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I personally don’t know who sungub is. I have seen him in "qabyo part one and two" when I watched it a while back. He is quite an actor, and actually as actor he does excel, all his jokes were funny and hilarious. I personally thought he was a kool actor. Again, I recently saw him on TV giving a speech that he supports somaliweyn. I had quite respect for him. However, I did hear this story a while back, but I thought there was more to it and that he was being framed. But, if this girl actually taped their conversation and he admitted then it must be true. It is disgusting and my heart goes out for that girl that went though it, I am sure it must have been hard for her to admit and discuss such matters given that we are Somalis. Anyhow, if this dude is sick then he should be put away for good, I don’t know why he still being welcomed in our society in a respectful manner. Personally, I believe in innocent till proven guilty, if this girl has a prove then what are we waiting for? How can we still be okay with him being around?? I have younger sisters, some of you have kids, I am sure we would want them to be safe, and this matter should be taken seriously. There is still this question that I have been thinking about. Who leaves their 10 years old child without being supervised by an adult? Or was he babysitting her? Wa salaamu alaikum

I second that Kool Kat. Happy Canada day and Somali day. people do enjoy yourselves as much as you can wa salaamu alaikum p.s. ilaahay dalkeena ha inoo hagaajiyo.aamin

I just thought maybe we could ask one another some questions regarding our religion. That way perhaps we could learn from one another so see if you guys can answer the following questions, and yeh come up with questions of your own. Jazakalaahu khyr. 1.The main purpose of fasting is described in the Qur'an is? a.so that you may remember hunger b.so that you may attain taqwa or God-consciousness c.so that you get more healthy d.so that you may get more wealth 2.To which country did the Muhammad (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) go for the first time on a trade journey, with his uncle? a.Abyssinia b.Iraq c.Yemen d.Syria 3.How long did Abu Bakr (radiAllahu anhu) rule as a Khalifah a.2 years and 3 months b.3 years and 9 months c.7 years and 4 months d.10 years and 4 months Enjoy! wa salaamu alaikum

Perhaps you should try Brothas instead Brotheris :confused:

They sing about her looks…………………. So what if she has a hot oil accident tmwr? Or becomes disabled? It’s all over? It’s not often you hear about anything else, say intelligence or kindness or personality. How utterly superficial. I am not convinced Lily, I know if a relationship was to last all that matters is personality and intelligence. But, there is nothing wrong with having songs where they emphasize on looks. I am sure I would appreciate if a brother sings for me, and goes how stunning I look when I smile and what not, makes you feel extra special I guess. Lol I am not shallow believe me, it is just hey why you would refuse if a brother took the extra mile to praise you. don't be oh he gota be realistic, maybe he is being realistic maybe that is what he thinks of you. so take it and please ppl stop complaining ..Like I remember seeing in a show last time, if a girl was given lots of chocolate she will be like oh why did you get me so much chocolate it is gonna make me fat, she will tell him like u know aren't u thinking abt my well being, don't you want me to look sexy. And, if he gets her small piece of chocolate she goes "hey do u think I am fat" ..LIKE are we ever satisfied ?? As for if some one even becomes disabled or gets into an accident, I believe if you loved that person, than what makes your love for him/her even more strong is being with them when they actually need you the most. I am certain there will still be something that you like about them, as love isn’t just about looks. Looks might bring you together at first; like oh that brother oh that brother is so handsome I forgot to breath and what not. But, after I guess it gets more complicated you find lot of other things in common. By the way, “beauty is in the eyes of the beholder”, there is no concrete definition for beauty, perhaps they might be disfigured and lack the outer beauty but they still have that personality and that intelligence that brought you two together. As they say that is “Love”. Wa salaamu alaikum

Hurda kama bogtoo Barkin baan ku tiirshaa Boga iyo calooshee Beerkaan u seexdaa Bar barada ma qabanaayee anigoo bur burayoo Dhinacyadu i barareen waagu ii baryaayee intii aan bad qabayee Hawshiisu igu badan Ha u baran lahaayaa Ha u bixin lahaayaa iminkoo bastay ahay Baroor miyaa wax ii qaban? Bogsan maayo oo Bilic iyo Nasiibkay midna u baxsan waayee Cad ceedaa bidhaantiyo Bil waliba Bishii kale igu sii balamisoo Badal iigu jiidee Bari iyo maanta Naftaan Been u sheegaa intii aan bad qabayee Hawshiisu igu badan Ha u baran lahaayaa Ha u bixin lahaayaa Boogti Jacylka by duniya axmed baraxoow It is an awesome song, if any one wants to listen to it; just click on the following Link, Enjoy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k-TzLbIBreg wa salaamu alaikum

