Socod badne lemme give u an advice, just be yourself Speaking about money, ofcourse u gota have a career. But, u dont have to be filthy rich, that aint important.As money won't buy you happiness! wa salaam

Mz I think it should go both ways, both a husband/wife should strive to please one another. wa salaam

Buuxo u do have a point there sis. But,I think somali men contributed a great deal, once we get rid of them ( send dem to dat planet) we will establish peace. wa salaam

In addition, you ladies should quit discouraging these young men Zafir , that is what u wrote walaal. which u were implying somali ladies should encourage their men for a change. Anyhow, it was an advice. take it or leave it. wa salaam

Zafir walaal u have western and unislamic ideology. The only advice I have is if you want a close intimate relationship do it in a halaal way. Get married. wa salaamu alaikum

I don't see why one would have to read books to learn howta kiss. What is their to learn about kissing, I think some of u have too much time in their hands. can some one please get a shiekh, and get these ppl married off.. Anyhow, just wanted to point out, that physical love usually comes before marriage ( like oh that brother is cute bla bla my heart beats wen I c him and shet like dat--which is ofcourse temporary), but to truly love someone only comes after a long relationship, years of marriage. So you guys dont need to kiss every one that u meet , to perfect the art of kissing as u lot put it. it is not how you kiss , it is who u share that kiss with. wa salaamu alaikum

I think we should send all somali men to that planet that has been found. Somalia will be better off, if we (women) were ruling ?? dont u guys think so?? lol wa salaaam

Don't rekittle the dust inabti, it has settled. walaal arinta waan dajinayay, waxay aheed in aad si positive ah u aragtid. Aniga hada miyaan wax xumeeyey, taasi wa maya. Waxkastana wax weyn ayaad ka dhigta, take it easy, wax walbana negetive loma qato. wa salaaaam

Laakin Aaliyah, waxaa tiri, 'i don't like or dislike red' . okay inabti, what can I do to win your heart or perhaps come across as kind, caring, loving, brother who himself likes you regardless. Thanks for your kind words. Sometimes you are rude and thoughtless when speaking of somalis from certain regions, try to be more fair in the future. wa salaam.

Soo mal, Good job, you were fair and didn’t take sides, and more importantly you tried to offer some solutions. Xanthus, Why don’t you leave Garaad alone? Since you started criticizing Garaad, unless you want to debate with him about real issues. Both Garaad and Red sea are arguing about secession and unity, they both made similar comments, I don’t see why one should criticize one side of the conflict and not the other. Maybe you need to reduce your contributions to political section, like you suggested before.

I never said anything about you being a good person or a bad person Since you mentioned in your post that you were joking around, I wont take it personal. But, this is what you wrote : Sis stop going to the politics section so much, lool it changes your preception of people, for example i though Xalan was a nice guy till I went to the Poltics section lool, changed clothes as they say. Which ofcourse could only mean, the longer I posted in the politics section, my perception would change. If I understood it incorrectly please do clarify. (I'm kind of surprised you are defending someone who wants to wipe off half of Somalia just because they have different views) Xanthus I did not defend Xalane. All I said was why did you single him out, and if you read my post accurately you would see that I stated that he was the same as everyone else that was banned from the forum. I know people dislike red for his views because I see people bring up the issue all the time in other sections, hence my comment. Xanthus, from my point of view dislike/like shouldn't even be the issue when discussing politics. I dont like or dislike Red. Simply, I think he has a political view that he doesn’t even back up with any valid reasons. den again, People don't always have to agree with one another. We are both adults, i expect you to make your point without insulting me or belittling anyone's view Yeh sis we are both adults, and of course people would disagree on many different aspect of life not just politics. Also, I do not recall insulting you. If I did point it out. wa salaamu alaikum p.s. from now one u are xanthus!! ...magaca ibtisaam maxa ku nacday lol wa iga su'aale?? :confused:

See the title of the topic and you'll be fine Jacaylbaro lol so he can't imagine saying " I love you" to any girl...Lord he is cold. badacas lol haday saa tahay ya ku guursanaya?? No One, I am assuming.so u better learn how to say it, Unless u wanna hit 60s single, thats another story

