CUTE....THANKZ FOR SHARING UR BELEAFS. THE CLOWN: DEAR BRO... IT WAS JUST A QUESTION TO KNOW WAT U REALLY FOCUSING...........U JUST GAVE US AN EXAMPLE....SO THAT EXAMPLE DIDNT GIVE THE WHOLE PICTURE I SUPPOSED TO UNDERSTAND FROM UR EXPRESSION..THATZ WHY I WAS CONFUSED ABOUT UR OPINION AND ASKED WHY U EXCLUDING UR SELF FROM OTHERS.......BRO ANYWAYS IAM REALLY VERY SAD ABOUT THAT....I LUV SOMALI WOMAN...AND I`LL LOVE THEM....BRO I THINK MAN IS THE ONE WHO MUST FALL IN LOVE AT ANY COST.....AND WOMAN SHOULD DRIVE THAT KIND OF MAN WHO FELL IN LOVE WITH HER.......SO I THINK WE ARE THE MEN WHO R NOT TAKING RESPONSIBLITY OF THEIR JOB......THERE IS NO WOMAN IN THIS WORLD WILL SHOW U HOW U WOULD LOVE HER.....IS THAT A KIND OF WOMAN OR COMMUNITY U R PREFERING WHEN U SAY NO LOVE IN SOMALI COMMUNITY?.......WHEN MAN TAKES A STEP THE NEXT STEP WOMAN TAKES.....BUT IT IS NEVER BEEN POSSIBLE THAT WOMAN SHOULD TAKE A STEP BEFORE MEN DOES. SO DEAR BRO..WE SHOULDNT BLAME THE SOMALIMALE/FEMALE, ITS ONLY MALE WHO HAS TO BE BLAMED. SO BROS LETS SHOW OUR WOMAN SOME LOVE THAN WE`LL ACHEIVE OUR GOALS.

well thanks bros and sisters now i have two different opinions in this article runaway virgin i understood ur reply... u said love is calaf......that is one point. THE CLOWN...do u really believe that wat u say? do u mean u r one of those who have dont believe in love...when u r telling me that there is no love in somali community arent u one of them, the way u talking seem to be like u r not one of them.? or u r excluding ur self from those who dont believe in love......i believe that somalis face hardships falling in love with girl, their parents wont allow the girls simply go with men, unless that man is the one who is right for them(girls) and that doenst mean they dont know love, well how come u say that(you meet this girl 2day and before the night is over here you're telling her that howmuch you love her...... now how on earth can you fall in love with someone that you'd only known for a couple of hours?) no somaliman will think that he will marry a girl he know her for a couple of hours or will never fall in love. they never get that kind of chances......they wait and know each other for couple of years and months.......u hear those couples married just know but they known each other for years.......or they engaged before years or months.....this wat happens in somalia..... ANYWAYS IDONT KNOW WAT SIDE OF SOMALI COMMUITY U R POINTING OUT.

i have a question here. According to somalis do their true love come after or before marriage? we have histories and cultures in somali. waxaan maqalnay nin naag la baxsaday oo yidhi wan guursanaya. does that mean he loved her or he`ll love her after marriage here i need the different ideas of different people live around the world western or eastern or europe.

walahi this was a good mo7adaro(lucture). jazaka lahu khayran yaa mama. loooooooool@ kazband. why no tips for how a wife would please her kazband(husband). mama plz tell to our sisters sitting her with us some good ways to please their kazbands.

sisters and bros....i dont know why u think this is very simple and u can just do it. someone said we r not talking about kids but we are talking about marriage, do u mean that when u marry u wont have kids?. you have to think about that. one who married could realize this, but we guys standing outside have no clue about this, well i really dont know about those guys live in western countries how they deal with it, but for us live in eastern region would face a problem if we marry while doing school.

