CUTE....THANKZ FOR SHARING UR BELEAFS. THE CLOWN: DEAR BRO... IT WAS JUST A QUESTION TO KNOW WAT U REALLY FOCUSING...........U JUST GAVE US AN EXAMPLE....SO THAT EXAMPLE DIDNT GIVE THE WHOLE PICTURE I SUPPOSED TO UNDERSTAND FROM UR EXPRESSION..THATZ WHY I WAS CONFUSED ABOUT UR OPINION AND ASKED WHY U EXCLUDING UR SELF FROM OTHERS.......BRO ANYWAYS IAM REALLY VERY SAD ABOUT THAT....I LUV SOMALI WOMAN...AND I`LL LOVE THEM....BRO I THINK MAN IS THE ONE WHO MUST FALL IN LOVE AT ANY COST.....AND WOMAN SHOULD DRIVE THAT KIND OF MAN WHO FELL IN LOVE WITH HER.......SO I THINK WE ARE THE MEN WHO R NOT TAKING RESPONSIBLITY OF THEIR JOB......THERE IS NO WOMAN IN THIS WORLD WILL SHOW U HOW U WOULD LOVE HER.....IS THAT A KIND OF WOMAN OR COMMUNITY U R PREFERING WHEN U SAY NO LOVE IN SOMALI COMMUNITY?.......WHEN MAN TAKES A STEP THE NEXT STEP WOMAN TAKES.....BUT IT IS NEVER BEEN POSSIBLE THAT WOMAN SHOULD TAKE A STEP BEFORE MEN DOES. SO DEAR BRO..WE SHOULDNT BLAME THE SOMALIMALE/FEMALE, ITS ONLY MALE WHO HAS TO BE BLAMED. SO BROS LETS SHOW OUR WOMAN SOME LOVE THAN WE`LL ACHEIVE OUR GOALS.

well thanks bros and sisters now i have two different opinions in this article runaway virgin i understood ur reply... u said love is calaf......that is one point. THE CLOWN...do u really believe that wat u say? do u mean u r one of those who have dont believe in love...when u r telling me that there is no love in somali community arent u one of them, the way u talking seem to be like u r not one of them.? or u r excluding ur self from those who dont believe in love......i believe that somalis face hardships falling in love with girl, their parents wont allow the girls simply go with men, unless that man is the one who is right for them(girls) and that doenst mean they dont know love, well how come u say that(you meet this girl 2day and before the night is over here you're telling her that howmuch you love her...... now how on earth can you fall in love with someone that you'd only known for a couple of hours?) no somaliman will think that he will marry a girl he know her for a couple of hours or will never fall in love. they never get that kind of chances......they wait and know each other for couple of years and months.......u hear those couples married just know but they known each other for years.......or they engaged before years or months.....this wat happens in somalia..... ANYWAYS IDONT KNOW WAT SIDE OF SOMALI COMMUITY U R POINTING OUT.

i have a question here. According to somalis do their true love come after or before marriage? we have histories and cultures in somali. waxaan maqalnay nin naag la baxsaday oo yidhi wan guursanaya. does that mean he loved her or he`ll love her after marriage here i need the different ideas of different people live around the world western or eastern or europe.

walahi this was a good mo7adaro(lucture). jazaka lahu khayran yaa mama. loooooooool@ kazband. why no tips for how a wife would please her kazband(husband). mama plz tell to our sisters sitting her with us some good ways to please their kazbands.

sisters and bros....i dont know why u think this is very simple and u can just do it. someone said we r not talking about kids but we are talking about marriage, do u mean that when u marry u wont have kids?. you have to think about that. one who married could realize this, but we guys standing outside have no clue about this, well i really dont know about those guys live in western countries how they deal with it, but for us live in eastern region would face a problem if we marry while doing school.

well, if i share my opinion, i believe that its hard to mary during high school or university iam a student at university doing my final year. if i just assume marrying someone at this stage i believe i cant stand on that. one has to marrry when he/she is capable of all the needity that a family needs. one has to marry when he/she can be responsible of a family, not that u just grown up u have to marry, u need to have a house and u need to give time to ur partner...i dont think its easy work while doing school. when u r young i mean life prior to marriage is the time u should utilize in ur lifehood, and its not the time u should combine lot of different jobs and put in trouble to ur self, i believe marrying someone is trouble unless u carefully choose the right one and that needs to give time without doing anything else. and keep onething in ur mind....u r going to remain the rest of ur life with that person...but studies will be just a limited period, so plz first do complete ur studies succesfully than go for the next step that is marriage. my dear sisters and bros that is my opinion. and sorry hadii aan wax khalad ah ka sheegay dadkii iga horeeyay peace and luv

