I wonder what would be the point of posting your pic???? what would it serve?,,xaliimo just incase u are looking for some one's pic just ask him to email u or better yet meet him lol .. wa salaam

But mind you, I’m striving hard to fall under the category of the “religious brother”, but not as it is defined above. so how would u define "relegious brother" in yr own terms just curious

masjidka khalid binu walid waxan subinay wax galadu tiraahdo house cleaning , maaragtay xoga vuris masjidka ku jirta ayaanu ka saarnay somalidu waxay tidhdhahda hada mar dilasid madaxa laga dila ..madaxdii ayaanu marki hore ka takhalusnay marki hore ...... waxaan taa ku xijinay saad sheegtayba sheikh abu bakar baan ku xijinay insha-allahu tacaala rag kalena way iska jiraan magacyadooda ma sheegayo si sharaf ah aya mesha lo joogi doona ..iligii liiqliiqda mesha wa in laga saara ..waxa inta racinana arinta kale oo ma ragtay in cabdilahi yusuf maxay aheed ani doorondoono safirka u joga wadanka kanada..walahi artinta in shaki ku jiro ani uma arko maxa yeelay dhinaca dawlad iyo barlamaankaba aad ba la iga yaqaan nin waxaan ahay dhinaca community somaliga u dagalamay aan ahay .,alhamdu lilaahi rabi alcalamiin dawlad somalia in ay idoortaan dan ba ugu jirta in ay i doortaan.... arinta kale policekana , saad sheegtay sxbaday way badanyihiin run ahaanti ,ninki aan isku dayo in aan xidho cid i hor istaagi karta malaha oo wa kasaa..ragi maaragtay aan masaajidka ka sarnay ha isku dayina in aad so noqotaad ha isku dayina policeka alabaabka masjidka no taagan 24.7...wa bilaahi tawfiiq ilaahay khyr hanisiiyo... lol couldnt stop laughing

nice stuff u guys masha-allah ...free competition eh ?? ....those hijaab look masha-allah ... WA SALAAM

Cambaro lol this is what I think look for mr perfect til a certain age, if you still cant find den take whoever is available ..none of us wanna end up like that lol ... wa salaam

cambaro lol sis i love malawax tooo ...just had sum for breakfast ..anyone wants sum, got plenty to share wa salaam p.s. how does hilib geel taste like? :confused:

lol@ only eight ,,war heedhe ma ana eight ah..balo Tone dont worry hun, Ameen is my brother..... I am still waiting a poetry from you, one that reveals how deep your love for me is ...bt u are taking too long ...time is ticking wa salaam

Ameen I am just not yet too sure if I would come, there is few things that I had in mind. But who knows I might attend depends if I am not too busy. Khalaf lool what are you talking about hun? Ameen wa walaalakay and we are just here discussing different things. whats with u and shukaansi.Kan kale heedhe ya af hayeenkeyga ka dhigtay kulaha women are weak and soft hearted..shaqo la'aan ba ku heysa ma istidhi ? wa salaam

lol @ seeking the time ..excuses. Anyways, to think about it it was you, wasnt yr friend lol.kidding. As for almaghrib classes?? are u talking about "Seerah: The Shepherd's Path" taught by: Shaykh Muhammad Alshareef ..the one thats starting on March.....I dont think I will make it , bt yeh lota ppl I know are attending insha-allah. puja ...this was just some small local muslim store that i was talking abt , for the most part they serve halaal food . wasalaamualaikum

puja lol sis one of my 16 yrs old bro was actually working for muslim grocery store and he was like how they just put the halaal signs on it just for the heck of it . So yeh u neva know, at least if we have the intentions of eating halaal food den that is what counts. wa salaam p.s. Ameen lol there is actually TiM Hortons close to my house and somalis tend to gather there so wheneva i go there i always get lota guys glaring @ me (mind u i dont go there often--somalis an staring come hand in hand) ....now i know why ,, who knows yr friend could have been one of dem lols

looool Ameen u wanna meet yr girl @ Tim hortons, that would be the last place i wanna meet some1. By the way whats wrong with making plans while mama is watching, my mom pushes me actually naa orad ka ma aragta hebla dhashay wa yar wanagsan bal kasoo war doon lol. wa salaamu alaikum p.s. whats wrong with drinking coffee,....specially in exam timez, Icant help bt drink coffee. Anyways, whats wrong with a sister that drinks coffee?