their is no clan-boundry that hinders true love. Robleh, that was the point I was trying to make, Percisely. ^^^How loooool ^^YOu bully^^ loool. Sis stop going to the politics section so much, lool it changes your preception of people, for example i though Xalan was a nice guy till I went to the Poltics section lool, changed clothes as they say Ibtisam are u implying that I am no longer a good person because I started posting in politics section.lol I wonder why?? Is it because I stated that we shouldn't divide somalis, and we should stay as a one nation? lemme put it this way, is my political perception conflicting with yrs?? are u implying that perhaps since I dont agree with you, then, I should stop posting?? and why did you single out Xalane?? why not Alle-ubaahne, Fanisha , or Ebonique, it is because they were promoting your personal political stand. Personally, Xalane was the same as the rest of them, they all needed to learn howta express their views without insults. Buuhoodle isn't that far fetched from my dad's hometown, Burco, in fact they are in the same state, Togdheer. So inabti waxba ha inaka fogayn, timir iyo lafteed ayaan nahay, dad walalo ah ayaan nahay, sokeeyana ah. Taas ayaan aaminsanahay inabti. Red walaal, hanakala fogeen waxay? so anigan ku leh qabiil mesha ka saar . taas oo cadeenasa in aan rabo somali in ay hal umad wada noqoto, oo qabiil ey isku qeebin. wa salaamu alaikum

it is not how I took it, it is how u represented yourself. Finally, you admitted that you are into yr qabiil,crazy abt it would be more like it . Anyhow, enjoy yr day !!! ---------------- "To be without knowledge is to be without light"

Your words revealed otherwise, do I have to qoute you again..guess not... ---------------- "To be without knowledge is to be without light"

Welcome Back Aaliya Walaashiis Hunguri thanks walaalo. Now that I am done with all my exams I will be around more often aaliyah, I love my hargeysawi girls, and they are in my wish list too. No one knows what's gonna happen but god. Robleh, The point I was trying to make is you shouldnt generalize, let fate take it is course. Don't go oh I am going to marry a girl from that certain qabiil. How would you know?? your tribe doesnt determine your character. Hargeysawi ladies I have to say are Allah's gift to mankind Red, adiga hadaladaado dhan wa bila substance, wa hadal ku saleesan qabiil uun. Ku laha gift to mankind lol do u truly believe in that?? :rolleyes: Barina nola imow Hargeysa aa ilaahay Janna ka dhigay lols ..walahi kulama yabeen... ---------------- "To be without knowledge is to be without light"

Ilaahay Jana fardowsa ha ugu abaal mariyo insha-allah. Sabar iyo Imaana alle ha niga siiyo. Dabcan wa la wada dhiman, it is just a matter of time. Waxa kaliya ee muhim ah, in loo wada shaqeesto. wa salaamu alaikum

You mean other than having different coloured body parts, hiding from the sun and winking at men and chatting them up all from behind their jalabee's, if that is not spooky enough I don't know what is! ibtisam sis jacalbaro wax la hadlo oo ihtiraamu helay ee u dhaaf lol, gabadh hargeysa kasoo kaxeeso ku dheh , anaguna ducaan ugu darnay but I am definitely in the mood for courtship to have a wife from borame. They're beautiful and nice, my kind of woman. Robleh walaalo just because a girl is from borame doesnt mean she is nice and all that. I think it all depends on the individual, their manners, values etc. It is good to avoid generalization. wa salaam

Mz lol sis for da most part I am easy going, just sum ppl dnt know howta think b4 dey speak. :rolleyes: I can't picture myself saying that word in straight face...maybe to my wife I would, but to a girl during our shukaansi session...haka yaabin. What word would dat be?? Just curious??

pi do you suppose that English is every one's 1st lang. I am sure u are well aware of the fact that somalis have been raised in Europe, North america, Africa, Asia ..u name it. so plz spare us this shit. They prolly speak tons of other languges, and I bet same cant be said about u. wa salaamu alaikum

Ali somali even though it is his choice if he wanted to become a homo, like I dont giva dam about that. But, as u said he could be with a somali sister, and doing this behind everyone. I doubt he is confident to confess. so please by all means do get the word out that he is gay, at least to the sisters. So they can stay away from him. wa salaam

Ilaahay haka dhigo nimanki umadooda iyo dadkoodo wax tara. Somali wax bartay, wa wax aan ku faraxno, oo aan ka qudwo qaadana hadii alle yidhaahdo. Qofkii dadaala ilaahay wax wa la qabanaya. wa salaaamu alaikum p.s. lol xanthus = ibtisaam ----------------------- "To be without knowledge is to be without light"

ewwwwwwwwwww Gedid this is not a joke. come up with something else. cuz I fail to see the humor in it. salaaam

lol you can't compare drinking tea to wearing that shaash thingy, I wouldnt survive without tea actually coffee to be percise lol. But, the other thing iz hey it could actually be to one's advantage lol, I mean hell who wants to be chatted up on the streets . No one right. So hey girl keep wearing it lol..

lool I doubt any one knows what that shaash stands for , they would think it is traditional clothes. Ofcourse, older ppl might be able to differentiate, such as MMA. asagoo kale wuxu odhan laha tan wa la qaba, mid kale la shekesanaya lol wa salaaam