^^^I heard he is looking for a Minyar Caravaggio lol I am not interested in him that way But, masha-allah he gave a great speech when he came down here, one that was inspiring. I am sure he will make such a fine Garaad wa salaamu alaikum

nice pictures chief. Jacaylbaro yeh he is from laascaanod. He was invited in Toronto a while back. We got educated and wise Garaad I was certainly impressed. wa salaamu alaikum

Dumar kale ma caashaqin Hadal dambe kumaan oran Dooqaagu wuxuu rabo Kolan deenba kuu galo Wali diiday kuma oran this is one of my favorite songs. How can u not be moved by this song dumar kale ma cashaqin hadal danbe kumaan oran .....man where you can find a brother like that , meel igu tilmaama wa salaamu alaikum

So WE CAN SAY GOD IS LOVE. King Koya, I am not sure if that statement makes much sense either. But, without a doubt God is loving and merciful to his creations. As for Saudi men cheating on their women, I am certain that is generalization. You can find all kinda ppl everywhere those who cheat, and those who r faithful. ^^^A woman once wrote: when women say 'I love you' all men hear is 'hey caveman, yo caveman, want to make a baby!?'. Lol that was funny Paragon xagaad kasoo akhrisay ? wa salaamu alaikum

^^^crystal clear lol u are a joker walahi...

In one of my previous posts I wrote : However, I would say if a woman has a man who can work and provide for his family then she shouldn’t rush to work outside her home, at least for the first few years of her child’s life. This should tell you that I totally understand those who are forced to work in order to provide for their families. And, I am not insulting anyone; it is quite obvious which alternative is better for a child. So, if a woman has some one else to provide, than it would be in the best interest of her child if she stayed home. kee wanagsan hoyo ilmaheeda korsata , ama daycare ??? dhaqan/diin/adaab/ ama luqad mid toono ma lagu bari toono daycarekaaas, hadad jeclaateen geesta. Anu waaba ka daalay murankan walaalayaal Wa salaamu alaikum

I don’t consider banning khat is the solution. Why don’t we just educate Somali men, they need to know what they are getting themselves into. Whether, it is health, or financial aspects. I am certain education will make a difference. For instance, there is alcohol out there; I mean anyone who is over 19 is allowed to drink right. But, just cuz it is allowed doesn’t mean you should drink it. Just really knowing the negative aspect of it might prevent men from doing it. They need to be consistently reminded that it is not good for them. Bring them all together; ask them exactly what the hell do they gain from chewing that khat. Basically, they need a therapy, get them to discuss the negative aspect and the positive aspects (I am sure they will say, it makes them feel good momentarily). They need to know that the disadvantage outweighs the advantages. Also, setting goals to help them stop would be essential, and how they should face the withdrawal symptoms. They need quite some help; I think we should invest in therapies. We need to open clinic centers to prevent these Somali men from continuing these bad habits, which in the long run is risky for their health, finance, and for providing for their families. It is the Somali family’s future that is on stake. Broken families tend to lead to kids who are unstable, hang out with the wrong crowd, and who have a bleak future. Regrettably, that is exactly what is happening to many Somali kids, they don’t have a father figure at home. It is not just about helping those men; by helping them we protected a Somali family. My heart really goes out for those unfortunate families; I would have to say I am really lucky to have a father who doesn’t eat khat nor smoke, and that I should praise Allah swt for that. To have a good stable family one needs to have a good role model at home, that is where everything starts. Honestly, this issue should never be taken lightly. May Allah facilitate these goals, let’s make du’a. Wa salaamu alaikum

You see Rahimas contention is whilst we all have the right to an opinion and to express it. We also need to look at the bigger picture, we may differ in our styles but bottom line we will at one point be mothers at work. It doesn’t matter if your child is 1 or ten. Those negatives images of working mothers that you support now will come to haunt you when you ask for a day off to see your childs high school graduation or sports day... etc, etc Zenobia sis, you entirely misunderstood me. I was sharing my personal opinion in terms of sending young kids to daycare. I have never said a mother shouldn’t get respect from her employer. Of course, an employer has to understand when a mother wants to stay home with a sick child, or as you have mentioned attend a graduation ceremony. Taking few days off to take care of your kids should be accepted. When it comes to how an employer should treat his employee, an employer has no right to decide when a mother can join the work force that is totally up to her. If she chooses to send her three months old baby to a daycare, no one really has a say in it. In that scenario, we should all support one another; a woman has the right to send her child whether he is one or 10 to daycare. But, I have shared my stand in terms of sending young kids to daycare, I honestly don't agree with those who send their young kids to daycare, but it is their right to live their life However they choose. That is the beauty of life; everyone is unique and has different perspective on issues. wa salaamu alaikum

umu zakaria I am so happy that everything went well alhmadulilaah. Mohamed is such a fine name. you have chosen well. Hambalya walaal, waxaan rajayna adiga iyo ilmahaga in aad nolol wanagsan qeebsataan, uuna ilaahay kaaga dhigo wiil baari ah kuna jecel umadiisana jecel. amin amin wa salaamu alaikum

