Aaliyyah

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  1. Jamiila walahi i agree with u lol u cant imagine how many times i have encountered with such thing....waxaaba iqabata maka ag kacdaaa.. wa salaam
  2. Nur most somali guys are group 1 of men they like the idea, bt they can not take the responsibility that comes with it .Thank God!! Wa salaaam
  3. I wanna watch it , where do i get it ?? i know there is this somali store at Lawrence and Weston, do they have it ? this somali movie doesnt sound half bad. wa salaam
  4. I would call this disrespect, at least he could have throw each of the dem her own wedding. This guy iz cheap, he might as well stick with one xaliimo. wa salaam
  5. I dont know how u guys do it, alhmadu lilaah i pray and everything. bt i cant get myself to listen to quran ..whenever i am listening to it i get bored easily. i hope u guys can give me tips. wa slaaam
  6. Khalaf like yr sister is gonna ask you who she is gonna marry, she will follow whateve her mind an heart tells her u stay outa of it. You act like u r her father jeez. Give her sum space. Wa Salaam
  7. I dont mind to go and watch the movie, bt where can i get it? somali stores or what. wa salaam
  8. oo my god i feel sorry for this two. I doubt they are ok with it , they sort of look like lost in their thoughts. The least they could have done is smile wa salaaam
  9. I believe that for the most part parents are supportive, alhmadu lilaah mine are always there for me telling me that I need to get married even though I am only 19 .As I mentioned earlier we live in a society where awful things occur at all times, marriage is of course a religious duty and is therefore a moral safeguard. With no doubt brothers are often given hard time in our culture, the daughter’s parents expect a whole lot; they want him to have his bachelors, Masters if possible. Or if he isn’t educated at least making a good income, so he could be able to support his family. It is not that they don’t want their daughter to get married; they just want to be certain that their daughter will be well taken care of. They are trying their best walaal it is simply lack of knowledge in their part. The prophet scw said that if a parent is happy with the character and the diin of the man then they should get their daughter married; otherwise the Ummah will be corrupted. In that sense, I think conferences are very vital and essential in making parents aware that they should not draw the line, as long as the couple are religious it is perfect match. What is better than having two true Muslims get married and increase the Muslim Ummah? Wa salaam
  10. yeh parents do actually help their children get married. Most parents i know are always telling their children to get married. ofcourse at times they go finish university first and marriage comes second. Bt in most cases yes? why do you say otherwise?
  11. Young? Exactly who do you regard as to be young? From our religion’s perspective as soon as some one reaches puberty they are to be encouraged to get married. Of course it wouldn’t work like that in our society, since someone is not considered adult til the age of 18. So I would say it is great if more people are into getting married because they are fulfilling half of their diin. It also could be due to the fact that we are getting raised in a western society. Where you would see things that are intimidating all the time, you would see a guy and girl kissing in every street you walk, if you try to watch a show or a movie there is dirty scene that is coming up once in a while So certainly if some one is weak enough to be influenced by the society it is it is a whole lot better getting married. Allah knows best. Wa salaam p.s. As for the parents it could be the fact that they just wanna get their daughter married cuz their neighbor’s daughter got married ( speaking of experience u should c my parents at all times dee xalima next door way guursatay what u waiting for lol)
  12. Me thanks hun for posting the lyrics, i luv dat song. wa salaam
  13. How can u even bleach yr skin if u are into yr culture an race...those who bleach themselves have long lost their identity ...ma kolay bleaching ku cadeenaya ---on the long run it might even affect yr skin and health so why bother lol. Besides, you are changing how god created you? are u saying it is better to be whiter? . You all should be proud of how allah created you, whether he gave you a dark skin or light Big deal. All that matters is that you are healthy alhmadu lilaah. Wa salaaam
  14. Nur masha-allah what a great article. Ilaahay janada fardowsa hana wada geliyo. Jazaakalaahu khyr. wa salaam p.s. For those of who cant read somali, I would say it is about time u put sum effort in learning it.
