CAPTIVATING_SOUL, I like your new nickname and it definitely suits you bettah. Plus I can pronounce it. MIZZ-UNIQUE, very cute...about the 'shirt' concept. Opinionated, I agree. Sometimes changing names or what not...brings confussion to the table. I mean...I changed my name...but few ppl know about it...I havent changed my avitor or avator...the dancing naked baby... Sometimes...it's easier to say...OH WELL...F-it...lol

Raxmah, Excellent article..thank you kindly! Nur...that happens to me as well. Actually, it is only in salaat when I start remembering things that I should've done or forgotten...this is so weird...you sort of priorities things in your head as you pray, but again, it shows how important salaat is.. Have you guys experienced this: yawning when you're in salaat... ...this happens to me most of the times...I dont usually yawn other times...even if I'm sleepy. It only happens whenever I do salaat...again, it shows how important salaat is.

For those of us that pray salaat (and if you dont, you should definitely start now!), how do you keep yourself focus when you're doing the actual salaat? Sometimes I do stay focus, but most of the time I see myself wondering around in my head and thinking about unnecessary things. Things that I want to do for the week, pple I should call, exams, money...etc... Please share with us how you stay away from thinking about these things while in salaat and pray a salaat that you feel good about. Thanks. P.S. Seriously, start salaat if you arent doing it now cuzz this is the only thing that we can do in the least...without salaat man...I dont know...Allah knows best!

NUR, Brother....this is well-written. May Allah bless us all with knowledge and wisdom...and guide all the Musliims. I really enjoyed reading your article. It certainly put things in perspectives. Thanks bro!

NAYAA: WHAT A POWERFUL WORD!!! It's soo powerful...that it can knock a jigga out!!! Guys...let's think & use our heads before we use that word...cuzz Kool_Kat aint playin!!

You're something you know! I dont chew QAAD (cuzz i aint no cow)...but it's interesting to read what others (married couples...i hope) have to say about this. Personally, i think it has some side effects cuzz you aint suppose to jew QAAD...i mean if you want to eat something...guys...com'on...there is LETTUCE wit various dressings...but anyways...i dont think its good for your teeth...that's why cows have brown/blackish teeth cuzz they eat natural plants. But if we start acting like cows...we end up like cows (metaphor)... It aint like you are whatchu eat...it's more like...you are whatchu... ....to be continued.

EXACTLY!....lol It's about imaginations and things in that nature. Dont u think so?

DOQON, NAAGA SHANEEYE AND SO FORTH WHATCHU MEAN?... :confused: DOQON?...like a dump azz? KOOL_KAT...wont you swing my way...

Very Intriguing Topic!

LOL @ LAKKAD.... kacabso soo maahan?... :eek:

There's no such thing as a gene for cheating. That doesnt even make sense. But I do believe that women have the gene that attracts men, and thus...that's how men cheat cuzz were unstopable from these women expressing the "gene". Get it? Phermones!...even animals have it...i was watching a snake looking for a chick-snake and he finds her through sniffin her footsteps (do snakes have footsteps)...but thru her tracks u know... Anyway...there's someting, whether it be a phermone or something else, that attracts the opposite sex to each other... :eek: What am I saying!...you guys already know about this...omg..lol.

Silent_Guy What's up man?...yeah...i am still alive man. Few pple know i've changed my name...lol...but you know most pple usually see that dancing-baby...and they'd assume or associate it wit Abdinuur...it aint like i am wanted by the FBI but u know...the ADMINs added that feature to SOL... But I've noticed a lot of old-school nomads that retired or retiring...lol: Ya'll remember Motorcycle Cruiser...what's up wit that kat?

CONQUEST! Get out of here...man are you for real? Do you still have her or did u ate it? Man I'm tellin u...camels are delicious...not that I had its meat in decades...(still, I wouldnt eat it...cuzz personally, i think it's a bit scary to eat and jew a camel's meat...lol)...dont you think so?