Tone lol @ how lame ...they are just joking take it easy. Lazie lol why am I cleaning , couldnt u come up W/ something betta wa salaaam

Dabshid lol somali been kuma maahmaahdo aya la yidhi , laakinse saan horay kusoo sheegay ma wacna in qofna qof khiyameeyo oo intasoo qof oo kale dhinac wado (inkasto badana dadku sa sameeyaan siiba wiilasha from my point of view kolay). Laakinse waxaan idhi qof waad la shekeesan karta , oo hadii shekadu soconweydo dabcan qofkalaas wax la bilaabi, oo things dont always work out. wa salaam

Ameen it is hard yes, but harder for us (sisters) to find that right person who is worthy enough to spend our life with , I think i might be subjective bt decent sisters outnumber respectable bros (most of them I must admit are street kids, who have no future plans whether it is education wise or marriage) . Don't get me wrong there are good guys out there I guess just not enough lol. But, all that being said if u put yr heart to it I am sure u would find the one worthy of yr luv Best of luck. Dev lol I am just teasing u sis, bt remember u need a man not some one spoiled by his mom , I would rather get married to some one who lives on his own and knows how to take responsiblity...not that where he lives matters as long as I am crazy abt em lol. wa salaaam

cynical lol she wants mama's boi, and her mom-in-law is gonna be deciding everything fo dem.Dev is gonna try to tell em 2 do something or what not , and the guy is gonna be like naa mama said we shouldnt do that lol...pooor Dev. wa salaam

Originially posted by Ameen: I probably have a better chance of winning the lottery lol. Than again, its not our deeds that will cause us to eneter junnah but rather, the mercy of Allah (may He have mercy upon us, Ameen) Ameen are u implying it is hard to find a decent sister nowadays :rolleyes: ...

Jacaylbaro not all somali girls r fat or overweighted, lota of us are nomal, and den there is those who tend to starve themselves seeking to meet the media's expectation. You will find all sort of girls, pick & choose. wa salaaam

asalaamu alaikum, Jacaylbaro walaal masha-allah wax yaala badan oo muhim ah ayaad kor kaga so hadashay. insha-allah Dhamaanteen waan ka fiirsan inta aan wax falan, kolayba qofwalba calafkisa ayuu helaya, oo waxa dhici karta ado ka fiirsaday in ahadana waxaad rabtid saad rabtay u dhicin. Lakinse wa runta ad ayey muhim u tahay qofwalba in uu inta uu qofka guur ama serious arintu noqon in uu qofku ka fiirsado oo iska hubsado qofka sababto ah qofka hadad rabtid nolosha in aad la qeebsatid wa in aad ogaada wuxu yahayba si walba diin akhlaaq dhaqa dabeecad iwm. insha-allah qof walba calafkisa ayuu helaya, ilahay calaf wacan haka dhigo aamin. wa salaamu alaikum p.s. ma wacna qofna in uu dad badan isku mar la socdo oo midba dhinac sheko kala wado. Laakin qof hadad la shekesatid, things dont work out, dabcan qofkalaad is baranasaan taasna dhib ma ku jirto..that is life, things dont always turn out how u want dem 2 be.

