PlayMaker...i dont know what to say to you man!..lol.. Still, Ohio State can be the champs...and win it all the way!

NGONGE...lol...dont feel that way...it's probably not true in a sense of the article...we probably have our own way...but then again, we just need to figure out what those parameters are...

Try a female doc. Studies show women do a better job of encouraging patients to talk, and their visits are 10 percent longer on average... Specially for our older folks...they need them female docs that better cater for their needs...by listening...whatchu think?

4 Biggest Mistakes Doctors Make (With Women) Check out the article above...it might benefit you or your loved ones... BTW...everyone should subscribe to WebMD...you can learn so much from this website... See ya!

Valenteenah...great answer...anigu kuma jiro dheh...lol...great response! very nice poem indeed, two balls!

Kool_Kat, Very funny...looooooooool....this is long, long time ago...hence the past tense wordings i've used...lol Aaliyah darling...naago kale kuma riyoodo walaaleey..lol...laakiinee...i am good man...a good decent man...besides...i was sharing a little bit of my past...when i was a growing up...double wink!

LOOOL!...what can i say?!...lol...but to be fair...she was a bit paranoid. i was a good man...lol...still am!...just too honest...during my naps!lol

Kool_Kat, I almost tried to ignore that...but then i thought it was kinda annoying...it's like one of those sort of things that you'd ask yourself, is it worth the comment?...lol... Aside from that, this whole forum proposal, i thought, would bring some perspectives for our younger brothers...but then again, the older ones are the ones that really need the understanding and the awareness...! It's very sad walaahi...to see these young kids not concentrating on their school and doing drugs while the older ones are just sitting around Starbucks clowning each other, wasting their time...instead of reaching out...and making a difference!

Originally posted by Nephthys: ...not only do I talk in my sleep, anoo soo jeedo aan sheekeestaa.. saacadaan in la i jar jaro ma ka bixi kari, allaheeey ka allla.. . LMAO!...i had a similar problem while back...when i would argue with my girl about some girls she would hear about (she said sort of stuff)...and i would try to play it off...but then right when i take a nap...i would talk about them and even say some of their names...oh boy, right!?...crazy days man...so to solve the problem...i dont take naps anymore...around her!..lol

Originally posted by nuune: ^^^^ Lacagtaa u daran sxb, marka waxey is leeyihiin waa jaanis ka faaiideesta, hala yaabin, Soomaali Maryooleey waaye. Very true indeed!....lol

Canjeex...you must a be youngster bro...sit back and enjoy the show...stop harassing these educated sistas...no offense but get a grip bro...if it aint for you...then it aint for you, get it?

Thought this was kinda interesting...check out the link below to read the full article if you have some time...maybe some of you might relate to it.... The Affair You Don't Know You're Having!

that's no problem...sxb...enjoy! no comments!

we're talking about getting the forum set-up first if possible, get it?

funny but realistic issues...looool... plus the sisters can benefit from it as well...and educate their little brothers/kids about such topics... i am just trying to reach out for those that need the resource/awareness. thanks guys!

and who's this man that you guys want to embrass?

If it's going to be that way...then who would want something like that?... My intentions were more along with health issues and strengthening relationships...how to be a gentlemen...and in that sort of ideas...having some perspectives that are meaningful...a good lifestyle in a sense! Nothing close to gossips and nonsense talks...(thought gossiping was a woman's trait...no offense)...do men gossip? dang!

Bro, If you share your issues and your experiences like you do with your buddies...you can be making differences if you do that here...specially with our younger brothers....it's another way of reaching out your community...

I was reading the Men's Health magazine the other day about some good tips on health and relationships...and I was wondering...how can I forward this message to my brothers so they can be aware of it as well?...specially about the health issues....and first thing I thought about was SOL...but then there is no such place appropriate to post this other than 'General' section....

Hi, it's me again! I don't know if someone already requested this, but we should have a place for men's forum. We can address some of the issues relating to men's health, tips on relationship, and how we can better ourselves, help our communities and families. There is no point of having a forum to discuss nonsense topics or ideas...this will be for serious discussions as it will relate to men’s issues....where we can learn from one each others’ experiences. Thanks again. Your Brother, Abdinuur

Hi, Can two people who were married then got divorced date again? Is this normal? What do you call that? Would you consider the girl to be a girlfriend and vice versa? Is it awkward or could it happen? I have no idea man...that's why I want to know your opinions...thanks...and dont think I am the one in this sort of situation here...cuz we tend to generalize...lol I don't know if someone already posted this before but if that already happened, my apologies....

That's true BOB...life gets busy after one graduates from college...and tends to lose contact with old folks...like it happened to me...lol.. But Saabir, good to see that you're around still...SOL is definitely still alive and running! You're an still an old school...2001?...not too bad...makes me feel young..lol Take care bro's!

Hey guys, What's up...I am just tryna to reconnect with my old folks/friends from SOL... Just give me a shout if you're still around...it's been a long time since then (2002?)...but holla, ok? I see a lot of new smart, talented pple here...so just shoot me a note or post here... Peace! Abdinuur aka Kaafi

I don't know if someone already posted this but I hate it whenever I hear "waxaa la yiri"...it just annoys the shit out of me.... Majority of Somali folks use this term "Waxaa La Yiri" without knowing or having the knowledge of what they're trying to say or explain. People just find out stuff and research your own thinking instead of relying on someone else's opinion or thoughts. Waxaa la yiri this, that....doesnt do for me and whenever I confront people about this bad habit...they'd look into themselves and just realize how dump they can be... Plus this whole notion of 'waxaa la yiri' created corruption cuz that, too, can be interepreted into gossips and can create a fight! I am out! Peace

CC, Just give the guy a chance...he can be a huge difference in your life if you can be a little open-minded. Besides, we're all humans and we should give one another a second look...so if you're comfortable around him, then I am sure your "three muskateers" would just fine...after all, they're somewhat like you, right? So I would even watch their back so they wont steal Mr. Ugly from ya!...Cheers