YOU ARE SO AWESOME HIBO...thanx a lot. This helps a lot... Ladies...keep postin' 'em recipes cuzz I gotta learn ya'll. Not to cook for casho or zeynab or what have you...but for me damn it...lol...one luv

FOR EVERYONE....IF YOU HAD ONE WISH...WHAT WOULD IT BE AND WHY..... JUST ONE, NOT 2 OR 3. SOMETHING YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO DO OR HAVE OR GO, OR ANYTHING. ALSO, WHY THIS TYPE OF WISH? KEEPING IT BRIEF, MEANS YOU REALLY WANT THIS TO BE SO?

LadyFatima, you crack me up too girl...LMAO! I ain't married yet and to be honest, I dont think I'm ready for it either. On my other post "NAMIN" MY GIRL," I meant just a girl you know. She aint my daughter but she's a nice girl that I'm currently seein you know. I don't have any kids that I know of but hopefully one day when I'm old and see white hair grownin on my skull, I might get settle down and get marry. Now...NOOOOO WAY JOOOSE...lol... On the other hand, "buying a Somali girl a "thong" or a "V-Sting" aint nothin' wrong wit it. That's kinda tight and you can get FREAKY wit it...but I wouldnt do something like that for someone that I hardly know na mean. But romantically, it's nice. And why would it be so "disrespectful"... I like your idea though LadyFatima...but you gotta hook me up wit some of your recipes...that would be nice...cuzz I can cook as long as there's a recipe or some sort of direction to follow...

JABER...you crack me up man...LMAO!!! SOMALI WOMEN...DO YA'LL AGREE WIT JABER...?.. CURIOUS...I got her a nice bracelet and I we went out on a picnic. It was nice and we had fun... But these ideas and creative lists were fabulous and ya'll are creative comin' up wit things like that. It helps and I might refer to 'em every now and then... ...

LadyFatime...farah...?...i think that's a guy's name, aint it...?... Libaax...you crack me up cuzin'...lol..

I am tryin' to name my baby girl and like give her a cute azz name na' mean... But I need ya'll help. Be creative and be thoughtful. Think of somethin' unique and special that people would agree on na' mean... This is due before the end of this month so good luck . Uh this gonna be the bomb!!!

Success seems to be largely a matter of hangin' on after others have let go... Hey just go all the way and never quit. Two more years wont you hurt you gettin' a diploma. Baby girl, dont quit, besides, you went thru years already, why stop, you know. Good luck and holla at me sometimes so we can study 2gether...you know...like a study partner. one luv

LadyFatima, I gotta hang wit you girl so you can teach me some Somali... Sorry for my ignorance but whatchu mean by "Caws jilaal waa lagama huraan!!" My response is that it is true that you can relate to someone who is a Somali than those that aren't.

I don't know about this, but I would definitely go out wit my sister's best girl-friend. I would even marry her if she got it goin' on...lol Personally, I think if two people are feelin' each other and there is that chemistry between 'em, then they should be together and like go out no matter what. Give it a try and see what happens though. It's alwayz interestin' to explore new THANGS. One luv yo

ya'll I heard this a while ago. There was this Somali man and he recently moved-in to his first apartment. After he lived there for a little while, cockroaches started to show up and this guy has no clue on what to call these cockroaches in English. Panic and worried...he doesn't know what to do... So he decides to call his landlord man and he tells him "MAN, THIS IS CRAZY" the landlords says "WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?" "WHAT IS THE PROBLEM?" Then the Somali man says "YOU GOTTA COME OVER HERE SIR" "I HAVE SMALL ANIMALS RUNNING ALL OVER MY HOUSE" Quickly, the landlord goes to the Somali man's house to see what the problem was. The landlord show's up at the Somali man's house and sees many cockroaches and then yells, "JESUS CRIS" And then the Somali man replies "YES SIR, I HAVE TOO MANY JESUS IN MY HOUSE!!!"

Go for it JABER. Absolutely man!!! I agree with Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar and everyone else, though I wouldn't speak to 'em in Somali that Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar wrote It's a good sign to see people wantin' to go the Mosque and willin' to learn somethin' about Islam. Check this verse that says Allah will be pleased wit 'em. {9:100} And (as for) the foremost, the first of the Muhajirs and the Ansars, and those who followed them in goodness, Allah is well pleased with them and they are well pleased with Him, and He has prepared for them gardens beneath which rivers flow, to abide in them for ever; that is the mighty achievement.

Libaax-Sankataabte, Nice theory yo. Though bein' too nice or too honest can blow off a relationship, that only applies to 'soft' *bleeps* Ladies, I admit, I'm kind of a geek by day...But a sex machine by night! Just kiddin'...lol As long as the 'nice' guy can HIT it good and do his thang, I think the relationship would survive and last longer...

Would someone plz translate..lol ------------------ Of all the things you wear, your expression is the most important.