well in somali songs....mine the one which i feel the most is this one SHINBIRYAHOW DABAYLAHA ILAAHI KU UUMAA OROD KUUGU DAWGALAY WARQADAN DABOLANE DUSHA SAWIRKU KAGA YAL HAA HAAA HAAA DAWADII QALBI HAA DAD-DAG IIGA GAADHSI WAANADU MA DEEQDO DADNA WAY COLOOBEENDHE DUCA IYO QURAANBAY WADAADADI KU DAALEENDHE DUMARKALA INANKI QALBIGIISU DIIDYE DEEQAY U SOO DABAC DHE INANKA well iam not in that situation yet loool....but the song says alot....lol....nin jacayl ku dhacay ayaa fahmi kara

same here nafisa...mine is HUM TUMHARE SANAM by shahru khan,aish and mandhuri Dixit. nice one really,

sister need not to be confused men are not all the same kind those guys who never care love u mean to say if i talk about my self, iam not that type of man who just considers woman that she is nothing. after i read u article its clear for me that u mean to say that men never give a concentration to learn the lovetowards women. so i think insha allah u will see the rightman rather confusing the qaldaaan one.

loooooool nice question....but i would add something to the question i think its confusing to describe a somaliman.... well people we focus on one point if we point on that somaliman there r somalis live in somalia and there r those who live in america and others live arabs and europe....all they have the different and cultures so lets go through on one direction....if iam one if i ask a girl wat she thinks of somalimen, she`ll just tell her idea of those guys she saw around her.....and know that we guys live everywhere around the world.......

why dont u make it shidaye.com that will suit lol anyways...bother is hard to give a name unless we know wat that website will contain of. give us some hint of wat u wanna put their in the space. like do u want it to be like somalinet or somaliaonline or like anyother website.?

why dont u make it shidaye.com that will suit lol anyways...bother is hard to give a name unless we know wat that website will contain of. give us some hint of wat u wanna put their in the space. like do u want it to be like somalinet or somaliaonline or like anyother website.?

masha allah good to read all these........ i think we all knew these things how to please ur wife or how to please ur husband but i dont know why we somalis dont even give concentration on these good things we see all the somali families facing problem and divorcing each and every moment...if u ask every family there should happened a divorcement atleast once in their life. why the two maried couple hate each other if we know all these. it is true that every somali mature heard of these. i dont know those guys who were born at abroad and western countries but we guys born in somalia heard all of this.

well, women think she can keep him if she has his baby.......... in fact, we can find a woman thinks in that way, and she is right to think in that way. if there is a baby between the couples there will be a relationship between the couple. since this relationship exists a woman can keep a man when she has a baby for him. well magnoonah i think that is sufficient to answer ur question. beside that i have a question to ask.......how a man can keep a woman??????? it is good to know that too......we came to know why and how woman can keep a man.

magnoonah (while we at marryin outsiders. i have q for alot of somalis here.. why do we feel if one of ur daughter/son marry white is good thing. but when it comes to black person is bad?? even my own (uncles,aunts and reltives) have that bad habbit sayin naya what u doing with waxa madw...seriously is sad that we think white is good and black isn't..... ) looooooooool....good question why black one is always worser than the white one....according to the parents.... hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i think i have no idea i never tried with white gurl that my parents would appreciate her......looool...well i`ll screw up with coming up articles.......

hey...waryaa brother man......waa halkii tagane hold ur horsse...sxb ku odhan maayo anigu hold ur horse laakin waxaan ku odhan hold ur mouth. let me tell u one thing.......wat is wrong with jareer..... sxb iam not jareer...laakin waan ka xumaaday all ur discusions ....sxb remeber we r in 2003......we r not in the centuries of discriminations......sxb intaan kaba bir ah laguu galin iska fadhiiso......like u in somali ayaa dagaalka ka wada.....somalia would be in peace if like u one were not there........

damn loooool this is trueeeee i can imagine a woman can say that....... why ? the question is why woman are so negative......?????? i have seen many guys who blame the woman why she is negative.........this is a very good example.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ok i hope u all read somali. gabadh ayaa jirtay bari baryaha ka mid ah....... gabadhu waxay ku nooladay baadiyaha. gabadhaasi waleeeg nin may arag.......ofcourse u get me well...markaan leeyahay waligeed nin may arag..lool well before i complete the joke.....are u interested in it?????????? plz reply me if u want me to continue bye for now

waryaa kir iyo buus iyo yur baa lagu yidhi.......disgusting walahi.........ilahay ayaan u baryay inuuu inantiina mid from china guursado.....indhoyar eats dogs and pigs......sub7analah........hassan is muslim man....... waryaa i dont wanna hear these things from u again....hadii kale waxan kugu noqon Bush and his poodle...markaasan ciraaq kuu diri......looool Brother.......just making fun of u....no hard feelings........laakin we should respect our muslim brothers who r from africa......remember these words " stolen from africa brought to america fighting for surviva fighting for ariva".........Bob marley we all african must unite..must be one world and one family

