STOIC

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  1. Heh.What result? Are you threatening me on how fast you can type on a forum...lol
  2. Sad incident..this things usually ignite spate of xenophobic incidents.Hope the police monitors and protect the innocent Somalis caught in the middle....
  3. Apophis likes to toot his own horn and thinks taking a position opposed to that of the majority will make him look like a person that thinks for himself. Let me stop before I exploit the youthful inexperience of our friend.Good to see him though take a step and read things slowly this time lol
  4. Abtigis, watch this clip of Prof. Bulhan how is started his first grade class in JigJiga when he was a young orphan kid...I thought this was a fascinating story of Somalis and tolka encouragement of each other going to School... http://somalilandpress.com/video-university-of-hargeisa-chancellor-interviewed-11012
  5. ^^It is hard to tell whether your son will turn out to be a neurosurgeon or trash-hauler, but all you can do is just keep praying and give them the best support. Your kids just need to understand that nothing is fun until they are good at it. They need to understand from parents that to get good at anything they have to work hard .This often requires fortitude on the part of the parent too and keep up with their progress. I’m guessing with a stable family and a little prayer they will be fine
  6. He did have the drive and seems all he wanted was the best for his kids.In my case my father did attend the British schooling system in Meru Kenya back during the colonial period until his father pulled him out of teachers training college to run the family business.His English was perfect and always was elected the Chairman of Parent and Teachers Association board.He was the voice of the few parents that couldn't read or write in that vast bureaucratic institution that shifts only slowly to the demands of the parents.He was not a man of many regrets, but he was deeply disappointed in a few of my older brothers who refusal to work hard in school.He always told them that there comes a time when I'll be gone and the uneducated ones will be fighting over the few family assets (commercial buildings) while the educated ones will be finding a place in this world...He inspired few of my extended cousins also to attend Nairobi University! He saw education as the key to many things.He always said money is easy to make, but hard to maintain;today you have, but tomorrow it may be gone. A very close family member brought his kids to the state back in the late 80's and today if you spend few minutes with him the first thing he will tell you is how he raised a bunch school drop-outs good-for-nothing kids that up to today depend on him.They refused to take advantage of all the West could offer.I never understood why he kept talking about them if they are grown people.My naive thinking was why doesn't he just shut his mind off of them.Since I got a son of my own I came to realize that the father's bond is a strong one.Even though they disapoint him they are still his kids and all he could do is just vent to the next person who will lend him an ear..Walle Nimaat dasshaay kumaadaalin (sp?)
  7. He seems like he was the sparked that ignited the love of learning in you...good job to the old man.
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    Why

    Knowing Nin-yaban I doubt he is calling us Swahili speaking Qashin unless he wants me to do a Brazilian jiu-jitsu his behind...haha.. .He is referring to the people you are talking about..
  9. Wake up for Fajr prayer this morning with a congestion and fatigue...the damn cold is coming
  10. STOIC

    Why

    Che, its been close to a decade since we started posting here..definately most of us have aged.No more are we interested how any young person feels for someone at work or the crash they had on their neighbours.. usually most of our interest in such topics disappeared as we become older..the young ones can still have fan and the floor is open for all their indulgence..everything has its time. Seeker...thanks...Naongoja yako sasa.
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    Why

    Original Poster (OP)...Sikujuwa wapenda halwa....Halwa ya harusi yangu iliisha.Nilizunguga dunia kupata jiko alicho juwa kuitengeleza lakini bahati mbaya jiko langu ni mlendo kutoka North hajui kuitengeneza Halwa basi utakula huu kwa sasa...hahha
  12. STOIC