well, if i share my opinion, i believe that its hard to mary during high school or university iam a student at university doing my final year. if i just assume marrying someone at this stage i believe i cant stand on that. one has to marrry when he/she is capable of all the needity that a family needs. one has to marry when he/she can be responsible of a family, not that u just grown up u have to marry, u need to have a house and u need to give time to ur partner...i dont think its easy work while doing school. when u r young i mean life prior to marriage is the time u should utilize in ur lifehood, and its not the time u should combine lot of different jobs and put in trouble to ur self, i believe marrying someone is trouble unless u carefully choose the right one and that needs to give time without doing anything else. and keep onething in ur mind....u r going to remain the rest of ur life with that person...but studies will be just a limited period, so plz first do complete ur studies succesfully than go for the next step that is marriage. my dear sisters and bros that is my opinion. and sorry hadii aan wax khalad ah ka sheegay dadkii iga horeeyay peace and luv

well in somali songs....mine the one which i feel the most is this one SHINBIRYAHOW DABAYLAHA ILAAHI KU UUMAA OROD KUUGU DAWGALAY WARQADAN DABOLANE DUSHA SAWIRKU KAGA YAL HAA HAAA HAAA DAWADII QALBI HAA DAD-DAG IIGA GAADHSI WAANADU MA DEEQDO DADNA WAY COLOOBEENDHE DUCA IYO QURAANBAY WADAADADI KU DAALEENDHE DUMARKALA INANKI QALBIGIISU DIIDYE DEEQAY U SOO DABAC DHE INANKA well iam not in that situation yet loool....but the song says alot....lol....nin jacayl ku dhacay ayaa fahmi kara

same here nafisa...mine is HUM TUMHARE SANAM by shahru khan,aish and mandhuri Dixit. nice one really,

sister need not to be confused men are not all the same kind those guys who never care love u mean to say if i talk about my self, iam not that type of man who just considers woman that she is nothing. after i read u article its clear for me that u mean to say that men never give a concentration to learn the lovetowards women. so i think insha allah u will see the rightman rather confusing the qaldaaan one.

loooooool nice question....but i would add something to the question i think its confusing to describe a somaliman.... well people we focus on one point if we point on that somaliman there r somalis live in somalia and there r those who live in america and others live arabs and europe....all they have the different and cultures so lets go through on one direction....if iam one if i ask a girl wat she thinks of somalimen, she`ll just tell her idea of those guys she saw around her.....and know that we guys live everywhere around the world.......

why dont u make it shidaye.com that will suit lol anyways...bother is hard to give a name unless we know wat that website will contain of. give us some hint of wat u wanna put their in the space. like do u want it to be like somalinet or somaliaonline or like anyother website.?

why dont u make it shidaye.com that will suit lol anyways...bother is hard to give a name unless we know wat that website will contain of. give us some hint of wat u wanna put their in the space. like do u want it to be like somalinet or somaliaonline or like anyother website.?

masha allah good to read all these........ i think we all knew these things how to please ur wife or how to please ur husband but i dont know why we somalis dont even give concentration on these good things we see all the somali families facing problem and divorcing each and every moment...if u ask every family there should happened a divorcement atleast once in their life. why the two maried couple hate each other if we know all these. it is true that every somali mature heard of these. i dont know those guys who were born at abroad and western countries but we guys born in somalia heard all of this.

well, women think she can keep him if she has his baby.......... in fact, we can find a woman thinks in that way, and she is right to think in that way. if there is a baby between the couples there will be a relationship between the couple. since this relationship exists a woman can keep a man when she has a baby for him. well magnoonah i think that is sufficient to answer ur question. beside that i have a question to ask.......how a man can keep a woman??????? it is good to know that too......we came to know why and how woman can keep a man.

magnoonah (while we at marryin outsiders. i have q for alot of somalis here.. why do we feel if one of ur daughter/son marry white is good thing. but when it comes to black person is bad?? even my own (uncles,aunts and reltives) have that bad habbit sayin naya what u doing with waxa madw...seriously is sad that we think white is good and black isn't..... ) looooooooool....good question why black one is always worser than the white one....according to the parents.... hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm i think i have no idea i never tried with white gurl that my parents would appreciate her......looool...well i`ll screw up with coming up articles.......