we see the news everyday and wat is happening in iraq. Bush and his poodle(Blair) talk of freedom an dliberation. ans they have made a fetish of not targetting civilians. we can see the pictures on Arab television networks to see the diffeernce between the lie and the truth. But do these men sitting in washington and london really think that heavey bombardment and the trauma of war does not affect civilans? first target of the coalition forces has been electircity and water of the town. saddam hussein has not cut these off. these have been targeted and bombed by the coalition forsces to force the civilian population into surrender and they said" we will take away ur electericity and water , we will shock and awe you through the worst kind of bombing modern nations have ever seen, but if u come to us with white flags and cheers, we will give u aid, water,food. if u allow us to control u and run ur lives and decide on your govermnent, we ill conctrut ur cities and give u all the food u can eat" is the message of the propaganda uleashed by the invading forces on a sovereign nation . women are sufferin, the few shots on cnn and bbc of the ordinay civilians usually shos women in tears. schools are closed, childern are sitting at home, waiting to be hit every time the city shakes iwht the relentles bombardment. The toll that teh war is taking on the ailing and the eldely cannot even be imagined. Life in a beautiful country prould people has been brought to a standstill with bombs and missiles lighing up the skies and killing poeople. For wat? For liberation? by now it should be clear even to Bush and his poodle, dat the people of iraq do not want to be liberated. They were liberated hefore the ware began.They do not want americans and the british in their country. why Bush is forcing a nation who do not want wat he wants for them. are we in the yestercenturies to invade a peacefull nation in this way. why no freedom in this world. why Bush is powerfull? for the nation who r growing, to show his power and wat he got. The iraqis want the americans out and do not want them and are prepared to die for it> surely the visuals being captured by the embedded journalists should be enough to demonstrate to these two blind and deaf leaders that they r ot liberators but invaders, that freedom in iraq is freeom not from saddam but from the americans. the americans and their poodles think that saddam is using his cilians as shield, but he is not using them as shield, the civilians are a part of the iraqi rsistance and have no intention of leaving their soldirers alone to fight. if this is not apparent to the coalition, then they are again in for a major surprise when they try to enter baqdad. the iraqis told to each and every body that they dont want to leave iraq and they want to defend their regime, and they told how they r not prepared to leave iraq rather than allowing americans to control their freedom.. we all people live in this earth being blind and guided by the washington orders and its propaganda war. the proof is staring the coalition forces in the face. even though Bush and his poodle are still parroting the same words they were before the aggresion began. we have seen in the news that the relief camps opened in Jordan for fleeing iraqis are lying empty as not a single citizen has left his country. No one left before the war, no one has left during war, not a man , woman or child has crossed over to jordan or kuwait of iran in search of ameican dollars being dangled at the end of every tank and B-52 bomber. why all these happening. dont we see that Bush and his lil poodle want to drive us as they want can we call wat is happening in iraq a liberation. i belive iraq must be liberated from americans. there is a rule in the UN, no country can interfer the affairs of a nation, why americans interfering the affairs of iraqs.

well my point is that MAN WANTS NOTHING AT ALL WHEREAS WOMAN WANTS EVERYTHING i think no need to go around and look for the right answer. u can just figure out. man wants nothing from woman. to ladies. the lady who raised this question have never asked herself this question man is one who is complete in the human level. and woman is one who is incomplete . man can be independent whereas the woman cant. apparantly, women have the needity. we say that woman feed us ...have u ever raised the question who caused her to feed a kid. here is the answer: it is only him who made her to do feed. i think if there was no men the world would be meaningless.

SCORPION....... after i read many different ideas of u guys written there. It is clear for me that u think this culture is not good. well let me tell u onething, i have been in india for more than 3years. i have completed my degree over there. i know better the indian culture and their own traditions. well every country and every culture belongs to some nation have the bad and good sides. i think u all guys told about this traditions and no one has seen it pratically. Well when u r told these things u might see it as weird, anyways i do object to call this as a weird. walahi they have better culture than ours. basically we have no culture if we somalis. but the so-called culture that we have is nothing comparing to the indian and asian cultures. it is long way to explain what difference we have according to these cultures. but there is onething that can not be compared to these cultures. if i take one example. no somali woman respects her husband as an indian woman would do.

well iam not surprised with that. there r things worser than this in asia, by the way Al7amdulilah we have not such situation in somalia. i think no somali family prefer a baby boy. in somali family it is same for them watever Allah give them. so wat is happing in asia is caused by the popularity. A country of most population could face such problem. In india people die by accidents and the government never give any concentration on these things because they r happy with this. the more accidents happen the more people die it is good for them. coz the population reduces in this way.

hi every body iam new to this place i have just completed the registration... well......how u all guys doing.... just wanna say hi byeeee