I always skip breakfast bt not cuz I wanna lose weight or anything. I am just not in the mood to eat early in the morning . But, after reading this guess I gota think again ... wa salaam

Rooble you do have a point and totally understand when a single mom works and is forced in order to support her family. But, they are not always forced to work I see lota moms just work , even though their husbands work, complaining that life is expensive so they must meet the day's end. However, how does one feel knowing his/her infant is being raised by gaalo?? I dont know bt I personally rather raise my child on my own.I am not saying we (women) shouldnt work. I just think one should refrain from working the 1st four years of their child's life, 1st four years or so are very crucial. I know lota ppl would be like okey I attend university for good 5 yrs or what not ? and it would be wasted just sitting home (which is how they interpret taking care of their kids lol ..sitting home..) bt I would claim that it is not waste of time you become educated alhmadu lilaah you can help your kids with shcool and what not, u know the importance of education, you will inspire your kids. God forbid if u get divorced then you do have yr degree and u can attain a good paying job . Ye all might not agree with me, bt this is just personal perspective. wa salaamu alaikum

loool this is hilarious kulaha how did you know.......kan jealous ma aha wuxu u bahanyahay dhakhtar Cambaro u are right sis lol he certainly didnt attend bio courses. wa salaam

You're getting more pathetic by the day. Facts are facts and BS is BS. And as much as you wish, you can't simply close your eyes and wish away facts. The ICU brought peace to Xamar where your beloved TFG can barely survive there let alone assert it's control. I agree with the fact that Icu did brough some establishment and peace for the brief period hamar was under their control. However, let is not overlook the fact that they did not want to nogotiate , bt wanted to dismiss the TFG all together, and see where that got them?. Anyhow, there would be no point into really discussing ICU since they have lost their power, I would say support the TFG, and lets move on , for it is been good 16 yrs of civil war. It is only prudent to part our ways given the fact that we can't agree to live together in peace. Atleast we might learn to become good neighbors. are u implying Somaliland to seperate and become it is own nation. Well hun that will never come to exist. Somaliland has not been recognized for the past 16 yrs.What makes u think it will be any different in the future? :confused: wa salaam

Cambarro sis , the solution would be support the transitional government. It doesnt matter if foreign troops are back home or not. it is been 16 years of civil war, as you already mentioned in your other post ppl back home are suffering and they are not able to support their families and meet their basic needs. wa salaam

Thanks to the collaborators, the foreign troops are in our country right now for occupation, raping our women, killing innocent civilians, torturing and executing our wadaads, iwm. The only means that can kick those foreign troops and their collaborators out of Somalia is force. How do you suppose we do that. Given that they are supported by the transitional government? :confused: . Somalis need to work together, til then we will have foreign troops in Hamar. wa salaam

I would say most somalis speak negetively of their culture, and they are just trying to come up with an excuse as to go out/marry an outsider. I hear lota of somalis going "oh I hate somali culture, oh I hate somalis ..god whats with this somalis..etc" . Certainly, without a doubt with every culture there is negetive aspect to it. However, there is no need to talk shit abt our culture, if u wanna date a guy/girl from another culture, go for it there is nothing w/ that either. But, for once I dont wanna hear ppl speaking bad of somalis, be proud of who you are. As we Started eating this Xalimo with riff rag wig appeared marching out of no-where, she proceeded to shouting and screaming the place down, clearly a domestic issues was going down, so I got up and left........ made my way home and as I passed his car, I scraped the shiny paint with my keys lol ibti what a date eh ? and u just left em eating all by emself and not only that u had the nerve to scrap his car...god I feel sorry for him what was he thinking taking u out. ..whoe hold on did you just say you saw her pick a jar of water and pour it all over him lol why did u leave ? u should have waited to figure out what exactly was happening , there is a possiblity he dumped her for you .. salaam

^^ Ye all well said. Why else would u advocate for something unless u agreed with it and believed in it yrself. Honestly, I wouldnt know why a muslim individual would advocate gays to attain rights? they dont deserve any rights.But certainly we do have to tolerate. I said it was natural, innate and inherent. I based my argument on the fact that sexual urges have no default positions. If I put you in a desert island with no females for company, I daresay you’ll be tempted to abuse the local sheep (no offence intended) lol lets say ur theory is correct and that if a man was left in a desert island den he will abuse whateva crosses his path. Are u saying all this gay ppl simply lack woman's company? which ofcourse is absurd. Anyhow the whole notion that gay is natural is just plain ******. I think it is pretty obvious that u are losing yr sanity. :rolleyes: wa salaam

this whole thing is confusing me kolay lol and why the hell are u interested unless u are interested to get married to yr mother's husband's father which I think would be way too old for u hahaha

^^Crystal gota admit u have a way with words lol@ sniffing my hair. anyhow Mn aint that different from Toronto. Where men come in packs just to sit and bullshit for hours and stare at every somali sister who enters. so do avoid those kinda coffee shops. As the laughter dies down, then ask the group "Are you guys 'fadhi ku dirir?'" The laughter will peak again, and this time notice the vigorous shaking of heads as each man protests "no, no, no," while pointing to other tables around the coffee shop that are filled with debating Somalis. Boi, did it hit a nerve lol... wa salaam

