Sacdiya

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    Like almost everyone in here point out, nowadays nursing field is compatible because there are needs for nursing staff and the demand is high. Why more Somali women? because we like challenges and we know that job opportunities for nurses are increasing and that is why everyone is going for it. Or it could be women nature; you have to be a caring, and compassionate to be a nurse and we as women fit that category. Why are more Somali men going for computer science major? That could be their nature too or among other reasons.

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    ^^^^oK Sawirida Fiiri Naysiin ahaa indhiha idin tiray. He did post one about Somali Women web page

     

    Che- Sawirada indha ma na tirin ok and we are not blind. It should’ve been posted where everyone can easily see it. Thanks for pointing out though.

  10. Posted

    I saw Dr. Mohamed Ibrahim for about 2yrs ago in this one Somali event. He is one fine looking bro, too bad though he is married with children.

    damn.. ain't mad at you.

    I know all the good ppl are taking.

  11. Posted

    David_letterman, It is nice to see these educated and successful brothers,

    but what’s with the title only dedicated to Somali Men?

    What about Somali Women, I am sure u can find a lot of successful Somali women,

    come on, include the sisters in the list.

  12. Posted

    Devilangle, lol....., Araweelo didn't use to eat little kids.I think you are mistaken with Dhag Dheer. Seriously u need to learn about your folktales. Aren't you Somali? If Iam not mistaken Araweelo was very smart woman that is all I know about her, strange, atleast Iam better than some folks around herem, not that I want to point fingers. I think Araweelo is very significant to all women.I should do more research about Araweelo. Thanks for pointing that out.

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    sorry i posted two times

     

    Devilangle, I would say they should all get along regardless of how they're related. If you are Somali it is normal to marry your first cousins, we all know that. Though I wouldn't approve of that, to me that is unormal.

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    Xalimopatra that is really a good point, you mentioned something that a lot of us don’t think about. However, it is kind of sad that Ms. Heblayo is torturing Mr. Hebel who is ready to commit and wants to settle down. I should say if Heblayo is not ready for marriage why waste Hebel’s valuable time, it’s easy, let him go so that he can hunt for others who are willing to settle down. I have seen a lot of Heblayo’s doing the same thing I don’t know how they can make everything so assuring and make plans for the future when they don't have the slightest interest to marry mr. Hebel. Ladies please do not waste Mr. Hebel’s time and yours if you know Mr. Hebel is not right for you.

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    Xalimopatra,that is really a good point, you mention something that a lot of us don’t think about. However, it is kind of sad that Ms. Heblayo is torturing Mr. Hebel who is ready to commit and settle down. I should say if Heblayo is not ready for marriage why waste Hebel’s valuable time, it’s easy, let him go so that he can hunt for others who are willing to settle down. I have seen a lot of Heblayo’s doing the same thing I don’t know how they make everything so assuring and make plans for the future when they do not have the slightest interest to marry mr. Hebel. Ladies please do not waste Mr. Hebel’s time and yours if you know Mr. Hebel is not right for you.

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    I know I'm late to reply this topic, but I just find out this website recently.It is interesting and I had to respond to in this topic.

     

    This is really a good topic and it is often overlook in our society, as most of you know the divorce rate is increasing in our community particularly in North America. We need to have an open dialogue and discuss this issue. At the end of the day we might not come up solution to what the problem is, but at least our discussion may become an eye opener to many who are not aware of such problem exists in our society. Marriage problem and divorce are common everywhere in the world and their causes are deeply rooted on both partners. As the saying goes (it takes two to tango), Therefore, it is wrong to say one individual is responsible for the main problem and blame one partner for the action of the other. If I speak from my own experience I have seen families who are in the midst of this problem and they both equally involve of their ongoing argument. I have seen irresponsible and inconsiderate, men and women who have children together are raising them in such condition. What kind of parenting is that? Imagine the kind of upbringing those children would have and the unpleasant environment they would grow up. Parents are role models for their children and children do follow their parent’s footstep, it is the parent’s responsibility to set good examples for their children. It is unfortunate if decent person ends up marrying to irresponsible and careless individual. It is not right to put the blame on one gender solely, we all know that there are good people out there but their marriage suffers because they both are responsible for their misery, and because of that one partner may decide to not longer put up with the marriage and as a result seek divorce to be the real solution.

    Personally if I were in similar situation I would not jump to the conclusion and seek divorce right away I would try to find other alternative solution and work it out to settle our differences. There is a saying in Somali (Hadaan la kala ronaan roob ma da’o), it is more likely that our marriage will survive if we have patient, and be responsible for our own action and do the right thing. There are also times when both partner cannot settle their differences and the best way to solve the issue is to get out of that unhappy marriage. At the same time it is better for the divorced couple to be friends especially if they have children together. This is just suggestion and I do understand there are others who will disagree with me and that is perfectly okay with me, everyone are entitle to their opinion.

     

    Asalamu ailakum, my fellow brothers and sisters.

  20. Posted

    JB- first of all, it doesn’t really matter if this topic has been discussed over 10yrs ago or just few minutes ago. I have the choice whether I respond to the topic of the discussion or not. Second of all, who the hell are you to judge me( “ I demand an active mindâ€). How dare you insulted my intellectual referring to me as “lazy mindâ€. And yeah (FYI) I don’t repeat what others say, I simply stated the fact as well as speak on my point of view on this topic. Finally, your invitation is not appreciated, next time you want to respond someone use your common sense (think before you say something).

  21. Posted

    In reply to: Polygamy topic

     

    If I speak for myself I would not personally let my future husband marry to another woman while he is still marry to me. I know it is permitted for a man to marry up to four wives, but there are lot’s of responsibilities and conditions that applies to such marriage. There are conditions such as: treating each woman equally when it comes to caring, loving, and supporting which needs to be fair and equal. I would not suggest anyone to get marry to more than one wife and anyone who is considering that should think about because it is not necessary. In my opinion it is tough to live in such circumstance it is not easy as it sound.