Jenna lol@ will the mothers. i dont discuss love with my parents. The only thing that i hear is u need to get married , sharaftaada wa in aad alaalisa. wa salaam

"And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put Love and mercy between your (hearts) verily in that are signs for those who reflect." - ArRum 30:21 Love exists no doubt. wa salaamu alaikum

Devil naah sis bt from what i observed over the years. wa salaam

weddings would be the last place i will look for a man. just let u know sisters those guy who attend weddings happenz to be distriputing their numbers that nigh to tons of other women, dey aint anything bt players. So just keep yr eyes open, dont go oh i have go a specific place to meet a good brother, if u c a good brother at work, university , there aint nothing wrong with it. and i think it would be a lota better getting to know some1 whom u share a lot in common that way. wa salaam

NICE STUFF GUYS.. wa salaam

Being only 19 yrs old am not even married let alone being a mother. But, i am sure it is fun when one becomes a mother, i am certainly looking forward. my cousin just had her 1st child, masha-allah walahi whenever i c her with her daughter, i feel as if i am missing something . It is a blessing to be a mother, something we all should look forward to, and do it only when we are truly prepared for that huge responsibility that comes with parenting. I am not talking abt a simple thing as daiper changing, as Hizb pointed out parenting is more than that. it is guiding that child for the 1st 20 years of his/her life, and making sure u raise him/her as good muslims. wa salaamu alaikum

lol@ maalin arbaco ah oo sabti suu galaysaa dhalate. wa salaam

Cambaro couldnt have said it better! alah ya3izak Wa salaaam p.s I have a secrete admirer…how cute!!

Seeker keep in mind that ladies are objects from western perspective. Where they sell every add with a half naked woman. So those who follow their religion need not to bother with it, alhmadu lilaah we are confident,beautifull, and have dignity in ourselves and don’t need to put ourselves out there just to boost our self esteem. You would see none-believers and many believers with a low Iman going through anorexia so they can feel better about themselves. I know some of my friends they are obsessed with what they eat, oh this have too much calories. I would say enjoy yrselves eat whateva as long as you are healthy, weight should never be an issue, of course you don’t need to be overweighed, and you would never be if u balance yr diet, without being so obsessed with every little thing you eat. Alle ubaahne lol@ inay iskadayaan internetka oo nin wacan radiyaan.Qofwalba wuxu guursanaya markuu alle calfo. Many of us are waiting to complete our university studied before we settle. Personally speaking after I get my undergrad. Degree, I would like to get in graduate school insha-allah. I don’t c myself getting married now, or any time soon, perhaps in six years. Lots of time to look for Mr. Right aint it. Latar u all. wa salaam.

Cambaro masha-allah those look great.But, we usually have to do with what we can find. Masha--allah perhapz ibti can choose one of those you showed above. wa salaam

ibti initially congratulations sita macmac. can i know what u graduated from? high school? college? university? etc. and second whateva that u graduated from, i hope that u get to next level and compelete it as successful. as for the dress perhaps a dress like the da last dress Devilangle posted would do and if u take it a shawl. red iz my color luv it..and any bright color would...would neva advice u to wear black or brown drezz ....bt den depends on yr style. Dress beautifully , just dont go too far with it. lol i been to a wedding last saturday and man some of da girls there walahi u would just think dey were dere to hunt for aman, bt den again dey might be , puting themselvez out there (like oh look at what i got lol). May allah show us all the right path!! wa salaamu alaikum

Asalaamu Alaikum, Jenna sis I would by no means advice you to get married to him because he is wealthy. Since wealth can fade away, what if tomorrow for whatever reason he loses his wealth? Then what happens you get yr divorce? :confused: You don’t need to base your whole future on wealth that should be something to overlook. There are more important aspects in life than money, as Allah subhanuhu wa tacaala will bless us with his prosperity. You pointed out walaal that you are not interested in this brother and that you are not the least attracted to him. So, what you can do is simply tell him that you are not interested in him, and u dont c this relationship developing further than it is. As you know it is better to be straightforward, as you are not doing any favor for him by misguiding him and pretending you care. The other thing I would like to reconsider if I was you is are you truly sure you are not interested, because it seems to me you are looking for a religious brother and as this brother said he wants to change to a better Muslim. Perhaps, you need to give him more time, and within time you will be fond of him. All that been said I would never advice my own Somali sister to marry outside her race. Think about your children, they will be lost between two cultures. Somalis have hard time teaching Somali kids their culture; imagine when your child is half Somali. Besides that your child will go through identity crises (imagine being half white, wouldn’t you wish to belong to one race. Being half/half isn’t fun). So find yourself a Somali brother one that is educated and can support himself and his family. Wealth should be the last thing to look in a spouse. Personally speaking my priorities are religion, educattion, personality, and culture. Good luck sister, if allah wills you will find your calaf!! wa salaamu alaikum

Awkuku, Somalian comedian, featuring Michael Jackson, I found it hilarious and i thought hey why not share it with da rest of u. click on da following link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMmMCwJpUmI Enjoy it!!

nice pic shirwac , datz dijibouti?,,, wa salam

lol@ do u look like her. no i dont look like her at all. bt dat doesnt mean i aint pretty

cambaro sis from what i heard doctors get paid at least 200 000 CD( canadian dollars) in canada, now dat a lota money. wa salaam

Rose Dr ibrahim is Unfortuantly married with four children lolz this is what was on an article i was readign about em : He was also attracted to the Twin Cities because of the large Somali population, which he said is good for his wife and four children. He says: "(My children) will be able to maintain their American cultural identity while being exposed to Somali values, culture and language," he said. Now aint all educated outa of reach :mad: Wa salaaam

Any guy who is into his tribes, will probably go through a messed up marriage life. count on dat... wa salaam

masha-allah it is great 2 see somali men making a difference. I believe those of u who are here could learn a thing or two from these successful men. i juz luvv when i c an educated brother,there aint many around here --allow garab gal kuwii dadaalay, kuwa kalena sido kale ku gaadhsi hamigooda.!! Wa salaam

me that is a nice idea walahi.But, u need a real government before ppl can trust themselves with u. i know somalia is safe in most cases, bt most ppl would refrain from going dere since they have this propoganda that the 1st thing that would happen to u as u get dere iz get shot. I still dont understand whatz up with da president of ours abdulaahi yusuf, what kinda of president iz he? wa salaamu

Yo guys since ye all online, why dont u cum to somaliaonline chat room. That chat room iz always empty, why dont u guys cum dere and have a discussion instead of posting all day....wa salaaam

dont worry sis somalia at large is at peace. u shouldnt worry for yr personal safety. i dont know abt dat hawd, bt everyone dat goes back home comez back all safe. ofcourse allah yaclam what would happen to us, wixi alle qadaray way dhacaan sax. so enjoy yr vacation. wa salaam

ME LOOL@ waxba iskam qaad. walaal somali oo dhan aa waxba iska qaadin, 16 sano aa xuruub ahliya lagu jiray, maxay iska qadeen? waxba dabcan. wa salaam

BRO thankz fo da map, insha-allah i have to get know my way around somalia b4 i head there. as my knowledge iz pretty limited. Wanaagsan where iz dat twon at?? and lemme know if its a nice plac 2 go for a vaC. WA SALAAM

loooool Devilangle..