QURXOON..FIIRIN IYO KUURID QAAS AH AYAA BILAABA AND WHEN MAN COMES TO YA ..you ask walal ..WLAL GUUR DOON BAAN AHAY..was that kind of marketing or puting up ads? she doing same here virtually...

Wow she is straight to her goals and clearly seem that she knows what she wants and how to get it(she is really an educated person)..what the strong great R&B u doing sis..u really have attributes i test in women and should challenge you overhere(not going private massege) ,,but,,Hamilton ..is it near to malaysia(my ideal place) ..ohh no.. plus if you dont mind moving to malaysia and having ur family overhere(your husband , ur children)i am here to start marketing my self to ya... guess, most brothers would be little weired about asking even questions to gain more knowledge, cuz they are afriad of "what if". looooooooooooooooool.. they must be alot of "what if" questions come into your mind if you tend to have virtual relationships(like who is this person man/women? how can i know that?)..but they should ask ..hey guys dont hide your self into private masseges ..be strong guys and be here if you around there or near to that place or willingly like to move or live where the strong-talented girl lives(1st_lady)....

is it that there is growing demand in marriage market segment at SOL ..maaasha allah that is great unless u guys dont think about temptations..

what the good motivative topic ..i being working last three years for some companies or someone..meantime after i started my masers(mba/entreprenuership) i regonized there is big opportunties i am missing there...but to be business entrepreneur you have to pass different stages . Thinking ----> taking arisk ---->hardwork ----->get failed or be rich ..as the case of get failed u get experience u are not looser u may be winner at next cycle ..... so if i give you my advice here...if u are going to start ur own business... choose which industry are u good at ..by looking at industry's bahaviour/structure against ur strengths...get team network...track and get benchmarks of ur current competitors and latent once as well as those who failed to do ...OH you HAVE alot of hardships to pass ..pain in ur A**SS....ANYWAYS if there are entrepreneurs over here please lets share ideas for starting a business in any industry

lol...some of them(muslim woman) are inclined with unexistence falso ideas in their mind as they believe wearing Hijab and staying at home(when you have nothing to do for going around)make them not to have a chance to meet those once they picture in your minds at right time and right place...but for reality we men(most of them)recently and shortly do like/prefer the women manage her self in postion that shows she is well-oriented muslim woman as TWO of signs/indicaters are wearing hijab staying at home(if she has nothing to do for making around)...if she is kind of THAT well-oriented muslim women i am sure she will get happy and lasting GUUR..

its incomplete because the analogy really isnt fitting and doesnt explain why we wear the hijab. its offensive because it compares women to an inanimate object that people use on a daily basis, and because it is an object (no brain) has no say in the matter. we dont wear the hijab because its pleasing to the men in our lives but because it pleases Allah, swt. the hijab alone doesnt increase our value (hindus cover too) but combined with taqwa it does. this analogy leads people to believe otherwise. in my opinion the main subjective aim behind the analogy is not like women is compared to an object, it defines how hijab and staying at home adds a value into muslim women's living-style or dignity .. They are kept in honour and dignity yep they been honoured and have strong dignity when she covers her body and stays at home

let me say here if we are more focusing on healthy there is nothing wrong with eating what ever you like all what u wanna is to have excersize(if you have somekind of diseases you dont have to eat somekind of food)..but if what you looking for in slimness is to market/sale your self(or look great)you dont have to worry about calories or what ever they say ...just ask your self do you look great in fatness shape or slimness shape?...in my life i did not see any somali lady who is more beautiful in slimness shape ..they better be somewhere between slimness and fatness ..just think about fitness..the real shape that make you cute

you are right they are about to measure and predict logics about market , but they are moslty talk about two variables monetary system and population growth and for that they say shortly and recently decades peaple live longer because of healthy food, modern medicine for them to consider the world(developed countries ) will have more unemployed/retired DUQ peaple then ever that will affect economic growth. Considering the fact your previous girl weighed 87kg, you should have encouraged her to excerise more depending on her height. i did ...but what i meant was .there are alot of peaple like me who dont have problem with fatness if she is intellegent and intellectual person/smart person that her comment send ya luring mood thinking...

Economist says peaple live longer, look fit/smart as ever before beacause of the healthy food, modern medicine..i know it is sin to say that refering to our HOLLY DIIN but it is better to take healthy food/drink and control the kind of meal u take daily especially women need to do that ..if u take chips every-day and eat SAXN WEYN BAASTO at nights(if your desires of eating take ur upper-hand)exercise has nothing to do with fitness/smartenes as well as ur health..still fat womem are around , enjoy on their lives, marry handsome man ...my previous girl was 87kg