Opinionated, i agree wit u on your 1st pt. it's true, it's a learned behavior. ...and in your 2nd opinion, it goes both ways. i believe its unethical & unmoral to cheat (except on exams...lol)...but seriously it's dambi, and...i mean who r u tryin' to fool?!...please, let's be realistic.

...you have ever recieved? :eek:

i hate school...but i aint got choice really! i also despise pple that lie all the time! i dont like Bushy Bushy (u.s. president)...(he's evil) ...to be continued!

CUTIE, girl i'll give u some beatin' if that makes u feel better...lol..no i'm just kiddin! (i dont believe in beatin kids even if u cant discipline them)...tho i got azz whopped few times...lol Illmatic, I feel ya on that! 'Em ****** bills give me high blood pressure!

...about not being a kid anymore?

NAFISA, Interestin'...

Illustrated very beautifully!

Just wanted to remind us all about this nice dream that we ought to reflect on before it's too late! Thanks.

SHAKA ZULU, Interesting hypothesis man! You're right...cuzz nowadays women are into bad boyz and thugs. Whenever I ask my female friends why women go after thugs and big dudes (Hasta La Vista type of dudes)...most of their responses are for protection... ...I am like...are ya'll in threat...is someone threatening ya'll?...I dont get it! There is no war so where's the concept of protection coming from?...It aint like the old-days where the most of the people were barbaric & chaos. In conclusion, women need to go after and seek intelligent guys who can pass their "intelligent" genes to his kids and to your kids...as one of my professors puts it. LOL @ ProudSista...beware of the ZULU clan...they might put you in a headlock.

A blonde was having a drink at her local pub one day when a group of men starting picking on her about her hair color. After a while, she starts to get really angry at them as they are making jokes about how dumb all blondes are. Eventually she has enough and she turns to them and yells "I am sick of you pigs always thinking that blondes are dumb, so I am going to prove you wrong. Pick any country in the world and I will tell you what it's capital is!" The guys confer and after a short time they say "Pakistan". The blonde thinks hard for about 5 seconds and then with a big grin on her face announces "P!".

IF YOU NEED A REALISTIC ANSWER AND A REALISTIC ADVICE, RE-READ QA'QA's ANSWER FEW MORE TIMES! PERSONALLY MAN, I WOULDN'T CARE LESS CUZZ I KEEP IT REAL AND I GET TO THE POINT! I LIKE HANGIN' OUT WIT PEOPLE WHO ARE REAL AND DONT HIDE AROUND THE BUSH TO TRY TO MAKE SENSE. JUST STRAIGHT UP SAY WHATCHU GOTTA SAY AND IF SHE DOESNT LIKE IT, BOOO HOOO NA MEAN. Take her out whenever convenient for you and LET her tell you some of your weaknesses and strengths...AFTER THAT YOU can say what's on your mind...by telling her some of her strengths and what u like about her... AND THEN about her weaknesses and what she can do to change them/whatchu dont like about her/what needs to be changed...etc. Take it slowly and YOU GOTTA BE REALISTIC AS POSSIBLE... Hope it works out for ya'll!

THIS IS SOOO FUNNY!...LOL....BUT NO IT'S A SERIOUS BUSINESS. I think the main problem facing some people is the lack of communications. I mean...admit it, dont you hear rumors and make assumptions about people based on those rummors you hear. That's the mentallity some Somali ppl have. Let's face it. If we're being honest to ourselves, I think there wouldnt be any misfortunes. Besides, there's a lot of pressure on marriage nowadays. It's not an easy thing you can do you know. It takes a village to create a marriage (if that sounds okay to you). Why some women marry or seek marriage latein their life?...maybe they have a lot of responsibilities like taking care of families back home (somalia), finishing up school (college I hope), or some other silly or not so silly reasons. Quotes from another topic: -Wiil faan-badan iyo gabar fadhi-weynba guur xumaa u dambeyso -Silac ku noolow sodon-guursi baa dhaanta -waynaanto lamaguursado, waadi lama harsado, warna lamasiico.