  15. Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar lol are u talking abt yrself, maskiin didnt u have the nerve to approach her, after all she was in da same building
  16. Jenna sis if you are giving up your happiness for your children's welfare den go for it. Perhaps, it will work, and perhaps not. I am not so sure how u can stay with a man you are in luv with.But, ppl are different i suppose some dont care abt luv as much as others. and like I said one of my priorities are that the guy that I am getting married to is educated, and of course once he is educated he will make enough money like 60k a year, I think that is more den enough. and it is not like you will get children right away, I have every intention to work myself. So, Jenna just think through it before you decide to marry that brother. ANU KOLAY WAAN KU SO DUCEEN . WA SALAAM
  17. My favourite somali singers: Hassan adan Cumar shuule (ladabaalo cashaqa) Deeqa ahmed- Boqol King khalid Shego band AAR wa slaaamu alaikum
  18. Hayan sis i considere volunteering at the RIS. insha-allah you know how u fill the form online, i did that i am waiting for their reply. But, even if i dont get a volunteer position. I am not going to miss it. wa salaamu alaikum p.s. perhaps i will meet som of u guys there lol, bt hey how am i gonna do who i met, u all need to post yr picz lol ..
  19. as you wrote : The Egyptians have a saying " Idaa tazawajtal qirda li maaluh, yaruuxul maal, wa yabqal qird calaa xaaluh" true that walahi, at the end of the day the money is gonna fade away , so what ye gonna do den ? divorce him/her? we do need to get real and get married based on character and diin, cuz dat certainly lasts. Well said brother Nur couldnt have said it better. Xalane ina/adeer xaaal qaado, waxaan is laha lacag u daba ordaya ileen lookskeeda ku cajabiyey lol, gabadh kasto ka so hor baxda ma ku dhaha " Honey do u look like Fahima ? " lol someone need to hook u up with her , i do know sum of her cousins i shall c what i can do lol. Wa salaamu alaikum
  20. Hiba there is nothing wrong with changing your style sis. just shows that you wanna a new look. Keep it up, till u come across one that u wanna keep. wa salaaam p.s. guys is suit are sexyyyyyyyy!, i usually c guys with their jeans falling down, i am tire of seeing dat ...time for a change!!!
  21. "And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put Love and mercy between your (hearts) verily in that are signs for those who reflect." - ArRum 30:21 this ayah shows that god created for us mates and put love between us, this shows that luv does exist. So dont u think u are contradicting allah's words when u point luv as western ideology. wa salaam
  22. asalaamu alaikum, This is a great video.Reminds me back in high school when i use to wear my hijab the tug of war sort of way. But hey growed outa of it. I am sure when a sister is ready to practice her relegion fully she will. So khalid it is good that you advice your sister masha-allah.Keep up the good work! wa salaamu alaikum
  23. haaa jacel waan u guursan laha, guul jacel ku saleesneen guur uma arko. wa salaam
  24. There are islamic seminars given by AlMaghrib institute. Insha-allah many of you will take the time to take advantage of it. the following are the seminars that are going to take place soon insha-allah (both in the states and canada). Seminars in the U.S. "The Code of Scholars: Usool al-Fiqh" - course fee $165 US New Brunswick, NJ, November 17-19 & 24-26, 2006 (taught by: Shaykh Yaser Birjas ) "Fiqh ad-Da'wah: Guiding to Allah by the Book" - course fee $165 US Houston, TX, January 12-14 & 19-21, 2007 (taught by: Shaykh Muhammad Alshareef ) Seminars in Canada "Rizq Management: Fiqh of Worship IV - Zakah, Siyam, Hajj" - course fee $165 CA Windsor, ON, November 17-19 & 24-26, 2006 (taught by: Shaykh Muhammad Alshareef ) "The Purification Act: Fiqh of Worship " - course fee $165 CA Toronto, ON, November 17-19 & 24-26, 2006 (taught by: Shaykh Abdulbary Yahya ) Go to the following Link for more info : http://www.almaghrib.org/seminars.php Wa salaamu alaikum.
  25. Jenna you said sis "How can it not be a major problem when the guy owns properties worth five million?". Subhanalaah so you are into him because of money?. sister if you marry him for money, your marriage will not last? count on that. You either care about him or dont? and if u dont den let him move on. wa salaaaaaaaam