Areas of Romance Write. Just a small piece of paper with “I love you” on it can be used in so many ways. From notes in their lunches, to sitting on the dashboard of the car, to hidden in their wallet, purse or briefcase, to laying on their pillow, to being on their dinner plate, to taped to their watch, stuck to the handle of the refrigerator to just anywhere. Other simply phrases that are nice to use include: “I’m lovesick for you”, “I’m feeling hot for you”, “You make me amorous” and “Just thinking of you.” Whatever you decided to write, from simple notes to poetry to full-blown love letters, letting your partner know they are in your thoughts is one of the nicest things you can do for them. Talk. Tell your partner that you love them. Tell them often. Tell them something they do that you like. Tell them that you are enchanted by them, fascinated by them, enamored of them, overwhelmed by them, captivated by them. Tell them how much you want them in your life. This can be while watching TV with them, while driving someplace, while helping them with chores around the house, during a call to them through the day. There is rarely a bad time to tell your partner that you care for them. Listen. There are several ways this is important. It is important to listen to the things your partner is telling you about their day, their wants and their dreams. Being someone they can share with and let steam off to makes you a close friend as well as being a partner. Don’t let this opportunity escape. It’s also important to listen to music together. Music lets us “escape” the pressures of life and for a moment feel relaxed and rejuvenated. Sharing this with your partner allows you to be part of their escape too, and lets you share an experience that will build the strength of your relationship. Teasing & Horseplay. Fun is an important and serious matter in a relationship. Take the time to play with your partner. Whether this is an actual board game, a sport game, a videogame, a computer game that you share or something else such as watching a movie together, spending “downtime” together is a must. When funny things happen, enjoy the moment and remember to remind your partner about the incident at a later time with a “tease”. This leads to the two of you having “inside jokes” to share with one another, and helps strengthen your relationship. The thing to remember is to make sure you do not “over-tease” your partner. It may be that they are sensitive to being teased about something. (And they may not realize it until it happens.) If your partner doesn’t like being teased about something…STOP! And it’s a good idea to ask your partner every once in a while if they are okay with the teasing. You’re trying to improve your relationship here, not set up resentments. The same thing applies to tickling. Some people like it…some don’t. If your partner doesn’t, respect that and don’t tickle!!!! Another bit of horseplay that can be fun for you and your partner is a pillow fight. Now be gentle about it…but enjoy it. It’s amazing how much fun it can…no matter your age. Courtesy. This is very important. Romance also deals with courtesy and chivalry. Being courteous shows that you respect your partner. Remember to be polite with your partner. Remember to say “Thank you” and “Please”. Show them that you appreciate the gift of their company in your life. Another area where this can play a part is doors. Open the door (of the car or to a building) and hold it open for your partner. This may seem like really nothing big or important, but it is a subtle way of saying, “Let me do something for you.” That goes a long way in developing a loving relationship. Also offer to carry things for your partner. While they may or may not accept the offer, having the offer made to them will please them greatly. Again because it is showing that you are thinking of them. Compliment. This does not mean idle platitudes. They should be honest sincere thoughts you give your partner about themselves and their actions. Each day try to find something to compliment your partner on. It doesn’t have to be anything major, just something from “You smell nice” to “Your have beautiful eyes” to “The love note you left me made me feel good”. Just take the time to let them know that you appreciate them and what they do. Tone I dont know what a relationship is without romance :rolleyes:

Jacaylbaro lol that is hilarious. I couldnt stop laughing walahi .. wa salaam

English is international language where somali isn't lol ...there is a huge difference hun. wa salaam

Ameen I like to let my man take the lead, dont wanna hurt his pride u know lol. By the way Aisha lol I wouldnt count on fartuun's words ...last time she was talking abt how she kisses her bf front of somalis and how she doesnt giva dam :rolleyes: ...the next min she is married , this girl needs to stop making up topics just so she can entertain us. wa salaam p.s. you can have the meher in a mosque , bt the wedding I think a hotel would do

Asalaamu alaikum, Fartun I dont know abt ur friend (perhaps she is in a city where there aint that many somalis).But I personally know tons of somali guys who are doing masters masha-allah. So lemme know if she is looking ..I might hook her up with educated brother , I have been told that I am a good matchmaker, so u can count on me lol. wa salaam p.s. sometimes love is blind I also know educated women who are married to brothers who are not as educated, that should tell us sometimes education can be overlooked.

Ameen lol war maxaad isku diri ..YOU suppose to tell me to go for em not the other way around .Tone u are on brother.So what is next ... wa salaam p.s. tone lol@ tells his mom son is abt 2 be marreid, hun lets not rush , u suppose to sweep me off my feet first..lord how lil u somali men know of Romance

Cambaro I couldnt have said it better sis, we certainly shouldnt judge others based on looks, education. But most of us ( including myself) rather live in fantacy for the time being , imagining we would get the best of everything . when only allah knows what kinda person we gonna end up with. wa salaam