By the way, let me get your # and we can talk this over...lol... Most people like to watch the NBA playoffs, cuz it only happens once a year/every 4 years, but I'd rather talk to you cause the chance of meeting someone like you only happens once in a lifetime . ------------------ "Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday"

ResultOfInterracial Aroos, Appreciate your comment, but don't get me wrong here. When I say 'Whateva,' I don't mean disrespectin' women of other races, and like I said earlier, I don't think there is a problem wit datin' outside the race. Of course there are millions of pretty non-Somalis sistas out there and I am aware of that. Plz, just cuzz the word 'whateva' sounds cornier to you, doesnt mean I disrespect women of other nationalities. What I meant was '...in the meantime, I'll just date whoever I like no matter what race she is or claims...' Hope that clarifies something...?

How do you feel when you see a Somalian man with a White woman? Do you feel as though that brother should be with a Somalian woman? Let`s be real honest.

Ladies, whatchu ya'll think of guys that are datin' other races like white girls, A-Americans, Asians, etc? And guys can also respond to this: Whatchu ya'll think of our Somalian sistas datin' other races and so forth...? Personally, I don't think there's a problem with datin' other races, but I am sure that I will marry a Somalian woman Insha-Allah went the time is right. But in the meantime you know...lol...I do whateva...lol... But honestly, I wanna know if there is anything wrong with it...Is it a good idea datin' outside the race...and how would your parents feel about it (cuzz you know, you might fall in love with that significant other and decide to marry)...which is a good thing cuzz you know like they say 'love conquers all'... You may also say something positive or negative about datin' outside the race. It's all about expressin', you hear. ------------------ "Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday"

Now let's see what other ppl have to say...keep 'em comin' ya'll. I am likin' these ideas . ------------------ "Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday"

Hey thanks DEEQO, I thought so too girl. Barliin, good lookin' out too but I usually wear something nicer than that .

Well, I am not a scholar but I can at least respond to this topic. Lady Fatima, I don't know what to tell ya but you don't have to follow any group or register with anyone. If you know what the purpose of life on earth is, then you're on the right path. Allah created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Him alone {51:56} In a nutshell, the verse above explains the purpose of life, to worship Allah. I hear many negative things about these groups mentioned in this topic, but I hope they unite and become one single group that obeys Allah. I am guessin' the ones that are doin' deeds of righteousness are the ones that are on the right path. And I pray that Allah guide all of us in the right path and make us people of righteousness. Thanks ------------------ "Eat and drink with happiness because that's what you used to do" {52:19}

Oh yeah one more point! If a guy breaks a virginity from a girl (i hope), then he'll have to go the girl's family, confess what he has done, and then HE CAN MARRY THAT GIRL. Yes! Only he has to do is confess and apologies to the girl's family AND ask for forgiveness from 'em and the Lord. Hope that clarified somethings. ------------------ "Anytime you see someone more successful than you, they are doing something you aren't" Malcolm X

Sup ya'll. What I want to know is what do Somali girlz want from a guy? This can be anything ya'll want or dreamed of ever since you began to mature or felt anything ... But what I really want to know is what sort of gifts do you guys like. For instance, when you're goin' out for a date with a guy, what kinda of gifts or things do you prefer he'd bring it for you...like flowers, your favorite cd, a lingerie, I mean the list continues... And if ya'll think flowers are cool thing on a date, what kinda of flowers do ya'll prefer. I met this really nice girl and I was wonderin' what to get/bring for her besides myself. I thought of a flower, but you know, I wanna hear what ya'll think. Even guys can respond to this...guys help out and don't say stupid s***...you know ------------------ "Anytime you see someone more successful than you, they are doing something you aren't" Malcolm X

JABER, You're one funny guy I tell ya!!! It's a sad thing when one looked-up to someone and at the end finds pointless and ridiculous... Many actors/actresses/musicians/performers that we watch on tv or else where are nothin' but fake ya'll. So the moral of this response is: don't let your eyes perceive you...cuzz after all the senses are powerful thing, you hear. 'Til next time... ------------------ Learn by other's mistakes, because you won't live long enough to make them all yourself.

People is true...YOU CANNOT MARRY SOMEONE THAT YOU ALREADY SLEPT WIT. take it from ppl, i had to kiss so many of my fiance's goodbye in these past years, and i tell ya, it ain't that simple and easy to let go someone you loved and intended to marry and spend your whole life wit . Yeah, it's a sad thing, but i wish i would of known . But now ya'll know and hope ya'll control 'em hormones. 'Til next time.... ------------------ Learn by other's mistakes, because you won't live long enough to make them all yourself.

This is probably the WOMEN section...is it? Where am I again...? Anywayz Somalianqueen, if you're cute and really like a queen, forget about him boo and I'll ask you out. Shoooot, I'll even propose to you and get down on my knees cuzz I ain't affraid to just do that and commit to you, you hear. But if you don't wanna be wit me ....lol, then honestly, I'd advice you to communicate with that guy you're talkin' about and express how you feel about him. Once you do that, nigga be crawlin' towards you like a dog... ...even flash for him if you have to...just kiddin' ..lol...but relationship is 50/50 and forget about how you were raised and all this other bull crap, but just be yourself and you'll win him girl. I can't believe I am talkin'... Now, I am not sayin' throw your identity and your culture and your dignity away, but hold on to those...hope I am makin' a sense. 'Til next time... ------------------ Learn by other's mistakes, because you won't live long enough to make them all yourself.