“O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their bodies (when abroad) so that they should be known and not molested” (33:59). Wearing Hijaab is a must on a Muslim sister. Allah swt had mentioned in the Koran that is it only for our benefit that we are being modest. The main purpose of wearing is to protect ourselves, and so we won’t be judged by our appearance but rather our inner personalities. But, it is not just about the dress, you would see lot of sisters out there dressed islamically alhmadu lilaah, yet flirting with brothers. It was actually just yesterday at work when I saw this Pakistani girl with a veil flirting with a brother. So basically my point is a sister must be modest in every way- the way she dresses, the way she interacts with others. Also, lot sisters out there are giving a wrong impression about what Islam is all about, you would see them wearing hijaab and tight jeans? So is Islam all about wearing head cover? I know it is our personal choice as to how we are going to dress and Allah swt will deal with each one of us. But, if we are going to wear the hijaab, I think it would be the best choice, to cover as we should and conduct ourselves as we should. May Allah guide us all Wa salaam

Khalif I understand that we need to struggle against such acts, I just think we cant change it and just a question how do u think we should struggle against it?? we just been here for the last what? 15 yrs or so. so if we cant tolerate this society we can go back home or move to muslim country as I suggested earlier. wa salaam

if one is happy don’t bother me attitude with haraams and this is a great evil mentioned in the Quran Khalaf brother it is not about oh that brother is gay and he is happy being gay den who cares if it is haraam or not. we are simply not in a position to change their laws. Since we live here we gota tolerate them. I dont mind tolerating them , the only thing I would put a great emphasize on is why and why would they introduce pro- gay children's book :mad: wa salaaaam

The point I agree with you this isn't about gay rights. when kids are as young as five, they cant even defferentiate between whats wrong/right. so, kids are being taught to view homosexuality in positive light, and that is totally wrong. caano I agree with u in terms of tolerating it,, tolerating something u view as "wrong" since the law accepts it.But, what I am against is the fact that kids are learning to accept homosexuality. now there is huge difference between tolerating and accepting.... wa salaam

caano geel the whole point is the fact that your child at such a young age is being exposed to the notion that "homosexuality" is NORMAL. your child is attaining a wrong definition for the concept family?? so yes in the long run your child might actually want to be in the same sex relationship, after all he/she doesnt even know what family is??? salaams p.s. I think the solution would be either send your child to Islamic school, and make sure u are always available to set them right. Or, raise them in muslim country.

cambaro sister we are in a country where there is so many Kufars where they have no morals. They dont want to draw the line as to whats a family? now they want to convence everyone two men/two women can adapt kids and become a nuclear family? how absurd is that? so I wouldnt be surprised that they want younger kids to be brainwashed and see homosexual as something acceptable, given they have to work hard to implement their disgusting morals on the younger generations. which is why I would advice never raise yr kids down here, you are simply taking a chance. May allah guide us. wa salaam

I dont know why anyone should care what others say about them. Whether you wear the hijaab or not should be a personal choice, u shouldnt conduct yrself in a certain way because you are afraid of the society, or you are looking to attain acceptance. The only one you should seek acceptance from is Allah swt. so you all do make a du'a for that old woman, and all those ppl out there who are afraid to identify themselves as muslims. In contrast, we should be proud of the fact that we are muslims, and practicing muslims may I add. wa salaaamu alaikum

Crystal this is what I came up with ,,,the name Kamaal..where when u take the 1st letter,,,it is a girl's name Amal...and when u take the 1st 2 letters it is mal as in "wealth"... salaams

Lily actually I own a somali passport , I havent use to it though so whats yr point lol wa salaamz

I am proud to be somali , no question about that. SOMALIA HA NOLAATO!! wa salaamu alaikum

A female flew them there. how come I never thought of that, she did said "nina ma wadin" ..dabcan qof dumara uun waday lol... shaahii oo qaboobay oo baraf noqday baaba i soo gaadhaya markaa Jacaylbaro cab oo mahadsanid dheh, kolay waxba la'aan soma ku dhaamo.... dad dhan aaba kusoo shaqeeeye ....gacanyaheeenkaaga hunguri maanto dhan ibtisaam sida ee kugu soo dirtay waxkala qabanayeye wa salaams

qof ka mid ah 50 qof ee saarna diyarada.. salams

ofcourse u knew inuu saa noqonayo ..aduu ka bartay waxanoo dhan ..laga baray laga badi somalid dhahdaa hahaha

lol sister u just insulted our intelligence ......bt good one though. salaams

crystal clear u said u gonna give us a hint , and u havent given us one..so come on give us a hint...stop repeating yrself it is very easy kulaheed lol ana madaxaaba igu xanuunay!! wa salaaam How about mr charming came by and took me on his Jet cuz he happens to travel by jet 24/7 ..