    Why

    ^ ^blame it on Somali centric..My apologies to the OP
  13. STOIC

    Why

    ^Penye wengi pana mengi..utaona mengi hapa....
  14. STOIC

    Why

    ^^^^Mwenye macho haambiwi tazama.....
  15. STOIC

    Why

    As sure as the sun rises in the east and as sure as there will always be scripts here in SOL, trolls will always be able to come up with nonesense topics to kill their boredom.........
  16. Xiin and abtigis all the above you guys are saying looks and seems good, but the reality is different.You are still praying for the day the young people of Somaliland will staunchly yearn for a unified Somalia; so you can stand to benefit the spillover effect generated, but I'm afraid all you will be getting now seems like nothing short of something that creatively add to the project in progress.Not even economic development and power distribution will entice Somalilanders.Sadly, while it is true that the recent election have surfaced the deep clan poltics, but I doubt you will get to see a newborn fervent advocates for union with Somalia. In the absence of strong legal and political institution in Somaliland you will see more election problems to surface. It is upto Somaliland people to identify the set of conditions that create the policy space for their country to handle these most pressing problems that afflict their country.Just don't take any solace with Fowzia defection.The defectors from Somaliland always present glaring inconsistencies in their route to power.Don't be fooled
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    What to do?

    Just when I thought everything about us was making sense.Why is my secret co-worker lover spilling my love secrets here..Just yesterday you were telling me how you and I are becoming a WE..I didn't know that I have been so happy as when I'm with you in the same work building.You know the sound of your voice talking to gaalo makes me melt..I can't take this anymore... PS This sort of story used to be posted by Scripts like Alpha..I'm just saying and not accusing you!
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    Me, myself I

    I'm for the argument good people can go bad online..haha..Few people reveal some consistency in their behaviours when they are alone compared to when with a company.There are things I can say here (of course without offending anyone and being skilled at my selective presentations) I'll dare not say in front of my wife.It is hard to do self-monitoring when you know you are talking to a bunch of strangers behind a screen.Any perceptions I read of anyone here clearly is not part of their real persona unless you are super good tissue and always in good behavior.Each of us is capable of exhibiting our real persona online, but then like Ngonge said it will kill the joy.Now knowing that anything you say in the internet can always be viewed by unintended audience you have to be careful when you are treading the uncharted waters.
  19. ^ Xaaji, Computerka ayaa anti-social kaadiigaay! wuuXuu noqthay cuunsuuri waaji maacbuus ahhh..lol .Warya chill and let the other people feel comfortable around you..Life is too short to be on guard all the time.Always have the other persons highest good in your mind especially Somalis
  20. Abtigis, Haha..I have a problem with the Somali spelling...Xaaji just need to chill and lower his guards..Funny story..Once I met a nice young Somali cabby and we started talking.After hearing my Somali accent the first question he asked me was if I belong to former President Riyalle qabiil.I didn't take offence at the question and today he is a close friend.I even personally mailed him an invitation card to my wedding and he did showed up.He fitted right in the crowd. He was from Sheikh Sharif clan..Until today we are good friends. He ask me for help in medical, dental and legal issues..Haha..even though sometimes I have no expertise in many of the areas..Something about Somalis and according respect to people that went to school...Good guy.
  21. ^Xaaji didn't realize that while he was strutting that Ipad the Somali guy was also loosing hope in conversing with someone with kibiir...it's not like the dude was asking for money.What was that Mooge famous song? Taatkaa haiska weyneen comes to mind
  22. Having read Xaaji posts here I'd never have thought he is anti-social type. Most Somalis remain unworried about striking a conversation with a stranger! I personally have absolutely no problem meeting or striking up a conversation with a Somali person on the street.Matter fact I have met few nice people like that..I always meet taxi drivers or bump Somalis in restaurants. I usually don't initiate Conversations, but if they do I'm always comfortable with them. I always try to be receptive to their stories even when I know they buulshiting..hahha
  23. Of course I'm not that stuuupid..haha..this was all for fun...
  24. Abtigis, We are talking about the same person of course I'm not going to accept or deny the pendulum story then I'll be way out of the line...She has a beautiful family.Her family were, if not, the few Somalis that lived in that city.She speaks perfect Amhari....If you want it I'll pass her the news next time I visit her..My family and her family visit each other... Juxa...I doubt I escaped this one..all he has to do is apologize to his cousin..haha
  25. ^ The name, the city, the poor Somali and the University gave away your story!