I don't believe that the first child will be any smarter than the rest. It all depends on the environment. If you provide for your child enriched environment,at home and at school they would tend to be smart and well-rounded. There has been lot of studies taking place, and kids who have smart parents, or parents w/ professional careers tend to excel academically. That shouldn't be surprising given that they are daily being exposed to more academic life style. Rudy, qumayo = some one with an evil eye, or some one who brings bad luck. something along those lines, can't come up with one word to sum the meaning of it. wa salaamu alaikum

click on the following link.It is hilarious... http://www.jibjab.com/originals/this_land wa salaamu alaikum

^^^lol@ halmar dhiiqada si fiican u gal.. I think it is good to have kids who are close in age, so like have two or three kids who are a year apart, that way they will play and keep each other company. Three or four years would be enough, if you choose to have more kids. Wa salaamu alaikum

BREAKING NEWS: Pregnant Ohio Mom's Boyfriend Accused of Murder CBNNews.com June 23, 2007 CBNNews.com - Authorities say they have arrested the boyfriend of missing pregnant woman on murder charges, and have confirmed the body is hers. Canton Police found Jessie Marie Davis' body at 3:30p.m. in a lake park. The suspect, Bobby Cutts Jr, has been arrested for the death of Davis and her unborn child and will be arraigned on two counts of murder on Monday, June 25. Police say they will "vigorously" prosecute this case. Watch the news conference in the video above. WHBC radio reported that the suspect confessed earlier Saturday to killing Jessie Davis, however this report has not been confirmed. Davis' family was called into the sheriff's department for a 6p.m. news conference with the Stark County sheriff's office in Canton, where the current charges against Bobby Cutts Jr. Were announced publicly. Davis had been missing for a week from her home, where her 2-year-old son was found alone amongst dirty diapers. Source: Fox News, WHBC radio, Associated Press

Liberal muslim country eh ??.. I honestly never will understand How muslims try to differentiate between themselves with liberal,moderate, extreme muslims??? You are either muslim or not. This so called liberal muslim country is worst than western countries. :mad: subhanalaah, May Allah guide them. wa salaamu alaikum

P.S. Aaliyah you best be be careful with the only wanting three children choice. I mean really, we as Muslims should be aiming to have as many children as possible- it really is extremely westernised of you to want to limit like that. What is that you say? It's your choice? You know what is best for you? I should mind my own business? Every individual is entitled for their own personal choices. No one has the right to dictate some one else’s life. But, we are permitted to express our opinions. I do understand where you are coming from sister in terms of having big families. Religiously speaking it is encouraged to have a big family. But, this is not about preferring to have small family. From my perspective, it is hard if not nearly impossible to have a career and raise let’s say 7 kids. When I get children, I believe in raising them on my own til they reach school age. If I was to do that with 7 kids lol, what is the chance that I would go back and work ?? most likely I wouldn't work. So, having smaller family is what works for me. However we all make choices which are best for us, and just like Aaliyah would appreciate it if others respected her right to family plan she should respect others and their choices. Rahima sis I do object sending kids to daycare when they are young, which I mentioned repeatedly in my previous posts. But, this doesn’t mean I don’t respect the mother who decides to send her child to daycare. In all my posts I was simply showing that it wouldn’t be something I would personally do given that I disapprove, and believe it wouldn't be good for the child. Likewise, perhaps you disagree with me choosing to have few kids, but that doesn’t mean you disrespect me, simply you don’t agree with my decision. wa salaamu alaikum

the one and only lol I guess the video was kinda ******. But, doesn't hurt to laugh

Congratulations Wol, May Allah bless your marriage insha-allah. Best wishes to a wonderful life with your husband. Noqda kuwii isku wara, oo hela ubad umadooda iyo dalkoodaba wax tara. Wa salaamu alaikum

lol this is funny video walahi, I didnt even expect it. I was thinking when they gonna start fighting then I thought the other guy just wanted someone to pray beside him. The dude runs an takes the other guy's spot. This was hilarious..and the slap that one I didn't expect either lol. But hey I guess he deserved it hahaha wa salaamu alaikum